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Posted: 10/19/2004 4:05:45 PM | You'd be amazed at what you can do when you read :) It all depends on how you apply it. If you never learn then no matter your age, you still won't know :)
I am not saying young men make better lovers. I am saying that age doesn't determine talent of a sexual nature. Believe it or not, some older guys (and gals) still don't get it :)
Regardless, I'm the wrong woman to talk to. Two hours and 15 climaxes is a bit too racy for my blood.  | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/19/2004 6:57:56 PM | Bluepony,
Why would two hours and ten to fifteen climaxes be too much for you to talk about. You have my curiosity aroused. You know my dear if I can call you that, if one takes their time, a candle lit bath, followed by lots of caressing, kissing and teasing, you'd be surprised at how many women don't have these luxurys. Anyone can have a quickie and I'm not saying that the 10 to 15 climaxes have to be every time two people make love, but it's not unheard of. It takes a good man to wait that long for his woman to be completely fulfilled, and that you can't learn in any text book or the Internet. This is a mind thing, where one is completly in control of their mind and what they are doing, never ever taking too much of anything from the woman in a sexual way before she is completely satisified. We can't all be the same or where would the world be, full of happy married, men and women, gee doesn't that sound too good to be true. I have a suggestion for you only. I have no idea where you live except to say I really enjoy your views and conversations, why not look me up and lets exchange emails, who knows we may learn something from each other and if not, good luck, it is really nice chatting with you on this message board. | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/21/2004 10:17:46 AM | Well..... allow me to my 2 cents in on this one... Cuz... i`m proly the "young guy" most of you are referring too :P Let me just say this... it all has to do with ones life and what they are looking for. Most of the women i talk too are pretty sure as to what they want... wether it be a personall sex bunny and only sex bunny, or a younger more sophisticated guy who is a sex bunny and relationship material. Some don`t want the sex at all and prefer the companion ship. Then there are the women who don`t want anything to do with us because they are afraid of devoting too much time because they think we ALL need to be trained.
Well.... let me just say that at 25, i`ve had 2 major relationships in the last 7 years. I`m still actually married... soon to be divorced. Now i`m not saying that this means i don`t need training... but i like to think i`ve had an eventful life upto now. On the sexual level....i was never able to fully explore it with the last 2 women. It just wasn`t for them... and i respected that. But... at 25... and single for the first time in 7 years.... i`ve had the urge to explore alot more.
Which brings me to the older woman debate... I like older woman because of the experience they might or might not have. But it`s a preference... and I`m always up front with them about my intentions thus leaving no room for head games.
I`ll tell ya one thing... us youngens can be just as romantic, sincere, educated, trained, sensual and loving as any older man. Maturity has NO age limit | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/21/2004 12:55:30 PM | SC, I agree with you.
Mystical, 15 orgasms would kill me. I am far too sensitive in that particular area to undergo actvitity such as that. It would literally HURT. Not all women are the same and like the same things. As far as needing a good man to hold out until I am satisfied, I rarely have to worry about that *wink*. In addition to that, not all young guys rush to finish. Yes, I enjoy a nice candle lit bath, and caressing and all that jazz but those are not activities that only older men perform. And like I said before there are times for making love and times for just going at it like rabbits. Some women, such as myself, like both.
As far as hooking up to exchange mails, I try not to get too chatty on a personal level with those that are outside my area for several reasons. ...and yes, it has been interesting, thank you
In the end, my point is. It all depends on the GUY...not his age. | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/21/2004 12:58:18 PM | I have a correction to my post above.
In the end, my point is. It all depends on the GUY...not his age.
That would be where sex is concerned. I don't fancy settling down with a guy 10 years younger than I. There are a host of other factors that play into that scenario. | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 10/21/2004 6:29:41 PM | | The old cliche claims women mentally mature faster than men. I sometimes wonder if some women turn 30 and start working backwards and us men pass them up in mental maturity. Perhaps thats why some women like younger men because they are on the same mental maturity level. Now thats not all women. i said some. As far as sex is concerned. Lets get real. I am alot better at it now then when I was 23 and I still like it just as much and as often. Just know alot more secrets now to how to please a women. I am starting to see alot of immature 30 something women. But in defence there are still alot of mature ones just as there are mature young men. It just seems on average men start acting more responsible as we get older and women start becoming more reckless and irresponsible. | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 11/21/2004 10:06:56 PM | | my yonger man had no problem making love. i was showered with flowers,candlelit dinners, massages and hours of foreplay. he knew exactly what to say and do. i taugt him well. i've found out older men are set in their sexual waysand u can't teach an old dog new tricks. | |
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Posted: 11/22/2004 5:47:04 AM | | I really tried to stay out of this one. I can only speak for myself but, all this bull about men's sex drive deminishing after a certain age is not true or I'm a freak of nature. If I could have my way I'd have sex twice a day every day. After 10 years of marriage at 35+++ my now ex wife was never safe if she walked around the house less than fully dressed, even then she wasn't out of danger of her amorous husband. We were have sex 5-7 times a week throughout our marriage and I wanted more. My sex drive is as high as it was at 18, I have more hair than most 18 year olds, I'm sure as hell not boring or lazy. | |
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Posted: 2/11/2005 9:32:47 AM | | i think it depends how old you are and how old they are. im 25 and my last bf (ltr) was 21 and way to immature so i wont go for younger again but then again i may have found someone so not even looking but i guess it also depends what you are looking for, whether it be a "real" relationship or just sexual or whatever | |
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| Re: how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 2/11/2005 1:04:54 PM | | i've always dated younger guys. not on purpose, it just seems to happen that way. i don't go out and seek these babydolls. i guess i'm just not attracted to older guys. guys around my age are fine, but more than a few years...i don't know why. | |
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| how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 4/9/2006 1:52:04 PM | i have always liked older guyz and always have dated older guyz same with my friends
there so much more mature and know what they want ( some of the times)
young guyz are just playing around
and thats okay cuz when they get older it will be out of there system and they will still wanna play but just maybe with only one girl | |
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| how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 9/5/2006 9:06:14 AM | I do.
In order of reasons (the most important first):
Honestly, most younger men I have dated have been more gentle and understanding and caring than the older ones.
With the ones older than me, a lot of em start talking sex like the first 10 min I meet them. I'm not talking friendly flirting, I mean they say stuff like "I'm watchin a porn right now"
The younger ones are patient about the relationship too. Well, at least my experience so far.
Also, not to be mean, but most of em don't have baggage (i.e. kids). Where there are kids, there is an ex lurking somewhere.
The younger guy/older woman thing is a trend. I asked a 19 year old friend once what his friends would say if he was dating a woman 10 years older than him. He told me "they'd congratulate me". That one, by the way, I didn't date.
Lastly, younger guys take care of themselves a bit better usually. I want a workout buddy and someone who wants to snuggle not someone who wants someone to clean their house or tell me the things I want to do are stupid.
The youngest I dated was 22 when I was 32. Nope, no sex either by the way. That was the first time I dated a guy younger than me. Met on the internet.
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| how many woman like younger men then them? and why
Posted: 9/7/2006 2:34:01 PM | | bluepony I respect your preference for older men but your generalization about younger men is not correct. Please visit www.agelesslove.com where several successful and long term older women-younger men relationships are showcased. Also stats seem to indicate that in older women-younger men relationships the men tend to stay married to their older women instead of "trading them in" for a younger woman. Ironically, it's the older women who may initiate a divorce in this type of relationship. | |
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