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 Author Thread: Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
 squirrly

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 26
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 7:15:52 AM
who says I am not leaving well enough alone? A guy posts a topic, I give an opinion. We can agree to differ.
 Idle

Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 27
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 7:19:23 AM
Have to agree with 7times myself..........been to all those shows etc also.....and being around bikers etc and things that go on.......it's like second nature to me.i honestly couldn't give a rats ass about a set of taa-taa's being shown..whatever floats your boat...if a woman feels the need to show off what she has?....go for it...... and like 7 said himself.....i dare say there are a few guys on here that still get wide eyed when they see a set., but yet in public , couldn't hold a decent conversation with a lady of that "style"..

Cheers people!
 princess-b

Joined: 11/29/2005
Msg: 28
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 7:23:22 AM
i agree with 7 - just cause there is a picture of my legs on my profile - that means i want sex????? i wear skirts out in public and go to the beach in a bathing suit and don't get harassed....
 squirrly

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 29
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 7:31:39 AM
actually princess-b.....I just said earlier, I was all for lowcut blouses, short skirts etc. It was more to do with provocative posing and THEN stating they don't want men to think of them as sex objects.

Your pics are very tasteful as far as I can see. But thats just my opinion. :)
 Lawnie

Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 30
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 8:02:38 AM
Dear Squirrly.....love your jokes and photos....I am looking for an e-mail friend and your page is interesting and entertaining.....write me a hello...I am musician songwriter/floor mopper
toilet un-stopper/finger popper/heel clopper/movie watcher/high flyin grasshopper boxer/
 princess-b

Joined: 11/29/2005
Msg: 31
 Sparda7

Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 32
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 9:40:37 AM
Any woman that wants to promote herself as sexy in a, dare I say, slutty way, has NO room to complain about the attention she recieves! Face it, alot of the broads that do that simply want to tease and be wanted, but have the audacity to complain when its not only the "brad pitts" of the world that are noticing them. Any woman that portrays herself as a sex object and then gets an attitude when someone pays attention to her funky @ss is like school on a holiday... she has NO CLASS!
 Jesiebunnies

Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 33
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 9:50:05 AM
It dosen't matter what you wear guys or rather people will still email and desire sex. It's the way it is. It's about people having control enough of themselves to be able to look at a half naked pic, think about sex and not write the things they may be thinking. Equating half naked pics to nasty emails is along the lines of saying that any women who dresses provocatively is just asking to get raped. People it's about being grow up enough to know you have these thoughts but act in appropriate ways with them. Now this is old news but sex or the image of sex is everywhere! It's on billboards on busses, it's sold at the supermarket, cigerrettes, tv, movies, adds, cars it's litterally everywhere yet somehow you don't complain that you see a half naked womens picture on the side of a bus as it passes, nor do you complain when you see a half naked women on the side of the milk carton you buy everyday so why are you complaining when you see it on POF? Half naked women sold you your toothpaste, made you buy a certain brand of beer, made you enjoy watching the Dallas cowboys play, made Brittney Spears interesting so just realize the truth and get over it already.
 squirrly

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 34
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 10:30:44 AM
right so what commodity is a provocative half naked person on a dating site selling?
 Chililady

Joined: 8/15/2005
Msg: 35
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 10:33:23 AM
I don't have that type of profile but that doesn't stop the men from writing and telling me how big there #### is.
 UnzippedPassion

Joined: 10/30/2005
Msg: 36
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Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 10:56:39 AM
Excuse me....but everyone has their right to express themselves in any manner they chose to without any other person ASS Uming anything about them especially without getting to know them by talking to them first. That goes for pics and for writing what they want in their profiles.

We all write differently, some jokesters, some serious, some who write well, and some who don't have a clue what to write so they do their best. Misinterpretations of email lingo, as well as pics only occur when we think we know what someone is portraying without ever asking. As far as checking off their preferences...everyone has that right too. I am NOT looking for intimate encounters and I don't care what people want to imagine in their minds based on what they THINK my pics mean.

I happen to have a reason for my pics as well as the name I chose which I state in my profile. I also change my photos on a regular basis. Trust that based on all the email I get, everyone sees things differently too. And I'll add, I read and reply to all my emails!!!!

Those who write to me know exactly where I'm coming from. Those who chose to judge without taking the time, are not people with qualities I look for anyway!!!
 ImYourAngel23

Joined: 5/26/2004
Msg: 37
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Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 11:08:00 AM
I dont agree...........speaking for myself...I like to tease but i love to please !
 bambi75

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 38
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 11:26:53 AM

right so what commodity is a provocative half naked person on a dating site selling?



What commodity is ANYONE with a pic (or a profile for that matter ) on a dating site selling?

YOURSELF!

So there ya go, no matter what your pics look like, everyone is marketing something here
 arri

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 39
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 11:29:43 AM
I love it .. when women go through the trouble of looking inviting, fun, open minded and sexy
 wespauley

Joined: 12/18/2005
Msg: 40
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 11:56:16 AM
Unfortunately many men are so consumed by thoughts of sex that their brains are in a constant state of malfunction, and the slightest hint of female flesh sets them off. On the other hand, some women don't know the difference between "sexy" and "vulgar". This is, after all, the POF forums, not the Penthouse forums. I appreciate a nice body, but it will take more than a set of hooters to get my attention (I should say HOLD my attention, they most certainly will get my attention, I am 51, but I'm not dead yet). I find the human mind much more interesting than the human body. You might grow weary of sex and need to TALK occasionally. Fortunately most of the ladies here show good taste and God bless them and their sexy pictures. They remind me that I AM NOT dead yet, and have a few things to look forward to in life.
 Sparda7

Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 41
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:16:13 PM
Whatever. The simple truth that these silly broads don't want to admit is that they delight in teasing men that they have absolutely NO interest in whatsoever. That is like me holding a pizza under a homeless and hungry mans nose and saying "sike" and start eatin that sh*t in front of his damn face. And then saying "uh uh... you should be able to 'control' yourself instead of giving in to your natural desire for hunger!" Get real. If you brag and boast on things that you know people are gonna want, don't get an attitude when some people actually are trying to see what the deal is.

I hardly ever hear men that brag about their yachts and million dollar houses get an attitude when some chick emails them about wanting to ride on their yacht sometimes. Hell, the man is promoting it, so why should he get an attitude and yell and scream about golddiggers when he is showing himself as some guy that loves money. I swear. Some humans make me sick!
 bambi75

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 42
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:19:13 PM
^^^ dude you take things way to damn seriously. Lighten up and stop referring to women as broads. And don't even go there with men not calling women gold diggers. I have seen threads where you use those exact words about women.
 squirrly

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 43
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:20:31 PM
in some ways I think some of us are talking at cross purposes. I agree we are selling ourselves and looking sexy is part of that attraction process. There's a lot of good looking people who look very sexy and inviting.

Let me use the analogy of a female lawyer in a courtroom and a hooker on a street corner. They can both look very sexy and the way they present themselves can be powerful to attract their specific audience. A lot is to do with their body language as well as their dress. So the question is what is your specific audience? What type of person are you trying to sell yourself to?
 squirrly

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 44
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:37:27 PM
^^^ keep in mind this was just an analogy and I was using two extremes to prove a point. I am not calling anyone a hooker...( for the record)
 notregme

Joined: 5/26/2005
Msg: 45
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Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 12:48:12 PM
Why is it that when you have no provocative pics, some men will email you, asking for some?
Why is that most men will break their neck to look at a woman bending over, even in sweats?


Hi Bambi75,your first question.Some guys just don't have as good imagination as I do lol.And should wait to get to know you before they ask for other photos ,that should be obvious.The second question.Its the way nature intended us to be ,so that were attracted to our own species.Could you imagine a poor kid walking around with a platypus bill.lol.My mane post was why be upset when you get replays that your photos might generate?I agree with you totally that a photo does not tell the whole story,or who you are,but they will generalize.Don't get me wrong I love naked women.lol.but my thinking is if she is willing to showe her body to the world then she might be a player.Ofcours I know that's not true,but that's the impression.I think you should keep your body a little hidden and only show it to some who you care about.Or where appropriate like a beach .I think a lot of women mix up sexual independents with,peace of meat.For example g string and wet T-shirt,MEAT.But if you want to show your curves and look classy theres only one answerer.LITTLE BLACK DRESS.Almost every women looks amazingly beautiful in them.Classy and sex at the same time.lol
 Jesiebunnies

Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 46
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 4:04:42 PM
So we should change because you might get the wrong impression of us? If you want a church girl go to church is my suggestion and limit yourself to only that group.

Basically my point earlier was that each one of us needs to exersice control over our ideas, emotions and behavior. You don't write the budweiser company and tell them " umm hi you look hot I would like to hump your cardboard stand with the half naked girl on it" so why do you think writing to someone on the net would somehow be more appropriate. It's the same thing. THe cardboard stand deserves respect and so do the real people. It's called taking responsiblity on an individual basis.

Lastly there is this idea that women are floating around on the net looking for sex even though their profile says "NO INtimate encounters". But that's just what it means. Don't read into it more than is there. Here's why having sexy pictures and but don't want intimate encounters happens for women. For women sex is really easy to get. Just about any real life guy would love the opportunity to have sex with us. So why in the h@ll do you think we would possibly search for sex on the internet (if that's what we wanted). Assuming that women want sex here are the two options 1) hot guy at the bar, sexy bum, gorgous eyes and fun times 2) dude from the internet, don't know what he looks like, could be a serial killer, hairy midget from Mars. Women seeking sex on the internet specifically state that women who are not say they don't want it. Why are people choosing to disregard what another person says they want in their profile? Need I say more.
 notregme

Joined: 5/26/2005
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Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 4:20:13 PM
I don't send emails that are asking for sex, I usaly get shut down at "hi"lol.my qustion wasn't what you should and shouldn't wear.It was aimed at getting mad when you get email like that when your half naked.lol.

jesiebunnies! I look at your photos,there nice veay beautyfull.I'm talking about the over the top ones thowe.The girl with her butt in the air on the bed for example.I love the shot as a photographer,raises the blood level as a guy thowe.lol.but like i said before I have not problem with naked women.lol.and I'll look at naked church girls too.lol
 notregme

Joined: 5/26/2005
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Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 4:23:30 PM
although couger princess might be a little !!lol.but thought it was funny.
 zendy

Joined: 12/6/2005
Msg: 49
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 1/5/2006 4:38:55 PM
You are right, if someone wants to post a picture of themselves laying on the bed in next to with their legs open it might not tell you anything about them as a person. BUT if I post a picture of myself with my boobs hanging out (providing I had any) then I really should not jump on the forums wailing "why do men only look at me for sex, why can't they see I have a deep and spiritual mind?". But then again I don't suppose that was the questions asked here was it?
 notregme

Joined: 5/26/2005
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