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 Author Thread: Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
 jennthelpn

Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 26
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 9:37:10 AM
I wouldnt think so...........

I love waking up my man with a BJ....or him waking me up by spreading my legs.......mmmmmmmmm yeah, sleepy time sex rocks!!
 ~iiCe~

Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 27
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 9:38:00 AM
I love being woken up that way...

rape is a forceable act that is unwanted... if you wake your partner up this way and they tell you to stop... then you may have rape if you don't... among other problems...
 Garofalo7

Joined: 9/14/2005
Msg: 28
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 9:39:58 AM

Okay other people who I am friends with think this is rape and broke off a 6 year marriage because he did this... Whats your opinion??


Rape?????

ummmmm...no.

If I am married to a woman for 6 years, she's getting the best alarm clock on the market...ME
 Yardape_99

Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 29
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 9:42:54 AM
Alarm clock...followed by brushing her teeth....toothpaste included.
 Rosepedals

Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 30
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 11:42:25 AM
Wooohooo I am not a crazy nypho they think I am..... I love being spread for some late night snack or if he wants to start breakfast off early I am ready and willing.... bring it on baby .... and If it were rape the cops would have been at my house many times when I was in a relationship ...
 SXXXYLICIOUS2

Joined: 12/21/2005
Msg: 31
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 1:38:40 PM
Ummm...no, it's not rape. YOu are in a consensual relationship, in general, with a long time partner. And also, the sex is good and it pleasures you. Your friend must have been a little troubled.
 valtishia

Joined: 7/8/2005
Msg: 32
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 4:18:34 PM
Its just a sexual preference. Really no different then anything else: positions, toys or no toys, whips and chains or not, rought or gentle, women or men (maybe both)
personally I kinda like getting woken up that way too. always the best... right in the morning, puts a smile on my face for work :)
 ~M.J.E~

Joined: 9/4/2005
Msg: 33
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 4:20:29 PM
well what i'm with a girlfriend she can do what ever she want to do to me, when ever she wants to. if you ask me thiers no better way to wake up!
 webwanderer

Joined: 7/9/2004
Msg: 34
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 4:22:56 PM
I love being woken up that way and I have woken someone that way a few times
 belledejour

Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 35
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 5:37:11 PM
You don't break off a marriage because your hubby wants some nookie... that's an excuse. Being seduced while asleep, is ok if it's agreeable to you. It's not rape, because you can stop it (I can't imagine remaining asleep through it, can you?) but it is invading your partner's personal boundaries and body if this is something they don't agree want or solicit. I would tread carefully and get some feedback before even going there.
 bigirish

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 36
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 5:50:35 PM
i guess it depends on whether or not you went to bed by yourself or not!!!! For me, when im with someone, its the best way to start the day....well that and pancakes..but who has time for pancakes these days??/
 2much fun 4 -1

Joined: 1/2/2006
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 8:40:28 PM
Personally I think its one of the best ways to start the morning

If he/she is in your house or in your bed then u must trust them enough to be intimate with that person. The act of oral in the morning is a continuation of that intamacy from the night before. Plus if trust them enough to fall asleep with them then you must already feel some safety with them

If it had been so terrible the night before then you should have had them tossed before morning, and this whole "rape" thing wouldn't have happened

And if it ended a marriage there was a lot more wrong with the marriage then sex in the morning

I enjoy sex and like it a lot, so if prompted I would be there. More happens if u actually like the guy you know

In addition, I think we all know what the definition of rape is. it's universal so those u have questions: No means No, if you think she means No it mean No, If she resists it means No. Got it, get it, good
 Ldygmr

Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 38
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 9:04:32 PM

I love being woken up that way and I have woken someone that way a few times


Hey Webwanderer~
You can be my alarm clock ANYtime.

MMrrrow!
 webwanderer

Joined: 7/9/2004
Msg: 39
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 9:11:42 PM
The bonus is that I make a much less annoying sound when i do it too! There shold be a wakeup call service that does that lol.
 Becky B

Joined: 2/23/2005
Msg: 40
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 9:32:03 PM
i have woken up a couple of my past partners with oral, lol, too bad they didnt do the same thing

i am waiting for web to come to bc and do it for me.


and like someone said already, you cant rape the willing, lol.
 smilindad

Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 41
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 9:41:22 PM
i love being woke up by a bj puts a smile on my face no matter what time it is if you went to bed with them the night befor and didn't tell him no then it is not rape
 vkitty

Joined: 12/29/2005
Msg: 42
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 10:27:15 PM
*chuckle* Webwanderer maybe you should start up a wake up service Though now that I think about it.. generally I am the one waking up the other person. Nothing like nibbling on a sleeping person and slowing waking them up.
*looks at empty bed* waa
 battle pope

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 43
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 10:39:34 PM
sure it is. it woulnd't be sexy otherwise
 zoomadood

Joined: 11/2/2005
Msg: 44
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 10:48:30 PM
Only if it's by your family.



Kidding.
 zoomadood

Joined: 11/2/2005
Msg: 45
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 10:49:23 PM
And I mean that.
 scouse39B1

Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 46
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/4/2006 11:49:38 PM
theres no better way to wake up , or be woken up imho ..

since i love to spoon , more than once I was awoken by a very wet hot p_ssy eagerly using me like im a carnival ride and shes got a weekend pass ..

or waking her up with a breakfast nibble ... mmmmm

ah for the good old days .

ste
 HazelwoodBBW

Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 47
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/5/2006 2:09:29 AM
Heck no, not in my book...as long as he was there when I feel asleep...but then again...if he has a key...surprise is always a good thing too...but for me its a great way to start the DAY...Wouldn't have it any other way...
 Raymond8371

Joined: 9/3/2005
Msg: 48
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/5/2006 2:27:30 AM
Some of you people disgust me. "a breakfast nibble" ?? shut up.

I once scolded a girlfriend for waking me up like that and made her cry, which was a huge mistake, because not only did I have to console her, but then I had to have sex with her when the entire time I just wanted to go to sleep because I had to get up at the as$crack of DAWN. I need more than 4 HOURS OF SLEEP DAMNIT.

To stay on topic, the trick is to make sure she is unconscious, if she doesnt "wake up" then it cant be rape. Tell the judge that she snored and it sounded like a "yes".

Your married friend sounds like a frigid A$shole, throw her off of a bridge and sleep with her ex-husband. (for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health.... yeah right)
 Garofalo7

Joined: 9/14/2005
Msg: 49
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/5/2006 2:31:52 AM
Woa......

"Hey mister grumpy gills"
 Mesnafugal

Joined: 7/12/2005
Msg: 50
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 1/5/2006 2:55:11 AM
Ewwwww.... raymond.... are we a grumpy little mroning person??? LOL.. I dated someone like you, he couldn't even talk until he'd had at LEAST one cup of coffee in the morning. It took a while but I finally did teach him to give it up in the morning. You "scolded" a girl for waking you up for sex.. tsk tsk tsk... mean mean mean....

OH... and it might not be a breakfast "nibble" if could be the whole breakfast!!!

Now.. go get you some coffee.. and quickly!!!
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