| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 12:26:33 PM | | as harsh this may sound if I want my real monster pole why not , I goona get it and give him a kiss and go home and feed my fish, woman can get her goods to with out crying about it. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 2:57:57 PM | | From what I remember...the girls who said that they would not have sex quickly (unsollicited, like they had already been thinking of it) seemed to always want sex the quickest..and I waited for them to make the move...weird huh? | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 3:09:46 PM | | exactly acburbank but some do, but my point is why cant a woman just take her good or bad sex and just go home and enjoy a coofee with out thinking to much. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 3:38:41 PM | | LOL I laugh because sex is so over rated and so much is put on it nowadays. Who cares if anyone gets laid or not. Most women will either be all bent that the guy didn't please her the way she wanted, or that the guy was nervous and could not get it up, was not into it as much. Even men complain about how women are in bed. So much of a big deal when it is just sex. Man. Glad in a way I am not sexually active after hearing so many people complain about sex and so many wondering this and that. Maybe it is a good thing afterall not getting it. And here I thought I was a loser for not having sex in 5 years. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 3:44:35 PM | | lol exactly guy, dont mean to be graphic if I want my d*ck hey no one is goona stop me. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 3:49:35 PM | Like I said women can get it when they choose to. Not men.
Man i remember back 4 years ago, a year of no sex and I thought what is going on, everyone else is getting it, then 2 years went by and so on, now 5 years and I am man, wh cares. I doubt I will get it now what would be the occassion. LOL Funny how time makes you change your thought about it. | |
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Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 33 | |
| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 4:00:28 PM | | We may have the power to say no,but it seems to me sometimes some men may say what ever they want to get sex,and this is why alot of women will say no to soon,as we know that most of the guys will never call again or get to know them.alot of my friends have had this happen to them.one gf inparticular gave in the first time early to sex with a guy she liked and thought ok,it feels ok,and never heard from him again.she now concludes men that would contact you ,are few and far between.its to bad these people ,think they can label the women ,but not the guy,guess its the double standard. we are all human and once and awhile feel the need to be held or loved physically but if it comes down to being used or not respected why bother?? i think myself and a few other women ,will probably join the convent,lol as the way things are going out there, your dammed if you do or dammed if you dont''. | |
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Posted: 1/11/2006 4:10:46 PM | | Is why I gave up thinking I ever will have sex. So many women have been burned they view us men all in th same light. But it is understood. So even after these years gone by some woman actually gets desperate enough to want to with me, I would mor ethan likely think she is full of it anyhow. Why would one want to with me after so many eyars of them not ever wanting to is what I would think. | |
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Posted: 1/11/2006 4:49:09 PM | ^^^^^ hahahaha!!!!! And I suppose without a prenup either!!!! Come on folks, where's your reason and sensibilities? If you can comunicate enough to go horizontal, you can communicate about your pertinent issues. Read their language! Their choice of words (with level of promptness), body language---mostly, the eyes! A liar can be found out,... but you also have to have the personal resolve to not be manipulated,.... even if its usually the gal that needs the aformentioned, it really does go both ways.
And personally, no sex on the first sleep-over! Kinda like proof that one can control oneself, especially if the friendship is new. However, that could alter in a longer courtship having the 'sleep-over' after a lengthy period of courting. And yeah! It's all relative to perspective of definition. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 5:01:16 PM | | If you sleep with a man on the first date..it's just common sense to know bloody well he ain't calling, so take that chance if you like. But don't complain about it, it is well known that most men (note I said most) believe if a woman sleeps with them on the first date she's trashy. So you either take that chance or simply say no. | |
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Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 38 | |
| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 5:10:11 PM | | If you go on a lot of dates then you shouldn't put out, I will only go on a date if I am interested in that person not just to go out. If there is chemestry then why not. I've never had a guy not call me after having sex with them. They might have called to tell me to get lost but they at least called. | |
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Posted: 1/11/2006 5:21:10 PM | | Damn last date I went on, she left to go home with someone else. Must say alot about me LOL | |
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Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 40 | |
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Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 41 | |
| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 5:34:05 PM |
He's Just Not That Into You
By Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
Oh sure, they say they're busy. They say that they didn't have even a moment in their insanely busy day to pick up the phone. It was just that crazy. All lies. With the advent of cell phones and speed dialing, it is almost impossible not to call you. Sometimes I call people from my pants pocket when I don't even mean to. If I were into you, you would be the bright spot in my horribly busy day. Which would be a day that I would never be too busy to call you. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 5:46:35 PM |
yes Y2 you must be doing something wrong
Oh well hey shit happens. What can ya do I say. Sex? I laugh and say "What is that" | |
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Sniggy
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Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 43 | |
| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 5:49:37 PM | I don't know but if I get to 5 years without it I am going to find a male prostitute and pay for it....  | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 5:51:40 PM | If you sleep with a man on the first date..it's just common sense to know bloody well he ain't calling, so take that chance if you like. But don't complain about it, it is well known that most men (note I said most) believe if a woman sleeps with them on the first date she's trashy. So you either take that chance or simply say no.
That is true, CountrySugar.
It is simple, really.
The slower a guy moves, the longer he sees the relationship lasting. If he is pushing for sex the first night, then he is in it for the short term.
If he goes slow, he just might respects you. Watch his actions, watch how he treats others, and if all signs are yes, then let him know. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 6:26:29 PM |
I don't know but if I get to 5 years without it I am going to find a male prostitute and pay for it..
Why would a woman not be able to get any sex for 5 years? Give me a break, that would only be by choice. There is no way any woman goes 5 years without sex. For us guys sure, 10 years whatever it is.
Hey Sniggy, it isn't that bad. The first couple of years is annoying as you see everyone talking about getting laid and see them with someone. But after the 3rd year you get used to it and after 5 years you realize that you cannot do anything about it. When a woman does not think of you in a sexual way, hey can't change that.
I am the friend is all I am, never have been the guy the women wanna take home. Used to really get to me at one time. But now, I know sex ain't happening for me again more than likely. Unless someone is that desperate and I think if a woman is desperate, she will find someone hot for a night of sex. | |
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Msg: 46 | |
| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 7:06:47 PM | | okay Y2 your right I have been aproached but I wasn't interested in him. so when you look at the subject Don't give in to the sex I don't unless I think it will go somewhere. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 7:23:52 PM | Ahh there ya go. One thing for me, I have never asked a woman to go home with me. And I have never had a one night stand. Most women have never looked at me more than just a fun, cool guy to hang out with. No sex, as they do not find me sexually attractive.
I remember at one time, there were 5 girls who hung out with the group of us 7 guys. Those 5 girls slept with all 6 of my friends, I was the only one out of us 7 who never got any action from them. We would all go out to the clubs and the girls would alot of times go home with one of the guys for the night of casual fun. Was great for them. Sucked for me. LOL. Is why i never can relate to the one night stands, sex on the first date/meeting, casual sex etc. Never have had that experience and never will. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 7:34:10 PM | Why should I deny myself something pleasurable>? I think most of us go out of our way to find pleasure and enjoyment in life. If it were going to affect my health ((mental or otherwise)) I might "just say no". Otherwise, I don't see the whole purpose behind it>? | |
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Posted: 1/11/2006 7:38:52 PM | Y2! I know what ya mean!!! buncha years ago I had a compact kingkab nissan,... I managed to get six gals into it. Three gals in the back (two fold-down side-seats) and another three up fronttwo on the passenger seat and the last on the console with my manual gear-shift 'tween her legs!!! ( ) I couldn't beleive my luck,... until I got home alone! A case of the blue? Can't recall, but I bet I drank about a case. I've always hated one-night stands, and I've told the ladies I don't want 'em,... doesn't seem to stop 'em tho'. Usually ends up as a two or three night-stand! Just as bad!
Oh, if you try to get her attention by calling her name? If you have to say her name twice,... ...it's not her name!!! | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 7:48:07 PM | | Exactly what I was thinking. Everyone is out to have fun. But, if you decide to have sex and then don't hear from them, what's the big deal? You could send message to them through pof..email or phone whichever u prefer. Why wait for the man to do it? I just don't understand that logic at all! | |
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