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Posted: 1/13/2005 6:14:21 AM | | try re-reading that post, too, soulll. i wasn't accusing you of being insensitive. i said you should show people more of that side of you. once again, i wasn't attacking you. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2005 7:08:40 AM | | soulll, i have no issues with your posts in this forum, if i did i would have said so. the name is welsh/gaelic. it's a compound word. sidhe=denizen of faerie:elven, gaelic anwwyn=underworld(NOT to be confused with hell), welsh. no, i don't speak either language, but have heard them spoken, and would love to learn, as they are both very beautiful. a do know a lot of words, though, as i read a lot. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2005 7:16:41 AM | | thank you for the compliment. that was sweet. it would be no fun, and noone would ever learn anything, if they only talked to people who agreed with them. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2005 9:13:09 AM | Insulting you was'nt even in my vocabulary "bonnie" "I LOVE what you could do for me" | |
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Posted: 1/13/2005 9:51:27 AM | | Hmmmmm... Since I'm definitely not what you are looking for, I wonder what that would be? | |
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Posted: 1/14/2005 6:32:02 AM | Soulll, I have only seen you in 2 threads and the impression I get from those two threads is that you spend more time being bitter about the women who aren't interested in you than you do looking for a woman who is interested in you.
Now I say that only because you have such a penchant for labeling women "shallow" and then arguing about it. So my thought is that most of the time we bring on the response we get. By that I mean, if you are called insensistive, rude, etc. a lot maybe you need to look at yourself rather than the other person. If it only happened once then they may have just misunderstood you.
Another thought is your criteria. An example would be if you area actively looking for a woman much younger than you then you will of course be turned down by a lot more women than if you are looking for a woman near your own age. You have to ask yourself "This woman has what I am looking for but do I have what she is looking for?" If you aren't what she is looking for in a man that doesn't make her shallow, it just means she isn't interested. | |
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Posted: 1/14/2005 1:54:33 PM | Soullll,
I don't think people here disagree with you, but you have to learn to chill out man! If you keep going like this you'll give yourself a heart attack before you're 30. You are still young, enjoy life some more being you become old and bitter.  | |
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Posted: 1/16/2005 11:14:59 AM | Soulll,
I have been reading more of your posts today and I would have to say that you really have done nothing at all to make me think any different. you and those narrow minded people just like you are now responsible for a great person leaving POF. Someone who I enjoyed seeing deleted her account because of the attacks on her character just because she dared to set forth her opinion and it differed from yours.
Soulll, you are judgmental and harange people over something you obviously have a problem with even though it isn't their fault or problem. You are a bully and an obnoxious bore. You might try doing what you yourself suggest and try to make yourself better inside instead of sounding like a bitter spoiled little child.
Try to get over yourself, because as long as you are full of yourself and wrap yourself up in the bitterness you feel just because every woman you want doesn't want you it is going to be an unhappy life for you. You will cause yourself stress complaining about all these "shallow" women. You will cause yourself strife by striving for the unobtainable. You attitude is probably the biggest reason the women you want don't want you. You are so sure that they are shallow that you make sure they don't have any reason to be attracted to you.
Single,
You do realize of course that we are wasting our time. Arguing with guys like this is just like wrestling with a pig. You don't accomplish anything and the pig likes it. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2005 4:03:12 PM | I agree with Terry
Soul you are your own worst enemy.. you would probably have more fun if you could lighten up a bit. These forums are fun.. these are mostly fun interesting people.. be positive..you never know who or what you will find.
Terry.. I've noticed several members that don't have a "view profile" so I assume that means that they are gone? I'm still fairly new... is that common? Do they come back under another name? Do they ever give reasons why they are leaving?
Takes a lot of the fun out of it for me when my favourite posters disappear..
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Posted: 1/16/2005 4:08:23 PM | Maybe Soulll needs to get up with 'train' and find out what website he had all those little girls from that kept bugging him?
Your How old?
And you prefer little girls?
And your a social worker? Where do you work? | |
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Posted: 1/16/2005 8:26:23 PM | Apology taken on my part...Then I'll drop it.
Have a good week at work! | |
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Posted: 1/18/2005 2:18:36 AM | | I just want a woman between 500 and 600 lbs, with little or no teeth, and hair. She must be schizophrenic, and narcoleptic. I want her to tie me up, beat me, and blow wet farts in my face on a cold night. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2005 2:59:33 AM | | sid i love you, i just saw you were around and stalking you and stufff!! AAAHHH THE HILL PEOPLE ROCK, cept when the iron came around and they had wars and stuff and got their a** handed to em cause iron slaughters the sidhe photonic based flesh | |
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Posted: 1/18/2005 2:01:55 PM | | I know a lot about the sidhe, why they left and why they're never coming back. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2005 7:12:16 AM | This thread should be suspended because of the immoral content and intentions of most of the individuals here
once again --what the FVCK are you talking about?!?! | |
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Posted: 1/19/2005 7:18:20 AM | Sid, I am confused too.
Is he making an attempt at humor or trying to push his morals and standards on the rest of us? | |
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Posted: 1/19/2005 7:38:23 AM | | dunno, maybe both. the dude definitely has issues, but i try to think he means well. who were you referring to earlier, when you said someone left? | |
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Posted: 1/19/2005 11:10:05 AM | | If you "care" and "love" so much then you should stop ostricizing people because they do not share the same opinion of you. part of being a good person is accepting that people might think differently than you, and being ok with that. Just because YOU believe something doesn't make it right. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2005 12:16:36 PM | | soulll, you haven't explained what you meant by what you said in your last post here. | |
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Posted: 1/20/2005 5:38:51 PM | I'm going to make this pretty short, and if you look at my other posts on this topic you'll get more detail of what I am refering to....
I promise I don't mean this in a bad way....don't mean to be mean or snotty at all. You are suffering from typical 'good guy' syndrome. You have subjigated your manhood. Women of this age group are looking for confident masculine men who know themselves well and have opinions. You need to rewrite your profile. | |
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