krunge
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Joined: 12/30/2005
Msg: 51 | |
| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 7:48:56 PM | Where are these sex girls that I need to defy?
I'll go one better
Where are these sex girls that I need to defile
defile1 >verb 1 make dirty; spoil or pollute. 2 desecrate.
-DERIVATIVES defilement >noun defiler >noun.
-ORIGIN alteration of obsolete defoul, from Old French defouler 'trample down'.
need I say anymore | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 7:49:07 PM | | It's not so much that time makes you change your mind about it. If you got it tomorrow you would want it all the time. Just something you have learned to do without Y2 | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 7:49:22 PM | Why should I deny myself something pleasurable>? I think most of us go out of our way to find pleasure and enjoyment in life. If it were going to affect my health ((mental or otherwise)) I might "just say no". Otherwise, I don't see the whole purpose behind it>?
That is the luxury of having that power to decide, don't you love it?
I would love to have that power once...man there I go again dreaming I gotta stop doing that.
if a woman is going to wanna get some action, she is going for the best looking guy not some average joe. She knows she would be turned on big time by the hot guy. makes the night of sex all worthwhile.
I bet my life if i met you, you would shoot me down and say 'You think you are getting some Canadian boy? I don't think sso sucker!!!" LOL
Is quite funny when guys do get shot down. Glad I have never gone that extra mile to see if I could go home with someone. That rejection is the worst kind out of them all.
It's not so much that time makes you change your mind about it. If you got it tomorrow you would want it all the time. Just something you have learned to do without Y2
Is the best experience too I would have to say. Learning to live without it for this long, has made me not care if i ever get it again. Besides if some woman came out of the blue and wanted to go home with me, I would ask her who put her up to it. I just would have a hard time believing that a woman after five years would want to now. Sex is easy to live without the longer you have not had it. Also what sucker is going to be desperate enough to want to I say. | |
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J~C
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Joined: 11/5/2005
Msg: 54 | |
| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 7:54:04 PM | I read this on a POF profile somewhere, and it is so true, " Keep the bone, and the dog will follow ", LOL. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 7:56:55 PM | | id say we all have learned from past exparences but i remember some one wise telling me men only take advantage if u let them | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 7:59:50 PM | hahaha let me and I will not know what to do. How embarrassing would it be..the woman finds out the guy has not had sex in years, she would walk out and say "Man this guy is weird, no way am i getting pleased" LOL
If I knew how to take advantage of it if it was in front of me then everything would be different, but damned in I know now. LOL | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 8:29:08 PM | Why is it your job to "defile" Krunge> Is that your chosen profession by night>? I just have to ask, what by day>?
By the way, you can't defile someone who won't be defiled~~~ There is something called a conscious choice, ya know>?   | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/12/2006 12:13:11 AM | Y2J2006...I hear you loud and clear, as soon as women come down off the pedestal of men owe them this and owe them that and meet us with respect for our feelings and efforts then some progress will be made towards establishing healthy relationships.
Women want guys to continue asking them out, because it continues the status quo. They don't want that changed. But you, me, and many other guys are starting to realize that we don't have to even ask anymore. There is no benefit to asking anymore or even trying for relationships. Sex isn't worth the mental anguish you have to go through and men won't play the circus lion jumping through hoops anymore for sex.
So, now more women are finding themselves in cold, empty beds, with no one to give them back massages, buy flowers, talk with, share moments, etc they are starting to complain men aren't men and don't respect them etc to try elicit a guilty trip on men to go back to the previous behaviour. I guess buying batteries by the 12 pack and flowers for yourself just doesn't cut it as good.
Oh well, eh Y2J2006, I guess guys just aren't desperate enough to make fools of themselves anymore. The song by Great White sums it up nicely.
Once Bitten, Twice Shy.
ahhhh, A whole bed to myself, nite nite. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/12/2006 3:30:11 AM | | Once bitten, never shy is me. I remember my buddy and I sitting with this woman he met offline last summer. We were having drinks and such and so he asked her point blank if she would take him home. She said no problem. I laughed after because i never could ask that to any woman. Only because I would feel like a loser if she laughed and said no. He just said it and didn't care. I gave him alot of credit for that, more balls than i ever will have. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/12/2006 7:18:46 AM | Ya-seems like whenever I spend time with a woman they want to take me to bed. To me it causes problems like TOO MUCH PRESSURE AND EXPECTATIONS! Whatever happened to plutonic relationships? I much enjoy the company of women=way more than men. Women are more real. Maybe I should tell them I'm gay? Don't get me wrong=I love women an d am passionate and REALLY enjoy sex. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/12/2006 8:07:02 AM | | I always joke with friends and co-workers when they talk sex I say 'What is that again? been so long I forgot" | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/12/2006 2:09:14 PM | | Who cares sometimes its fun to be easy and you DONT have to stick around. Smart girls know that they should have waited and you can tell... | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/12/2006 11:11:05 PM | | sex?! im still tring to figure out dating rules after being off the market for 11 yrs. Please share that info | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/13/2006 12:00:58 AM | Waited for what ureadthis>? To find out their husband has no clue what he's doing or can't satisfy her>? Or, maybe he'll be like some people and go out and cheat when his wife can't satisfy him either, since she "waited" and has no experience at all. But, then, I'm sure the guy would have the experience, right, since it's okay for guys to "not wait" >? So, he could just "teach" her and hope she catches on and likes it... LOL~~~   | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/13/2006 12:03:15 AM | | One more thing, and then I'm done---REALLY~~~ I still want a copy of this "so-called" rule book>? I've never seen it and I'm totally curious. Especially about the copyright date on the inside cover>? | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/13/2006 1:06:22 AM | Know what you mean!!!
Think that final copy got burned the night chivarly died,... ya know? when than Romeo/juliet thing happened way back when??
So much fer marrying fer lub! | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/13/2006 6:54:45 AM | | hey YOUANDME, come to Toronto and it would be a pleasure to take you out for a bite to eat. With those beautiful eyes? Man you CAN have any guy you want. I can tell that you grab hold of men's attention when they look at you for sure with them eyes and that smile. Wow. And the pic with the glasses, very sweet. Why would someone like you be single out there? Come on now, BC has a bunch of single guys I am sure who would take you out hands down. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/13/2006 7:05:03 AM | It's been my experience that if you really really like the guy you do whatever it takes to NOT have sex with him right away. Dont ask me why, I have never been able to figure men out. If youre not that into him but want to have fun, then have sex with him, because 10 - 1 he's not going to call you anyway.
Youandme.....I agree with y2. Youre eyes and smile are your weapons. Use them!! | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/13/2006 7:11:07 AM | | You said it, those eyes and smile will get her what she wants and then some. Women with those two features, man many seem to not use them to thier benefit. The two best features ever, eyes and smile. Nothing like talking to a woman and having her eyes grab hold of you and you just look right at them. | |
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| live wire
Posted: 1/13/2006 10:32:38 AM | | there is no need to be extreme. I said wait a bit. You are coomparing waiting for marriage to waiting for AFTER the first date. Then you go on to say its okay for a man to do it but not for a woman. I actually never claimed it was good for either. Actions have reactions. Dont expect to escape judgement from people. Is not that you are a terrible person at all its weither you truly make the person feel comfortable and have trust in them. And dont tell me you have trsut in them in because you had sex on the first date. You were horny, saw someone attractive and ****ed. Deal with ALL the possible consequences. I know all the consequences of me having sex on the first date. SOme of them can be good, more often than not their not so good and result in unwanted circumstances, thoughts and emotion... | |
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| livewires "rule book"
Posted: 1/13/2006 10:35:36 AM | | No rules are set in stone. People form their own rules. Just because you dont like them doesnt mean you dont have a set of your own....Some people like having rules to live by. Their rules are made in freedom. And you don't have to like them.... | |
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| livewires rule book
Posted: 1/13/2006 12:59:34 PM | And it is sad to say..I never have had a one night stand, never met someone and had sex the first time we met, and most of all..not had any opprotunities arise in 5 years. Now how pathetic is that.
Those are not by choice either. Any offers? Anyone? Anyone? No? | |
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| livewires rule book
Posted: 1/13/2006 2:57:34 PM | i once read in one of my sister's cosmos years back that dealt with some men's 'three date rule' (no cookie after 3 dates and gone) in an article that advised women to not sleep with a new man until after the 10th date, and then (get this), never refuse him.
it's all crap. in my sheltered (haha) experience i have slept with women on a first date and continued to stay with them for 5 years. and i have dated women without intimacy for long periods of time only to see it end after the deed was done.
sometimes it works, sometimes it doesnt, but i know that if it's not going to work waiting how ever many dates isnt going to change your desire (mentally and physically, spiritually would go a long way to help keep the fires burning too) for that person or the passion you do or dont feel. | |
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| livewires rule book
Posted: 1/13/2006 8:08:13 PM | The aspect of this subject I would like to comment on is the double standard.
I am 52 and even as early as when i was 15 I NEVER understood why if women did they get called names and if guys did-damn good on them.
I love sex, and would never ever USE anyone, and the comment that men only go as far as they are allowed is very true. | |
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