| How would you feel??...
Posted: 7/7/2008 1:05:18 AM | If you distrust your lover at home alone with a friend of the other sex, why would you trust them anywhere else, such as alone at their friend's place? Would you attempt to outlaw/police that too?
It seems to me that if someone wants to cheat, they're going to do it, despite any attempts to control it-- or perhaps even because of it.
It's also about freedom. | |
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| How would you feel??...
Posted: 7/14/2008 8:03:21 AM | | I don't see a problem, but then again I would also have no problem with my ex having lunch with his/her ex.... as long as the same courtesy was given to me... | |
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| How would you feel??...
Posted: 7/14/2008 8:19:22 AM | | Not a problem. I have male friends, and if i wanted one to come over when my boyfriends not around id expect him to be ok with it, so whats good for me is good for him! | |
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| How would you feel??...
Posted: 7/14/2008 8:37:22 AM | | of course i'd feel comfortable. i guess that's because i trust my mate and know nothing would happen. if you don't trust your mate, you may as well just throw in the towel now. | |
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| How would you feel??...
Posted: 7/14/2008 6:13:28 PM | | I insist on absolute trust in a relationship; so it wouldn't be an issue; I would know that nothing was going on. I actually walked in on my ex ON top of the bed with the neighbor. At issue: I knew him well, they were fully clothed, the only VCR was in the bedroom, the were propped up watching a movie (A Disney cartoon), and, while she wasn't in there when I walked in, my teenage step daughter had just left the room to go get more popcorn. I wasn't distressed in the least. I walked in took my tie off and hung it up, and crawled in bed with them to watch the rest of the movie. To this day I still introduce him as "This is K___, the guy I caught in bed with my wife." It embarrasses him to death. | |
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