jimb77
| | Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 26 | |
| | Why a virgin?Page 2 of 19 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19) | I am not the type of person who meets a man and then wants to know his stroke right away. Heck, I am 35 and still under 10 men.
Want to make it +1?
I see you were married a virgin. Your numbers are fine, wouldn't be an issue. What about the thread where the girl had done 83 guys and she was still in her 20s? some dopey guys are saying the past is the past and it doesn't matter! BS, it does matter. If it doesn't matter, go marry a prostitute. Sexual relations with anyone is a sign of low to no morals. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 3:55:23 PM | | a virgin? why the hell would i want to go thru all the trouble of training a virgin? In my experience and the opinions ive heard from my friends and co workers a virgin is the last thing on any of their minds. Maybe he's just a freak occurence , a hiccup in the grand scheme of things. | |
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kce33
| | Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 28 | |
| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 3:59:10 PM | who in hell wants a chic that can't or don't fuk..... what a waste
hell i have been a virgin for 2weeks, my choice, and i don't think its a big deal, a quick call to party girls would fix that....
LMAO have a 
kce | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 4:00:28 PM | Wow, I've always hated that type of phrase. Train a virgin.
You know, in my experience, I would have no problem dating a girl who was or wasn't a virgin. Some guys stick on girls who are virgins cause.. they have issues of some sort, and others stick on dating girls who aren't, with the typical reason being, "I want her to be experienced."
In this day and age, I can't imagine a virgin knowing absolutely nothing about sex. I really can't. When I lost my virginity to my highschool/college gf, she was a virgin as well. And now that I'm older, I think back and there's really not much difference that would have been made I don't think. Aside from her being possibly a bit shy about it, but then if I cared about the girl, it wouldn't make a bit of difference at all. If I was out looking for a quick screw or something by a pro, then yes, I'd want a pro... but for a relationship, you're gonna have love and understanding there already, so what's the big deal if she's never done it before?
Hm, sorry to rant off-topic, that phrase just strikes a chord with me. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 4:29:37 PM | jimb77,
Wow! You're straight up forward.
No, I don't want to add you to my short list of sexual experiences. I am saving myself for my hubby. I made the mistake by giving myself to a loser of a hubby and a few men I wasn't married to. But i have changed my thinking and i can wait till married. Love making is a special thing that two-in-love should share. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 7:51:29 PM | If it doesn't matter, go marry a prostitute.
can't comment on whether it matters or not, but some advice that sticks in my mind was a little "piece" I got from a man with serenity: "treat a lady like a whore or a whore like a lady; chances are, the differences won't seem so extreme in a while"... | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 7:55:18 PM | | I wish that there were more women like ABSA_N_TX | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 8:02:49 PM | It's like hiring for a job. You want someone with experience - just not over qualified.  | |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 8:07:45 PM | | No way Montreal_Guy. No experience required. A woman with love for you is all you need. Have you ever had a woman look at you and you knew that she was totally in love with you? That is the best thing in the world. Also a bit rare. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 8:16:37 PM | You can actually get that in women who have previously had sex you know...
I'm not saying I'd reject a virgin, I've just never run into one romantically. | |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 8:24:48 PM | OK, A little clarity on my last post. It is not really the quantity of the woman, but the quality. Normally the quality is better with a women with less miles so to speak. Just a personal point of view. I have not done many test drives.
To the women that read this. I know that I compared women with cars, but you also have to realize that I am chatting so far with other guys and I needed a metaphor that most of them understand. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 9:36:08 PM | Why motorcyles are better the men
Motorcycles are better then men because:
Motorcycles don't complain if you spend too much time with a man.
Motorcycle don't bring up past motorcycles.
When a motorcycle gets old you can trade it in.
When a motorcycle acts up you can fix the problem.
You don't have to check in with a motorcycle when you're out.
You don't get in trouble if you're out with till 3:00a.m.
Motorcycles won't check out women.
No matter what time you look at a motorcycle it always looks good.
No matter how PHAT a motorcycle gets it will just keep looking better.
A motorcycle will never tell you look bad and need to put make-up on.
Motorcycles don't get mad if you keep them in storage for a while.
Motorcycles never ****. whine, and complain.
Motorcycles are always faithful
You don't have to get to know a motorcycle before riding it
Motorcycles are never to tired.
Motorcycles can never be too small.
A motorcycle will never be rude, mean, or annoying.
A motorcycle will never screw you over.
A motorcycle will never ditch you for a better looking rider.
-They don't care if you burn dinner
-They vibrate at an idle
-They respond well to being kick-started
-They look better dirty
-They smell better when unwashed
-They cost less
-They are worth more
-When you are tired of riding, you can tie them down in your truck and go home....
NOW MEN, What do I need you for?
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 9:39:23 PM | LOL!!! Why motorcyles love women. They know that sooner or later a woman will lay them down.
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| | Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 39 | |
| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 9:50:36 PM | Well isnt he a nice piece of work,lol.most people by twenties or up im sure are not virgins.I understand most people dont want a partner that has slept around,but even nice people usaully have one or 2 partners,and maybe more who knows? he certainly got what he was looking for at present but wanted something different for later.thats what bugs me sometimes,some people want you to sleep with them but wont respect you after,that s why im waiting for the right person,this way we can respect each other.and care.im glad you told him to get lost.good luck finding the nice person you deserve. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 10:17:06 PM | I think the whole vigin thing is just because of the "purity" image it projects.
However, personally i think its important for people (men and women) to explore their sexuality because its a big part of being with someone.
I like an experienced woman for 2 reasons:
1) she's been able to explore and i know that if im doing my job right physicaly and otherwise then she wont have any reason to leave me. Curiosity is a big problem, a lot of ppl get into long term relationships without going out and exploring life, and then later they start to wonder....what if?
and 2) she's probably going to be a little more openminded if she's had sex before.
and when i say "been able to explore" i mean within reason......i couldnt date a girl who sleeps with football teams in their spare time.
happy new years to everyone else who is alone tonight!!!
i hate holidays!!!!!!!!!
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 10:23:25 PM | | That is so wrong. I held onto my V untill the mid twenties. I am glad that I did. There are a lot of people that hold onto it. Studies show, as far as women in collage go, that the percentages are rising in the number of people that are holding onto it untill they are ready. This is the best thing I have heard in a long time. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 10:25:16 PM | And, from what I understand talking to some younger friends, those new virgins today are not quite all technically...virgins.
They are physically, by the classical definition.
It's that old Clinton " Kinda depends on your definition of sex" defense. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 10:38:11 PM | | That may be so. But I never go oral. I would hope that they would not either. | |
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Posted: 12/31/2005 10:49:18 PM |
A July Washington Post article described an "unsettling new fad" in which suburban middle-school students were regularly engaging in oral sex at one another's homes, in parks and even on school grounds; this piece reported an oral sex prevalence estimate, attributed to unnamed counselors and sexual behavior researchers of "about half by the time students are in high school."
In April 2000, another New York Times article on precocious sexuality quoted a Manhattan psychologist as saying "it's like a goodnight kiss to them" in a description of how seventh- and eighth-grade virgins who were saving themselves for marriage were having oral sex in the meantime because they perceived it to be safe and risk-free.
When I was in highschool ( back in those days where T-Rex ruled the Earth) , getting a "hickey" was considered sex. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 10:52:35 PM | | That is ok, I had sex once. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 11:24:23 PM | | I can honestly say I have never known any guys, myself included, that gave a rat's back side about a woman's virginal status. You must be surrounded by a rare group. Your profile says your 35, if he's in the same age bracket I wish him the best of luck in his search. One would have to be rather delusional to go on that quest. You might want to ask for proof of sanity from future prospective dates. Best of luck in that one too. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 11:30:22 PM | | i feel really bad i am 24 and almost 70 female partners and i reget everyone of them because they weren't the one and i hope everyone will forgive me | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 12/31/2005 11:47:02 PM | | Well wellandman, just to let you know, you are a total whore! | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 1/1/2006 12:10:26 AM | I think that it is a good thing for girls to remain virgins until marriage.
But it doesn't make you a horrible person if you have already experimented with sex.
Guys on the other hand , can do what ever they want . That's just how society is today . However , if they had any respect for themselves or their female and themself, as a couple love each other . Then they would be careful and respect their girlfriend's wishes.
Men and women need to be very careful .
Sex isn't a game, it's a part of life. Therefore it isn't to be played with. | |
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| Why a virgin?
Posted: 1/1/2006 12:20:32 AM | | That is very true ABSA_N_TX. Although I dont think that it should be any different for the guys. | |
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