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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 8/30/2005 5:49:02 PM | | no...and personaly i wouldnt. If ya get married...to bad! If u want to f*uck around stay single or date someone who wants to f*ck around also | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 9/4/2006 10:08:58 PM | | I absolutely WILL NOT DATE a married man!!!! In fact, I won't even date a man my gal pals are even remotely interested in! I always figure if I a guy wants to date me he knows where to find me. I have always heard they are persistent too. They dont' give up until they get an answer, either way. I guess you can say I'm into the trouble free lifestyle. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 9/5/2006 5:36:50 AM | | married men on here vancity are not married, they may have a paper that says they are, for instance, i have a roommate, not a wife, i think im fun, although, you would have to ask my girlfriend, alan | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 9/5/2006 8:30:33 AM | I think this post suggests that maybe the "European Model"  of married people taking discreet lovers is the only way marriage can actually work long term for the stability of the family. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 9/5/2006 10:04:30 AM | | once,but i didn't know he was married since he claimed to be single and his friends never mentioned anything. found out 3 weeks into the relationship when he tried the "i love you,but i need to be truthful". last time i saw him, he called and sent flowers to my apt and job but there was just no way | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 9/5/2006 3:25:09 PM | from a poster "I'm married, and I go out with other women on occasion. My wife does the same thing"
Okay...did you like completely ignore your wedding vows when you were saying them. I consider marriage to be a contract - love, honour and cherish forsaking all others.... ya that means you aren't supposed to date other people... I wouldn't date a married man unless I didn't know he was married, and if I ever found out I was dating married man he'd be so gone. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/20/2008 3:30:59 PM | I was in a long distance relationship with a married man that I met on a chat line.
He lied to me and told me he was divorced and I was naive enough to believe him.
I stayed at his apartment which I realize now was there for the soul purpose of his affairs. He introduced me to some of his family and friends and not one of them had the decency to tell me that he was married and they even called him by the fake name he gave me.
I see him on here and it really bothers me to think that other women have or will be used by this man the same way he used me.
Some red flags to look for are;
If he doesn't give you his home phone number, And gives you a cell #
If his apartment doesn't look lived in chances are it is only used as a romper room.
If he drives a rent a car or the car he drives belongs to his sister, friend....
If you find bras, panties and unmentionables around he is either married, with someone or a X dresser.
You will never hear from him on the weekends because he is with his family.
Can anyone think of anymore red flags? | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/20/2008 7:11:37 PM | | Its always good to see how many cheats and prospective cheats are on site at any given time. And you all have the same line.... | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 2/9/2008 9:33:40 AM | If his wife doesn't want him around why would I?
I know of some women who no longer desire their husbands and encourage them to sleep around!! The other woman is actually doing them a favor and while they are servicing these rejected husbands the wife is out shopping $ $ $ $ at Bloomies or Holts or is enjoying a little R&R somewhere in the tropics! | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 2/9/2008 9:59:07 AM | | The honest truth....Yes and he treated me like a princess, we are still friends and no guy has come close in comparison to the way he treated me since, he didn't lie, he respected me, he is good looking, he was there when I needed to cry and he is still there as a friend when yet another man messes with my head.....I don't regret it and am proud to have a friend like him. Some may view me as a bad person, at the time I didn't know what I wanted or where I was going. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 2/1/2009 5:05:29 PM | No, I have not! Pardon me for coming across as "sanctimonious", but I wouldn't stoop so low! I have FAR TOO MUCH self respect, integrity and pride, to even consider such a thing. If you are married, and you feel as though you have to "look beyond/outside" of your situation for someone else, well GUESS WHAT, dear hearts??? Time to call it a day, get a divorce and move on with your life! Many of us have done just that, too. Nothing NEW under the sun....
I have seen so many profiles, on this site, from married people (usually men...) that are looking for "something on the side". Emphasizing in their profiles that they "don't want to change their current situation". Pardon me, while I laugh my pretty little behind off, over this crap! In essence, they want to "have their cake and eat it, too"........ You cannot have it both ways, without someone getting hurt in the end. Life is complicated enough, without incorporating this nonsense into it. However, there are many "SELFISH/SELF SERVING" people in this world, that do NOT give a rat's a.s.s. about anyone, but themselves.  I think I have made MY point abundantly clear..... | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 2/1/2009 6:59:54 PM | No. I'd rather stay away from that situation.
I won't judge anyone who does though as we all do things against our better judgment and sometimes the reasons why we get into such situations are complicated.
I have dated someone who was in another relationship.....long complicated story....I LEARNED MY LESSON from that situation and I would much rather avoid it. Having sex with a taken person is one thing...not condoning it at all but it is easier to do than when feelings are involved. If you become attached to this taken person then it will not be a pretty situation at all! | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 2/1/2009 8:49:17 PM | | Yep, worst decision I ever made in my life. Those comandments were made for a reason. There are many sins also made after the initial sin of adultery even though you are not married it is still adultery, then you go with this married man even though separated and horrible things start to happen, his wife threw him out for a reason. Then he starts stealing from you since you have a job, and the few nice things that you do have. Quits his job after he meets you. Borrows money to buy more cologne that he thinks you like. Believe me, it gets worse, but I'm in a good mood so I'll keep it light. But it was a nightmare. Of course, he is long gone. I still regret that I got involved with a married man, and I am sorry I did that to his wife even though they were separated. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 2/1/2009 9:13:28 PM |
No one is knocking you because you don't want to date married men, I support you 100%!! I was 'knocking' you because you could not remain objective, and take NO point of view. You immediately assumed the 'the wife is hurting' and only the man is to blame.
Why would she be sympathetic to the person who is doing the cheating? It was obvious that she was saying that the it was the person who was being cheated on would be hurt, she made it gender specific because she's heterosexual. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 2/1/2009 9:35:48 PM |
Have you dated a married man?
Based on technicality, yes. They had been separated for over a year but had not finalized the divorce because he was deployed. He ended up leaving me to go back to her before their divorce was ever final. Talk about karma. It's a mistake I will never make again.
I've never dated a man who was still with his wife and I can say with the utmost certainty that I never would. It's such a demeaning, selfish act. Just because someone is going to cheat doesn't mean you have to be the one they're going to do it with.  | |
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Posted: 2/2/2009 10:46:16 AM | I did go on a date with a married man, when I was young, before I even had children. I didn't know he was married at the start of the date.
We went to a restaurant and had a lovely dinner. When we exited to the parking lot, there was a pickup truck just sitting there idling, waiting at the curb and he said "uh oh". It turned out that it was his wife driving the truck. There was some yelling and name-calling (them).
Well, I needed a ride home, didn't I? I didn't especially want to have him drive me home, so I asked her for a ride. She said yes but I could see in her eyes "hell no i don't want to give you a ride home" but also "hell no i don't want him giving you a ride home". The ride started out pretty icey but I made a little small conversation to warm things up and then told her I didn't know he was married. I was just a naive little sweet girl back then, I'm sure it was hard for her to stay ticked at me.
So, the ride home turned out fine, I got a little insight into what it would be like to be married, to have small children, to have a cheating husband. But, again, I was rather young and not relating to any of that stuff at all....oh to be young and blissfully ignorant again. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 2/2/2009 11:15:15 AM | | I do not date married men, but most of my clients are married. I fulfill needs their wives find disgusting or strange and will not do. I believe I have kept many marriages together. Several times the wives have accompanied them to learn from me. Before you go assuming, I do not have sex with the men that seek me out. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 2/2/2009 12:08:40 PM | "Have you dated a married man? Any fun, or different?"
I've never dated a married man ever... but I have dated a married woman!
I found it to be fun and in at least one case, the husband knew and got off on it.
It was fun and kind of kinky in its own way. | |
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