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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 7/17/2005 10:51:42 PM | I have never dated a married man nor will I date a singal man
well I am still considered married and I go out with myself
so umm does that kount... | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 7/18/2005 8:24:01 AM | There are several reasons that a woman would date a married man and vice versa. The ones that I can think of offhand are no strings attached, no commitments, the ability to see the person when you WANT to and not all of the time, and knowing exactly where you stand in the relationship.
jatea - you can't have that with a single man? it goes deeper than that and you just won't admit it.
you spout all of this bullshyt he told you like it's the gospel truth. anything that comes from a cheater's mouth should be taken with a grain of salt.
don't ALL cheaters talk about how bad it is at home? well it takes two to make a marriage
thank God i'm not that stupid | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 7/18/2005 8:56:57 AM | I wouldn't for two reasons (or maybe three??)
1. Thats how my parents split up. It hurt sooo much, and both were miserable. Our lives were ruined by that sort of thing, so I WILL NOT risk doing that to another.
2. Hanging out is one thing, dating is another. I don't look down on couples that are both fine with it, but I wouldn't be comfortable about the situation. to me, dating is about trying to find someone you want to spend your life with, so dating a taken person rules out the chances.
3. I just WON'T.
And if you don't like my reasons that okay. I know there are different circumstances all the time, but usually there are others way to resolve things than by cheating (excepting the case where both in the couple are sanguine about the topic).
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Joined: 4/11/2005
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 7/18/2005 10:58:09 AM | Sorry but if you did it knowing that he was married then you are a homewrecker. He's even worse for that matter as a cheating sack of sh*t but it shows a real lack of respect by both parties to do that. You really hurt somebody if not some people. I hate to say this because I know how it sounds, but if he has kids and he dates somebody on the side he should be sent to some sort of forced labour camp to learn what it means to be a good father.
Sorry, but that's just the ultimate in selfish IMO on both sides.
If you didn't know he was married then it's even worse and the no good so and so deserves a swift kick in the nuts for being a bad husband and a bad father (if there are any kids involved) In fact, should get one every day for a month from every person he hurt through cheating. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 7/18/2005 11:54:45 AM | I have to be honest here, I did date a married man, but at the time we were going out he told me he was single all the time, until one visit to his house I found out that he was in deed married and had a kid. I dumped him bout a week later because he lied to me about both things.
i told him he could go f off and never contact me again, and as things are, he hasnt even tried. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 7/19/2005 3:00:49 PM | | For 10 years I didn't date them unless they were married. Didn't want the hassle of a serious relationship. Much easier at the time. One calls me up one evening, leaving a different call back number (ohoh) I call, he proceeds to raise holy hell that his wife has thrown him out over another man...blah blah ...I stopped him in mid sentence, telling him he could be pissed as hell about being thrown out but didn't have a leg to stand on, on the cheating as we had been a thing for over a year. Then told him oh yeah by the way, I dont think I can see you anymore either. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 7/19/2005 4:04:04 PM | @SICutie
There are several reasons that a woman would date a married man and vice versa. The ones that I can think of offhand are no strings attached, no commitments, the ability to see the person when you WANT to and not all of the time, and knowing exactly where you stand in the relationship.
jatea - you can't have that with a single man? it goes deeper than that and you just won't admit it.
you spout all of this bullshyt he told you like it's the gospel truth. anything that comes from a cheater's mouth should be taken with a grain of salt.
don't ALL cheaters talk about how bad it is at home? well it takes two to make a marriage
thank God i'm not that stupid
OT: I've never slept with or dated a married man. Like many who have posted, I married a man who cheated, regularly!!
A little story though... I had a guy friend we'll call him Peter, who was married and wanted to try the threesome deal, but his wife was quite reluctant. Well, after much discussion, coaxing, cajoling and what have you, his wife eventually agreed to try it. So, the first few times was with a woman joining in, and then the subsequent times it was with a guy, who was good friends with Peter and his wife. This guy was someone that the wife felt comfortable with, she'd known him as long as she'd known Peter. Well, she really started to enjoy herself...didn't she.... Yes, and eventually she left Peter for his friend. Why Peter was so upset with situation, was totally beyond my comprehension.... afterall he wanted her to slut for him and with him ..... but what he didn't consider was that she just may like it and find something better. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 7/19/2005 5:09:43 PM | | Nope I couldnt do it.It takes a selfish lowdown person to do something like that.I dont care what a person says there is no excuse for sleeping with somebody else man.out of all these single men why you have to go with somebody else man.it goes to show how low your self esteem is and self centered the person is.Ive heard of some harsh stories about women dieing behind stuff like this.I just could never do it.Its wrong,and there is no right in it none but so ever. | |
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Posted: 7/19/2005 6:35:34 PM | Selfish and lowdown? Wasn't that a movie with Kurt Russell and Sly Stallone? LMAO
Yes, I have in the past, but I'll be damned if I'm going to get ripped to shreds in here by discussing it in front of people who would like nothing better than to judge me... | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 7/19/2005 6:58:06 PM | Not knowingly!
If I ever were to find out, EVER, that a man lied to me and was married....I'd make his life a living hell AND give his wife all the proof she needs. He wouldn't even know that I knew....I'd just surprise the focker with all the evidence I had gathered and supply it in a neat little folder for his wife's perusal, then offer to set her up with one of my male friends. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 7/19/2005 7:24:06 PM | No I Think it was by Jack Lemmon and Walter Matheu.
Opinions are like as*es and everyones got one and some stink to high heaven. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 7/19/2005 7:59:35 PM | __Nope. And please do not ask this question again. O.K.
Doc
P.S. WOW. 800 posts. Did I waste it on this corny thread? OMG | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 7/19/2005 8:24:00 PM | i have an even better one for ya Bella:
starts out the same: guy pushing his wife for a threesome, etc,etc.. but the wife ends up leaving him for the other WOMAN! Turns out she discovered she was a lesbian! How's that for Karma?? | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 7/19/2005 9:03:55 PM | i have an even better one for ya Bella:
starts out the same: guy pushing his wife for a threesome, etc,etc.. but the wife ends up leaving him for the other WOMAN! Turns out she discovered she was a lesbian! How's that for Karma??
^^ Ah, yeah Yumymumy....that would be karma at it's height...touche! | |
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Posted: 7/20/2005 7:52:13 AM | | Yes I dated a married man..... I fell in love with him before knowing he was married. I was married at the time...... I regret it but then again I dont. My marriage should have never happened. My husband spent more time with his truck than he did with me and our son..... I told him if things didnt change I was going to leave..... I met this man before I could leave. Like I said I regret it and will never do it again.... | |
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