| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/14/2004 11:35:11 AM | | I personally have been drawn to younger boys since I began dating. Then to younger men, in high school when I was in college. I have always looked younger than I am. I have a thing for the Greek androgynous (msp) sculpted look. I'm 31 now and I usually go for 21 and older, They are still young enough to have fun, and not be too stressed out by life's responsibilities. Kind of like Finch and Stiffler's Mom. lol I am hoping to find younger men from this site. | |
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| how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/14/2004 5:51:29 PM | | I totally dig younger guys. I like older guys as well, but for different reasons. The truth is that younger guys tend to worship you. I have had a couple of younger bfs and many older ones. The oyunger ones really seemed to appreciate me, like I was this unattainable thing they got a lucky chance with. They wanted to show me off. I was this mature girl that had all sorts of things to show them. Maybe it's because they have more to lose in the relationship, therefore they are more attentive. Is that bad? Hehe. | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/14/2004 5:56:28 PM | | But to me I like the older ones not too old,but the ones about 6-7 years older because they know more about what is out there,there is more to learn from. With the younger one it feels like I have to show them everything....to learn. I like them for some reasons, but I feel more compatitable with the older ones. | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/16/2004 12:22:29 PM | I was married young-for 16 years to a man only 2 years older, been divorced about 3 years-and have only dated my age or younger. I don't think I'm attracted to much older men, not knocking anyone, maybe it is somewhat a control issue. Plus they are a bit more fun, and ez on the eyes. | |
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| how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/16/2004 12:29:38 PM | | I prefer dating younger men, why? Not too sure , but my ex was 5 years older than myself so since we did the split I have been dating younger. Not too sure how many I have dated but the oldest I have dated is my age. :) | |
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| how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/16/2004 2:07:50 PM | | when i stareted seeing younger men i was skeptical. my first was 20 and i was 37. i enjoyed it because it's easier to train a younger inexperienced man to sexually please you the way you like. | |
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| how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/16/2004 2:46:00 PM | | yeah...highly sexual...plus highly sensual (there is a difference)...makes a great combination, but if you aren't attracted physically (age or otherwise)...whats the point? | |
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| how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/16/2004 2:47:11 PM | | I myself have a preference for older men, but the reason is not because of the sex, but because I find that I can relate better, and have more to talk about with older men. I am at a stage in my life were I have children, and I want to settle down, and generally speaking, younger men are still wanting to sow their wild oats, or want children of their own. And really, myself I am not inclined to want to have more children. Not that it is completely out of the question, but not likely. Men who are older are more settled, and more in the same headspace as I am. Though this is a generalization, not the same for everyone. And of course there are some younger men who are the exception to the rule. *smile* | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/17/2004 9:53:58 PM | Thank you for such an insightful and knowlegable series of statements.
Tell how a 19yr old girl gained such insight and knowledge ?
Is is vast array of experiences, scientific studies, romance novels, or prehaps one of those magazines at the checkout counter. | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/18/2004 2:07:25 PM | okay: as a self proclaimed EX-cougar...I have dated only younger men. Because I seem to attract them. I look a little younger I guess so it works. I even married a man 7 yrs younger...than me an dit lasted almost 10 yrs.
NOW I would prefer a man closer to my age with the same life experiences as me...if thats at all possible.... BUT hey I still look (smile) yumyum | |
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| how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/18/2004 2:37:00 PM | Well this stirred up a can of worms. Wow. Lots of views.
Guess I'll be blunt academically, then.
Men seek to spread as much as soon as able.
Women seek stability, and ability.
Pretty shallow, I know. There's a lot to be left unsaid in the original question, though.
~W.S. | |
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| how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/18/2004 4:57:26 PM | Iteresting thread. I've always preferred men my age or a bit older. They are generally more mature and we have more in common. One of the most fun dates I ever had, after going out to eat, we sat on his couch and looked at a trivia book from "our era." We were cracking up reminiscing over stuff we remembered from when we were kids. I couldn't do that with a man half my age. Downside? I've had some problems with men my age or older being able to "keep up" sexually and energy wise in general.
I apparently look younger than my years, however, and seem to have become "man candy" for younger men. The youngest I've dated was 7 years younger and we had a wonderful two year relationship that would have continued had he not moved away. He was mature, we had tons in common, and we were sensual soul mates.
I think compatibility is much more important than years on the planet. So yes, I would consider a man younger than I, the same way I would consider a man older than I, using the same criteria. I do admit, though, that if a man was WAY younger (like he could have been my kid if I'd started earlier), I probably wouldn't be interested. | |
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| how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/19/2004 9:42:18 AM | I saw someone mention ego boost in an earlier post. BINGO!
Younger men are fun to play with but I don't subscribe to the philsophy of "If you can't find one, raise one". I want a man my own age to settle down with. I'm too old to teach a guy how to treat a woman. I want one that already knows! Generally, younger men don't have the relationship experience I prefer. They tend to be a tad naive when it comes to women....you know like I USED to be when it came to men 
Age does make a difference to me. I can't count the times I've heard, "Age is just a number". Yeah, sonny, when I'm 45 and wrinkling and you're 35 still hitting it hard, tell me that. I have no desire to be traded in for a younger model. At the rate relationships are ending these days.....I don't like the odds. I'd rather be alone :) | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/19/2004 1:35:43 PM | Vilija,
Do I have news for you. It's easy to see by what you wrote that you don't have a lot of sexual experience and I'll tell you why. As you say, younger men love sex. They usually can screw all day into the next day, but at who's expense? Yours? It's one thing to have sex, then there is quality sex or love making as most women like to call it. An older man usually takes his time. He doesn't mind taking the time to caress his woman, to have bubble baths with her, to have candles all over the house, just to please her emotionally. The sex part comes in much later. The thing with younger guys is that they haven't the time for bubble baths or an hour carressing your body, they want what you have between your legs and they want it NOW. You really should try a much older man, maybe you'd have an orgasim or ten, instead of one every hour or so. I'd sooner have a woman who has experience than settle for a younger woman such as yourself, with little or no experience. It takes two to tangle and two to enjoy the art of making love, not just a guy getting his rocks off, where have you been girl? | |
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Posted: 10/19/2004 2:06:45 PM | mystical,
Some young men might surprise you ;)....times are changing, my friend, so must our thinking. Age doesn't mean a man automatically knows how to make love. On the flip side, women are becoming more and more aware of their sexuality at a younger age. It isn't as taboo to ask mom, sis or a friend how to please a man like it used to be. Also, there are TONS of free documentation on the web and in teen mags, etc on the topic. Girls can read and BELIEVE ME, they do ;) | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/19/2004 3:26:38 PM | Bluepony,
I agree that not all young men fit into the same catagory as I may have said in my posting. That being said I truly believe that it takes two people who really want to make love in a passionate way to have really good sex. It is my personal belief that making love is an art. Some men don't want to be around a woman when she is on her period, others can't get there fast enough as any good lover will tell you and as a woman you should know, a woman is at her hottest when she is in her menstruel cycle. (Spell check on menstruel) I have friends men who are younger than I am and they won't even cuddle with their wives or girlfriends when she is on her period. We all have different opinions on who is the best lover and not everyone can agree, but I assure you from my perspective as a man, I'd sooner make love to a woman if it took me two hours and see her climax ten to 15 times during that time frame than have a woman who expects me to jump her bones, every two hours, ready or not. Most men do have a strong libido way past their fifties, and it only takes one good woman to see to it that it stays that way. True girls and older women can read a lot on the Internet concerning sex and sexual positions, but you can't read what's in someone's heart when you take the extra time to see that they are properly warmed up to the entire idea that they are about to make love to a man who will give them mulitple orgasims because he really cares enough to do so, and isn't only thinking of HIMSElF. Wouldn't you agree? | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/19/2004 4:05:45 PM | You'd be amazed at what you can do when you read :) It all depends on how you apply it. If you never learn then no matter your age, you still won't know :)
I am not saying young men make better lovers. I am saying that age doesn't determine talent of a sexual nature. Believe it or not, some older guys (and gals) still don't get it :)
Regardless, I'm the wrong woman to talk to. Two hours and 15 climaxes is a bit too racy for my blood.  | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/19/2004 6:57:56 PM | Bluepony,
Why would two hours and ten to fifteen climaxes be too much for you to talk about. You have my curiosity aroused. You know my dear if I can call you that, if one takes their time, a candle lit bath, followed by lots of caressing, kissing and teasing, you'd be surprised at how many women don't have these luxurys. Anyone can have a quickie and I'm not saying that the 10 to 15 climaxes have to be every time two people make love, but it's not unheard of. It takes a good man to wait that long for his woman to be completely fulfilled, and that you can't learn in any text book or the Internet. This is a mind thing, where one is completly in control of their mind and what they are doing, never ever taking too much of anything from the woman in a sexual way before she is completely satisified. We can't all be the same or where would the world be, full of happy married, men and women, gee doesn't that sound too good to be true. I have a suggestion for you only. I have no idea where you live except to say I really enjoy your views and conversations, why not look me up and lets exchange emails, who knows we may learn something from each other and if not, good luck, it is really nice chatting with you on this message board. | |
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