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 mudloger1981

Joined: 9/13/2006
Msg: 76
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 10/6/2006 7:33:42 PM
greatest way to start the day a smile on your face before you wake up
 PlaynWithDummies

Joined: 9/18/2006
Msg: 77
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 10/6/2006 7:44:48 PM
wow, that is quite the question. Legally I am sure a lawyer would argue, if you had sex with her while she was asleep, regardless if you had sex with her the night before etc.... but she didnt consent to it, it could be constituted as rape because she was not aware of the act itself.

However, I dont mind been awaken that way. I mean, if he is in my bed when we went asleep, whew.... I would enjoy every second of it.
 sexywomen4u

Joined: 3/15/2005
Msg: 78
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 10/6/2006 8:06:21 PM
yes, morning sex is hot.......... it so nice that that special person wants u so bad that he just goes down and wakes u up with so much pleasure........ man gotta miss that.........
 sex_kitten_69

Joined: 8/10/2006
Msg: 79
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 10/6/2006 8:10:49 PM
wait ppl complain about being woken up with sex???wow.if only..
 thegreatrockyhill

Joined: 12/26/2005
Msg: 80
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 10/6/2006 8:24:18 PM
if you're doing it and she doesn't resist, then it isn't rape. If you're sticking it to her and she has no idea, it's rape. If she says no and you keep doing it anyway, it's rape.
 loves2eatpie

Joined: 9/30/2006
Msg: 81
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 10/6/2006 8:28:55 PM
you can stay at my place anytime
 AgelessWonder

Joined: 4/12/2006
Msg: 82
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 10/6/2006 8:35:37 PM
How is a sexual "favor" a rape... Do me a favor...
 monypenny07

Joined: 11/1/2005
Msg: 83
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 10/6/2006 8:45:25 PM
I have to agree. If you are sleeping with the guy already and he wakes you that way, no way is it rape.
Personally I find it very erotic.
 delia c

Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 84
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 10/6/2006 9:55:44 PM
rape is defined by whether or not theres consent is it not..........now if a partner is asleep then how the hell are they consenting................yeah they may well be your bf. hubbie but that doesnt mean they own your body or that by being with them and having a sexual relationship there going to be up for it 24/7............its good that op likes being woken up this way because it doesnt look like she has much choice............personally if my partner had sex with me while i was unconscious id kick his f.cking ass out of bed so fast. hed f.cking ask the nxt time...its rude .........only joking xxx kiss
 luckytxn

Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 85
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 10/6/2006 10:02:49 PM
This has got to be a joke post.
 sparticuss

Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 86
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 10/27/2006 6:55:22 AM
Okay other people who I am friends with think this is rape and broke off a 6 year marriage because he did this...
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Thats not the reason for breaking the marriage. Thats the excuse. It gets her a biggerslice of the seperation pie if she portays herself as the victim.


The kind of rape that you are talking about is the girl who passes out at the party and wakes up the next morning, in the hands or either, a total stranger, or a casual boyfreind that she's never had sex with. The kind where the girl doesn't have a chance at consenting.

This woman has consented to sex, and even demanded sex fromthis guy numerous times before.

The rape tag is being attached to so many sexual encounteres these days that it's become trivialised.
Which is why courts and cops don't go overboard when they run into one of the few genuine rape victims.
 Altered_Ego

Joined: 4/26/2006
Msg: 87
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/11/2006 1:27:51 PM
I have Sleep Apnea. Every night I pray for a good night's sleep so I can cope with the demands of the day.

No woman should ever wake me up for sex... and I won't wake her either.

We'll get what we want before we fall asleep, or when both of us are awake in the morning.
 Whitetigeress

Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 88
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/11/2006 1:31:27 PM

if you're doing it and she doesn't resist, then it isn't rape. If you're sticking it to her and she has no idea, it's rape. If she says no and you keep doing it anyway, it's rape




ZING ZING.. this one wins the prize!
 marshw

Joined: 8/9/2005
Msg: 89
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/11/2006 11:07:30 PM
If you're lovers and sleeping in the same bed there's nothing wrong waking each other up with some copulation. If you're hard and she's wet...well that's just a match waiting for completion.
 ShanKat

Joined: 2/25/2006
Msg: 90
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/11/2006 11:10:12 PM
I specifically asked my hun to do this. So far he hasnt been able to pull it off, I am a super duper light sleeper lol. But, I did give him pre permission lol. If its something not talked about, or if he was doing it for the wrong reasons I'd say its creepy.
 girllaughingoutloud

Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 91
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/12/2006 12:50:59 AM
"Honey, honey, wake up! I want some!" *shaking partner so hard her teeth rattle* "Wake up and say its ok?!" -Not so sexy. I happen to be a fan of the human alarm clock, giving or receiving. I think that if you are trying to wake up a partner and they aren't responding/ slowly waking up, it might get a lil' creepy. But who wants to romp someone that's comatose? Freaky in a 'guard the morgue' kinda way. I guess though that its always safer than sorry and being enlightened I will ask when it gets to that point. Its all about making your partner have as much fun as you right? And if I bring it up, maybe he will get the hint...
 Fab_ricated

Joined: 10/20/2006
Msg: 92
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/12/2006 1:49:07 AM
I'm still trying to understand how you sleep thru sex.....I'm a hard sleeper,but not THAT hard.
 no_1_bby

Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 93
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/12/2006 4:58:05 AM
It's been too long, I don't remember... lol! I don't remember anyone doing it to me, but I have done it to my ex. Mmmmmm... delicious...
 Melanief8123

Joined: 12/4/2005
Msg: 94
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/12/2006 5:00:33 AM
If I'm in a long term relationship with someone, and he sneaks up on me while I'm sleeping .. mmm I dont see anything wrong with that and would definatly not break off a 6 year relationship. That just sounds silly to me !
 JulietJuliet

Joined: 10/22/2006
Msg: 95
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/12/2006 5:14:59 AM

this is rape and broke off a 6 year marriage


It is plain ignorance and stupidity to end a marriage under these circumstances. I mean you did say 'long term' and you did say THEY were married. Geez i think there was a bit more to the breakup than what you are led to believe.
Rape is a forceful act.
Being woken in the morning with a reception like that whew! Yes please! I would hardly call it rape unless there was a definate NO.
 Lynsteph74

Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 96
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/12/2006 6:52:10 AM
I know a girl who separated and reunited with her hubby casue of this very thing, seh sez she sleeps very deep, and had told him not to do this anymore, but he did again,so theys eparated for a few weeks. I think if you tell him not to do that, it borders on rape, but is not quite to that standerd. But if you tell him, it is ok to do that, and you both LIKE it, what is the harm?Sounds fun to me.......
 anth28

Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 97
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/12/2006 7:34:00 AM
Yeah, I wouldnt call it rape unless he snuck in through your bedroom window. Or unless you told him to stop and he didnt. If those two factors are not in play, then I say its a great way to start your day
 smooe

Joined: 11/6/2006
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/12/2006 8:30:43 AM
personally i would enjoy having it done to me as well as doing it to them come on over
 smooe

Joined: 11/6/2006
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Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/12/2006 8:33:28 AM
myself i like it and i would never pass you up would give it back to you in return after you have helped me hope here from you
 anth28

Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 100
Is being woke up with sexual favors rape or not?
Posted: 11/12/2006 8:40:56 AM
^^^^^^^^^

Errr, dude, I dont think she was asking if anyone on the forums wanted to do it to her...yeeesh
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