AI03™
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Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 76 | |
| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 11:57:19 AM | Noooooooo.. thats my okie roper... one baddddddddddd a$$$$$$$$$$$$ dude...   | |
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| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 11:57:34 AM | I'm really not sure what's up with the better than I have mentatlity..but it bugs me to no end. I have NEVER looked at another guy when in a relationship, as anything other than a guy.
I wish more folks looked at it the way I do...but alas..they don't.
Maybe...the folks doing this...have settled to begin with..and they are always striving for what the were looking for in the beginning? That's the reason I don't settle...if I can tell straight off the bat that we wouldn't make a great duo...there's no reason to pursue it. My .2 | |
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Posted: 1/5/2006 11:59:22 AM | | Like any choice we make in life, it has consequences that have to be dealt with, negative or positive. Unfortunately this man may have just choked when they spoke of marriage and such. I have done that several times in the past and I know exactly how it feels. Unfortunately this woman didn;t feel like he was saying not ready right now, but that he just wasn't going there at all otherwise she woulnd;t have ran so quickly. Good luck to you anf this man... no matter which may this turns out | |
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Posted: 1/5/2006 12:02:10 PM | | Don’t fret, AI, I don’t feel like regurgitating it all today | |
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Posted: 1/5/2006 12:13:54 PM |
Maybe...the folks doing this...have settled to begin with..and they are always striving for what the were looking for in the beginning? That's the reason I don't settle...if I can tell straight off the bat that we wouldn't make a great duo...there's no reason to pursue it. My .2
Bah, you beat me to it! lol
This was a great thread, then all the pof pessimists ruined it. Ruinsssss itttt... my preciousssssssssss. | |
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joesch
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Joined: 4/21/2003
Msg: 82 | |
| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:15:55 PM | I'm really not sure what's up with the better than I have mentatlity..but it bugs me to no end. I have NEVER looked at another guy when in a relationship, as anything other than a guy.
I wish more folks looked at it the way I do...but alas..they don't
Just because someone has a positive outlook doesn't mean they are settling. | |
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| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:17:16 PM | I don't think there would ever be a number 1 if you weren't thinking about a number 2.
that just doesn't sound right | |
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| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:17:34 PM | | what does commitment mean to you?....I need to know that. Guys, like me may call it something else but I think the meaning is blurred. I was commited once....yea u name it..wacko sister in law, drunk in-laws, wife that ran around who thought she never had a life and was god's gift to man....I was forced to live with all sorts of trying times and situations. But, guess, what I can be commited again. Next time around and I ain't looking hard I am sure as hell gonna take my time no matter how long it takes.....but I guess women like the status role...beats me...there u go commitment means status for them not men. | |
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| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:20:17 PM | look in,
That makes perfect sense. Then again, I'm never looking for No. 2, I just no No. 1 is on the clock from the time we start dating  | |
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AI03™
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Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 86 | |
| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:20:57 PM |
Don’t fret, AI, I don’t feel like regurgitating it all today
Awwww.... YamI... you know I always love your posts. | |
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| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:23:18 PM |
I just no No. 1 is on the clock from the time we start dating
which clock
time clock
your clock
bionic clock
sand clock | |
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| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:25:16 PM | Look in
The "six weeks" clock. I haven't dated anyone for longer than six weeks during the past two years.
edit: AI, I know I'm damn entertaining, aren't I, LMAO | |
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AI03™
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Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 89 | |
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AI03™
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Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 91 | |
| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:51:20 PM | @YamI Well I wouldn't know (but I have my own suspicions) and never will now because you have converted me over to the dark side.  | |
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| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:52:46 PM | Just call me Darth Phishy
Bum, bum, bum, bum-ba-bum, bum-ba-bum | |
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Posted: 1/5/2006 12:58:24 PM | After six weeks? Hell no. It’s long before six weeks
Actually, it’s the first sign that “dating” is making a transition to a more involved arrangement. Really, that could come from a lot of things. I dumped a chick in late Sept. when she asked me why I had time to go to Pittsburgh for football games but didn’t have time for her. Anything like that, really, does it for me. | |
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| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 1:00:26 PM | sounds like you just haven't found the right woman
there is a time and place for everything | |
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AI03™
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Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 96 | |
| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 1:01:10 PM |
when she asked me why I had time to go to Pittsburgh for football games but didn’t have time for her.
Off with her head!!!!!!!!! Football always comes first!!!!!  | |
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Posted: 1/5/2006 1:17:08 PM | yeah football came first on New years weekend too
Bite the bullet and go on with it
time and place for everything | |
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arri
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Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 98 | |
| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 1:20:43 PM | @AI
like to play center naked ... it's not all that different from playing leapfrog naked | |
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| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 1:26:22 PM |
Off with her head!!!!!!!!! Football always comes first!!!!!
If a woman looked me in the eye, said it, and meant it--I'd ask her to marry me on the spot. | |
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| Men and commitment
Posted: 1/5/2006 1:30:38 PM | I don't mind football coming first but that would violate my number one rule
Ladies always come first
followed by ladies don't spit | |
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