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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/4/2006 2:10:55 PM | I think a number of good points have already been made and the people (male or female) who might judge one negatively for sharing such open and honest opinions are, mostly likely, not the sort of friend/lover/companion etc... that one would want anyway.
Of course I am one of those open, honest women and when someone asks me about sexual things, I answer honestly.
One of the issues I find is that some people don't know the difference between having a frank discussion about sex and having or initiating net sex, because when I am doing the former and then someone says something that shows me they thought it was the latter it can get rather awkward to say the least. | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/4/2006 3:42:51 PM |
what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time [\quote] I think it's cool. A lot of the women I have hung around have been really uptight when it comes to talking about sex. I've learned a few interesting things from the women on here and about women in general. Because of them sharing their likes/dislikes I have a better idea as to how to please a woman mentally and sexually. So..... THANK YOU ALL THE LADIES OF PLENTY OF FISH!  | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/4/2006 3:53:14 PM | Yeah Lakota, I was raised to think if I acted a "certain way" in the bedroom, even with my husband, I'd be considered a HO~~ No way... I've learned about pleasure and enjoyment and if you can't have that you might as well be almost dead or be dead~~
Plus, I've found out through many years of experience that most men don't like sexually "repressed" women...
So, careful who you call a HO ((cause I was married for almost 26 years)) | |
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Rhett1
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Joined: 10/16/2005
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/4/2006 4:27:30 PM | I think that if we don't discuss sex, then we don't get the full benefit of great sex.
There is a difference between coming on here and talking about it/seeking advice in a frank, mature manner, than telling everyone about every sexual experience you've ever had.
I've seen threads where someone is totally ripping apart a sexual partner, well, those people are obviously not very mature, or they would talk about it with the person in question, NOT the rest of the world!
Sex is supposed to be fun, satisfying and a way to express feelings to another person. Asking the opinions of others is a great way to build up your "repertoire" and make sex more fulfilling. I dated a man who couldn't talk about sex without getting embarassed, let's just say that our sex life was not very fulfilling. Of course, that was the way he was raised. In his family, sex was treated as a dirty, unspeakable act (of course, we all know that's true, IF DONE RIGHT!!).
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/4/2006 5:56:10 PM |
Vibrator.....I personally think you have lost it mate!! "Gangbanged by 3 others..." ....ffs....would you like to watch it too? Sick. Only in my opinion I may add! But, I am sure you are in a minority there matey. Both Female and Male. Nothing wrong with you wanting "the love of your life" being rooted by others while you contemplate what sexual benefits you may recieve like....but to be perfectly honest I cannot even contemplate the thought of it, let alone the act. (Where's the bucket?) For me, my partner is totally precious in every sense of the word!!
Maybe you should Re-read (at at least comprehend) my post. I was saying if she were to express that fantasy to me, I would not fly off the handle (like you have). You see.. we are human. We have thoughts. Sometimes they are pretty off the wall. Take the wildest and raunchiest thought you've ever had and multiply that by 3. That's how crazy HER thoughts can get.
The point is, when you freak out over her expressing herself sexually.. You close that door. Once you close that door once, it's very hard to re-open. Now you have a situation where she will never be honest with you for fear of the 'freak out'.
I didn't say I was going to let her 'get gangbanged'.. I said I would be willing to talk about it and explore it further together... as a fantasy. NOT as reality. But the fact is, she must feel comfortable enough with her partner to be able to say such a thing.
Does anybody understand me? | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/4/2006 8:17:44 PM | Keep on truckin'
I mean... When I was younger and inexperienced I felt very threatened by womens sexual desires and past experiences.
I've learned much since then.
If she is with you.. It's because she likes you.. Otherwise she would be with someone else. Period.
Now it's up to YOU to keep her both interested and satisfied. In fact.. I believe if both members of a relationship held their partners satisfaction and sexual happiness as their highest priority.. you would have a TON of smiling people in this world. | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/4/2006 9:03:29 PM | anotheraviator
I agree but it still is not awesome for men of women to post intimate details of their sexual experiences on these forums
I mean all of the people on here I will never meet probably so that does not matter
I still avoid posting graphic sexual details on here
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I just think it is 'low rent' to do that.......not very classy
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Ldygmr
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Joined: 12/19/2005
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/4/2006 9:10:34 PM | Guitar man~
That is your choice. And theirs. Some people have no other vent for their fantasies and desires and quirks. The forums are their muse and their shoulder to cry on. The very fact that it DOES hold anonymity (somewhat) helps. Some people get very little adult interaction outside of work and home. Both places that tend to develop ruts and neither places where you should be discussing your sex life. | |
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