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| Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 8/25/2007 7:10:42 PM | I don't have half naked photo's posted, but when I joined this site that intimate encounters was an automatic setting, I didn't check off that box. I don't think the rest
of you are getting it. I think everyone on here is seeking an intimate encounter, just
not sexual propositions on contact. The way people choose to post their
pictures is up to them. Dare I say, Ladies, if your dressed or should I say undressed, you should expect men to respond accordingly, without any respect for you. Sexy is not leaving it out there for everyone to see, that's just no class and you'll get every low life out there contacting you. Sexy is leaving something to the imagination and alot more than being naked. And guys, if this isn't the type of woman your looking for, pass it by, someone is looking for them. | |
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| Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 10/23/2007 10:14:11 PM | | I have no problems with half naked photos. I do have a problem with the: Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter. All single men (and prob alot of married/taken men) unless they are neutered or lying are looking for an intimate encounter. Its biological. I know for a fact that girls don't want a neutered girly man who represses his every desire and acts as if he only wants to be platonic friends (I've been there). I understand that some guys are creeps and will constantly message girls with overty sexual propositions and I can see a need for girls to filter out these guys, but I feel that when girls check off this catgeory it is very contradictory what they really want and what they want a man to be like. Just my two cents. | |
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| Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 9/5/2008 3:48:54 PM | | I think that any women that shows her ass, and her tits is asking for someone to ask them what they are really looking. At the age of most of us on this site to say we are not looking for and Intimate Encounters are not being very truthful with thier self. not if you say that os not the only thing your looking for, that would be different. I would be willing to bet any one that is on this site, that if they date a man for any time and he did not lay a hand on them then would dump his ass in a heart beat. Not ever man is looking for a big tited or big ass women. Intimancy is not all about sex. | |
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| Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 9/5/2008 6:16:31 PM |
I think that any women that shows her ass, and her tits is asking for someone to ask them what they are really looking. At the age of most of us on this site to say we are not looking for and Intimate Encounters are not being very truthful with thier self. not if you say that os not the only thing your looking for, that would be different. I would be willing to bet any one that is on this site, that if they date a man for any time and he did not lay a hand on them then would dump his ass in a heart beat. Not ever man is looking for a big tited or big ass women. Intimancy is not all about sex.
OK, I absolutely agree how ridiculous it is for women to post "provocative" shots and then say Must nots or complain when men hit on them or mention thier revealed parts. I've said it before, don't place an ad for something if you don't want to have offers given.
Now as to "Intimate Encounter" - what does that mean? I take that as pure sexual encounters with someone, nothing more and NO I do NOT want that!!
Do not assume that everyone see's things the same as you or interprets them the same. I am amazed at how many different meanings there are for the different catagories on here. Recently I read that "Friends" means hanging out for sex. Now that is NOT my interpretation for friends either. | |
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| Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 9/5/2008 6:32:13 PM | | Please remind those women that are not looking for an intimate encounter that intimacy is what we are truly looking for, holding hands, a touch on you arm when your child does something good, a hand on your shoulder when you are upset, it is all intimacy and I know that every man and woman is looking for a personal intimate encounter that will last a lifetime...they just need to be reminded | |
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| Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 9/5/2008 7:05:08 PM | gerrysuper - I hear what your saying but I don't think that is what the definition on here means. I absolutely want the intimacy you are describing. The problem on here is that it means something totally different and that's why there is that filter.
Intimate Encounter on here is about sex, nothing more nothing less. Definitely nothing to do with children (oh hope to heck no one thinks that! ).
The term Intimate Encounter on here is much different then what you describe and unfortunately there are enough men on here (and women too) that are looking for just that type of intimate encounter - the purely sexual one. | |
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| Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 9/6/2008 5:16:02 AM |
Please remind those women that are not looking for an intimate encounter that intimacy is what we are truly looking for, holding hands, a touch on you arm when your child does something good, a hand on your shoulder when you are upset, it is all intimacy and I know that every man and woman is looking for a personal intimate encounter that will last a lifetime...they just need to be reminded
Well , it's all perspective now isn't it? While what you are saying is true & wonderful, 'intimate encounter' on a singles site most likely implies something different. If not, then I guess my mailsetting is blocking some men that want to hold my hand. Oops!
As far as women dressing provocatively & being seen as a tease. Really guys, would you prefer we all wear ultra conservative clothing. Would that stop the whining or might you find other descriptive words to use. Hmmmm, maybe, uptight, frigid, boring, frumpy....
Damned if ya do & damned if ya don't.
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| Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 9/6/2008 10:04:47 PM |
As far as women dressing provocatively & being seen as a tease. Really guys, would you prefer we all wear ultra conservative clothing. Would that stop the whining
No not at all! I would prefer people to have some character!
Maybe try standing by their own convictions! Is a better way of putting it!
It seems a bit like a political add... Vote for me, and you won't get screwed anymore!
Vote for the
RocK
~He'll be hard when he needs to be!~ | |
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| Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 9/6/2008 10:29:18 PM |
Maybe they are trying to see if you are decent enough to act like a gentleman despite their half-naked photos.
I really don't think that that's too much to ask!
There should be no issue about treating a lady like a lady. Until given reason not to!
Which at that point I end the conversation!
I enjoy all of the beautiful pictures that are offered for my viewing pleasure!
Yet my response is to the lady, not to the thoughts I get from the picture! | |
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| Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 9/21/2008 8:25:16 AM | Women..(not all) love the attention and like to feel like its a burden of being desired. Like if your out some where and a woman has a revealing top and so forth on. I like think women have enough sense to know they are going to draw attention its just common sense. You look or glance at her and they like the feeling of being desired and the power of being able to say or think "uggh...perv..can't even go out without being lusted after". All I can say is women are strange creatures that contradict themselves by their own actions or emotions. That being said...damn I love them to death and couldn't image a world without them! So...like an addict I keep going back for more.. :-)
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| Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 9/21/2008 11:21:40 AM | I don't have provocative pictures up on my profile, but I don't really see that it's necessarily that much of a mixed message. Why can't a woman be looking to be extremely sexual and sexually attractive to a man within the context of a long-term committed relationship (as opposed to just an intimate encounter)? Why do men always view sensual sexual women as someone "disposable" and not for the long term? If she is just looking to be sexual with one person for a long time, where is the conflict, really? It's all in your head. It's your assumption that someone sexual should not be courted, and committed to.
Okay, I guess it goes the other way too, I don't really take the guys who feel the need to post shirtless photos seriously, and think they look a bit lame, but that's just not my type. But I wouldn't want to have sex with them anyway either, though, and don't care if they are looking for long term or whatever. I have no trouble imagining one of them wanting long term, and being sexual at the same time. The freedom to express your sexuality openly without negative repercussions is probably something you as a man takes for granted. Ponder that. | |
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| Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 9/21/2008 3:00:22 PM | Hey D-Girl, I think you are on to something. Guys, listen up...
Why can't a woman be looking to be extremely sexual and sexually attractive to a man within the context of a long-term committed relationship (as opposed to just an intimate encounter)? Why do men always view sensual sexual women as someone "disposable" and not for the long term? If she is just looking to be sexual with one person for a long time, where is the conflict, really? It's all in your head. It's your assumption that someone sexual should not be courted, and committed to.
I myself like sexy, for me it just adds a little heat. I also am looking for a quality relationship & not just a quick trick.
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| Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 9/21/2008 4:40:29 PM | Well, I would say that I've read my fair share of women's profiles that listed themselves as looking for "Intimate Encounter", but then the body of the profile describes wanting an LTR!?!?!?!?!
So, did they miss-interpret what intimate encounter meant? Or are they looking for a long-term intimate encounter?
Ya gotta admit, a long-term intimate encounter just sounds kinda sexy! | |
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| Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter! but what do you think of half naked photo?lol
Posted: 9/22/2008 10:47:33 AM |
Women..(not all) love the attention and like to feel like its a burden of being desired. Like if your out some where and a woman has a revealing top and so forth on. I like think women have enough sense to know they are going to draw attention its just common sense.
Wrong kind of attention, I may look but doesn't mean I would be interested at all. The hottest women I have seen are fully clothed. | |
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