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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say I.
Posted: 8/30/2006 10:46:37 PM | "Hey just because most of us are not virgins does not make us immoral. Funny how I can't stand pretentious people".
You want protentious? looking down on somebody or thinking they're strange or abnormal because they are virgin that's protentious. Nobody said having sex is immoral. What angers me are ignorant people who simply can't grasp the concept of waiting to have sex. Like people who wait are doing something wrong yet people who sleep around are considered liberated and well adjusted. (sugarcoat it all you want it's not true) It's like you have to have sex and if you're not having it there is something wrong with you. Sex is something you should do because you want to not because somebody else tells you to I'm pretty sure a great deal of people lost their virginity because of peer preasure. | |
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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say I.
Posted: 8/30/2006 11:16:24 PM | Yeah I'm still a virgin. What's up everyone?
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it was a JOKE (gain a sense of HUMOR) oh wait - it's coming to me now - you're like 1/2 of everyone else on this site - YOU don't have one just like they dont either.
Why is it when someone makes an a$$ of themselves, that they always down play whatever they did as a joke, sarcasm, or whatever... Take ownership.
You want protentious? looking down on somebody or thinking they're strange or abnormal because they are virgin that's protentious. Nobody said having sex is immoral. What angers me are ignorant people who simply can't grasp the concept of waiting to have sex. Like people who wait are doing something wrong yet people who sleep around are considered liberated and well adjusted. (sugarcoat it all you want it's not true) It's like you have to have sex and if you're not having it there is something wrong with you. Sex is something you should do because you want to not because somebody else tells you to I'm pretty sure a great deal of people lost their virginity because of peer preasure.
Well said man.
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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say I.
Posted: 8/31/2006 6:40:57 AM | Believe it or not, I was technically a virgin when I met my wife.
Now I regret every minute I lost because of my stupid morality.
I don't look at down virgin because I was one once. But I do think they're stupid if they have the chance, and not take it. | |
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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say I.
Posted: 9/4/2006 2:51:35 PM | Good for you!
I also have to say "I", or is it "Aye". I also have not french kissed/regular kissed/hugged/anal sex/oral sex/dated/held hands/cuddled/petted/sent flowers,candy,cards/or anything else. Ha, top that! | |
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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say I.
Posted: 9/4/2006 4:41:37 PM | awww! i think the no hugging thing is sad. besides, how did you get through high school graduation without hugging members of the opposite sex?
no friends? | |
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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say I.
Posted: 9/4/2006 4:54:35 PM | | Actually no I don't have any, but then I didn't go to my graduation. I got my diploma in the mail. I'm not much on big crowds and I don't care for ceremonies. I graduated just the same without that. | |
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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say I.
Posted: 9/28/2007 5:59:11 PM |
there's NO-one on this site young enough to BE a virgin (they don't make virgins older than 12 these days)! .....It may come as a surprise to you, but some people do still have morals, and ethical values in their life, just because your not one of them, doesn't mean no one else is.
That's vocel (voluntary celibacy). There are also a sexuals who do not have a sex drive. Finally there are people like myself who are incels (involuntary celibates). | |
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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say I.
Posted: 9/28/2007 6:26:01 PM | Okay, so that I'm not completely off topic. I am still a virgin. I didn't really want to post that on the Interwebs, but then again what do I care? I can probably still bang better than a lot of you (I'm still intimately familiar with the dealings of the vagina courtesy of my last girlfriend).
Now to venture somewhat off topic with regards to Moin Amour:
I notice that you seem to add that you are, as you call it, involuntary celibacy. In my opinion, which -- in reality -- means absolutely nothing, I consider it to be a bit of a crutch, and this coming from someone who thought that he was in the same boat for a while.
Your celibacy isn't really involuntary since that would imply that it's a situation that you have no control over. You do have control over breaking your life long dry spell, however at a financial and moral cost that you aren't readily willing to bear. Money replenishes itself and morality is flexible in dire circumstances. You voluntarily choose to not partake in certain services (unless you are deathly afraid of the societal equivalent of an apple pie, in that case I'm an idiot).
You are simply celibate and choosing to stay within your own moral standards. (With exceptions for the apple pie thing.)
I'm not trying to judge or come across as being pompous and insensitive. I'm just offering up my point of view with regards to the whole incel matter. Take it or leave it as you wish. | |
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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say I.
Posted: 9/28/2007 6:46:57 PM | Studies have shown that those that choose to hold off their entire lives, or at least until married, have warped views of sexuality in general and an overall lack of desire after witholding a natural human desire for years (decades?) of their lives after holding the view that intimacy is a mortal sin. Most virgins are religious based.
Done quite a bit of research on it, I find it fascinating that people can live in that manner.
Not talking 1 night stands or weekly flings, but to deny physical intimacy (including sex) within the confines of a long term relationship does damage to both parties in such a way that can never be recovered.
Google it and do some research, it's scary. Thank god for the 95% that realize the importance of intimacy in a relationship! | |
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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say I.
Posted: 9/28/2007 7:09:52 PM |
Studies have shown that those that choose to hold off their entire lives, or at least until married, have warped views of sexuality in ....
Studies have shown that those who say other's people's views of sexuality are "warped", have a warped medula oblongata. Seriously dude, get a CAT scan. Yours is probably shaped like a cat making love to a turnip. | |
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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say Yo Ho Ho and a bottle of Rum.
Posted: 9/28/2007 7:16:47 PM |
Okay, so that I'm not completely off topic. I am still a virgin. I didn't really want to post that on the Interwebs, but then again what do I care? I can probably still bang better than a lot of you (I'm still intimately familiar with the dealings of the vagina courtesy of my last girlfriend).
Sir, you have me as confused as a drunk at a tea party. "What? You mean we ain't sinkin' any ships?"
So ummm ... you're a virgin, but ... you're "intimately familiar with the dealings of the vagina"?
BTW, I'm not a virgin, but I play one on TV. | |
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| U knew it was coming, all virgins say I.
Posted: 9/28/2007 7:58:12 PM | | I wish i could say i was. What a waste that was. If only i had been a stronger person . I would not of let myself get brow beaten and shamed into having sex. | |
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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say Yo Ho Ho and a bottle of Rum.
Posted: 9/28/2007 8:12:52 PM | There are many socities and religions throughout the world that conduct right of passage ceremonies. At the end of these ceremonies the participant is declared a man or a woman and from that point on are held responsible for the decisions that they make and the actions that they take.
Unfortunately in Western society and in particular North American society there is no such right of passage ceremony. The sexual act has become that symbol. When you have your first sexual experience it is then that you are thought to be a man or a woman. Unfortunately because there is no ceremony, there is no reminder or acknowledgement of accepting responsibility and the importance and the meaning of the sexual act gets lost in a blaze of hormones. and because "doin' it" is the accepted determining factor, those who have not done it are consider abnormal and treated as outcasts. Funny thing is sex has nothing to do with becoming an adult and accepting responsibility for your decisions. Hopefully you've become an adult before you have sex.
For those of you who have remained virgins by choice, good for you.
For those of you who gave it up long ago, good for you. Just don't judge one another. Accept and respect the choices each of you have made. Those who are still virgins are not strange or wierd or broken. They are people of conviction and faith.
Be kind to one another. | |
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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say I.
Posted: 9/28/2007 8:14:33 PM | Do "born again" virgins count?
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If it's been a really, really, really, long time ... one could feel like a "virgin" ... right? | |
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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say I.
Posted: 9/28/2007 8:17:40 PM |
Your celibacy isn't really involuntary since that would imply that it's a situation that you have no control over.
I have not been able to get into a relationship. That is not a choice. I want a relationship that a prostitute can not provide and can not get it.
You imply I am a vocel because I have not paid for sex. You can extand that logic by stating that not raping a woman is also voluntary celibacy. | |
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| U knew it was comin, all virgins say Yo Ho Ho and a bottle of Rum.
Posted: 9/28/2007 8:21:10 PM |
Be more creative.
I actually don't hear that very often.
You can penetrate a vagina with other parts of your body and still not have your v-card revoked.
That's how it starts, man. Be careful, they'll tempt you. They're wicked, wicked temptors(temptresses?). They'll lead you into temptation, and pretty soon, you'll have "misplaced" your v-card and forgotten all about it. | |
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