| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/14/2006 9:12:19 AM | | Looking at the picture in your post you look like you have been crying into that pillow. Just what kind of sex have you been having that would make you feel this bad? | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/14/2006 9:30:07 AM | | I never said I was having bad sex or crying into my pillow. I was responding to Y2J2006's post | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/14/2006 11:18:18 AM | But would it not scare off women when they find out that a guy has not had it in years?
You personally, if you met a guy and hit it off, and decided you wanted to go home with hi one night and he felt comfortable to tell you something. And so he says "I have not had sex in 5 years" what would your reaction be?
I mean the guy is being honest, a good thing, feels comfortable to let you know, another good thing, but so many women would be scared off..why? The guy would be showing he is honest not lying. So what would you think? | |
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Posted: 1/14/2006 11:26:58 AM | Ok I do not know what to say now...you got me there.
My reason for no sex in 5 years is just no opprotunities and no luck. Not by choice.
Mind you if some woman I met said she wanted to go home with me, I would be speechless, start tripping over my words and then be like "What? get out of here, seriously"
And for me to take a chance and ask a woman 'Do you want to go home with me?" well I do not think I could ever do that. | |
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Posted: 1/14/2006 7:33:38 PM | [But would it not scare off women when they find out that a guy has not had it in years?
You personally, if you met a guy and hit it off, and decided you wanted to go home with hi one night and he felt comfortable to tell you something. And so he says "I have not had sex in 5 years" what would your reaction be?]
I havent had sex in six years - I have even dated less (by choice) because men almost insist that if you date even one nite, have a good time, and kiss and cuddle, sex is the next step. I hate that its expected - I dont want to bring a flyswatter on dates!
So in answer to the question, NO it would not scare off *all* women to find out a guy has not had it in years, in fact I would respect you so much if you were my date, and you could just go out with me and have a great time, be close , laugh, kiss, dance, watch movies, have drinks, whatever - and develop and RELATIONSHIP with me without me having to worry about fighting you off! I could truly be myself and let all guard down... How AWSOME that would be!!
WHERE are you hiding?????
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Posted: 1/15/2006 5:35:24 AM | Great, just great..and you live in the Show me State...that is just so not fair.
When you coming to Toronto next?  | |
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Posted: 1/16/2006 10:15:50 AM | O-T-B has been going out with the wrong type of woman.
Anyway Y2J2006, after looking at your profile I can't see why you haven't had the "opportunity" for the last 5 years. I think if I had met you and you came across as you do in your profile, it wouldn't scare me off that you hadn't had sex in a few years. It's not something you tend to forget how to do . . . . | |
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Posted: 1/16/2006 10:24:58 AM | | Well..uh..thanks Gallivanting..I apprciate the compliment. And see that, has to be a good woman living a few provinces away...go figure...but believe it or not yes, no opprotunities have come my way. As I put it, impressing the women here in Toronto is a tough thing. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2006 12:30:46 PM | [As I put it, impressing the women here in Toronto is a tough thing. ]
Y2J, whats wrong with those women in Toronto not seeing a great guy right in front of them??? Come on over here where the midwest women appreciate men with morals and a great smile!!!  | |
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Posted: 1/16/2006 12:37:38 PM | Oh my...what have I done now...
I tell ya, it is because the big city people try to compete with prestige and stuff. And alot of women here love that type of attention and do in fact get all caught up in it.
Some love it when the hot guys pick them up, only want sex whenever he calls and they will even complain about it, but they forget in no time because he is hot has a nice car etc. Crazy but true..not all here are like that but I have not met any decent ones here because, frankly they are all taken usually.
Damn Peaches...Missouri is the place for me....you would have me at the stateline for sure... | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 8:11:15 PM | Thank u genngi....
At least u got the point... Its like if u are really into someone for more than a good time, i wouldnt sleep with them for the fact that if u do and take that chance of sleeping with him and really being into him then u are risking your happiness. Sleeping with someone that u truely care about just takes that emotion so much deeper, at least for me... Now if u are with someone just for a good time and u dont have a connection with him or her, and u want to sleep with them, then whatever, if u both want to do it, then do it... | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 10:48:40 PM | | I've been in so many situations where that's all the guy wanted. I just started having sex the summer that just passed.We were together for like a year and a couple of months. When we started having sex, everything was good. Better than they ever were. A couple of months later, he broke up with me. Sometimes I think he used me but I'm over it now. I still wish I would've waited though. We still talk as friends though. I go over on the weekends but we don't have sex anymore. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 11:23:47 PM | Y2J,
I don't think sex is something you forget how to do, lol, its a pretty instinctual thing!
I've read your posts in this thread and it sounds like you could benefit from taking some risks in asking ladies out. Who cares if they say no? I'm sure it would be disappointing, but not the end of the world. One says no, ask the next one. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 11:41:39 PM | | I didn't even know that they had gotten organized. Have they started an Insurgency? You damn dirty sex girls! | |
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Posted: 1/19/2006 12:59:04 AM | HI
If you post a thread to an open forum, dont be surpirsed if people post their opinion to it no matter if you agree or not. They are entitled to it, as are you to yours. However, I would suggest, regarding your original post, that the kind of attitude you displayed in your response, may be part of the problem??
ps - This is my opinion not a statement of fact so acknowledge it as that not as a child. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2006 1:24:45 AM | | Sometimes i'll leave after I have sex with a girl. Don't pick up her calls, ignore her, never see her again, that shit. Once I got what I wanted I'm done. BUT there are times after after having sex with a girl I want her even more, over and over. I usually make a decision when I first meet her whether I like her or not. If I like her then I will stick around and get sprung for her, and sex just seals the deal. So I wouldn't say that guys always leave once they get sex; they probably weren't interested in her in the first place. Besides, emotions change; we can't explain it. | |
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Posted: 1/20/2006 10:59:44 PM | | yea but its not in both the womens and the mans fault, its biology creating whats natural? chemestry and no power on earth is going to stop two people who are in the mood. I say go for it just make sure you both feel the same way about each other. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/20/2006 11:01:36 PM | lol lococoyote and u are on here looking for long term?
Hopefully for u, none of the women interested in u come and read your posts
Hopefully for them, they do | |
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Posted: 1/20/2006 11:08:30 PM | | i think women should stop giving in. too many fall for the sweet talk and shit and then regret it after the deed is done. I never have had a one nighter ever. | |
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Posted: 1/20/2006 11:26:49 PM | There is sex and there is love ..... two different things..
You can have sex with someone you love ... and it can be wonderful
You can have sex with someone you like .... and it can be wonderful
You can have sex with someone you meet ... and it can be wonderful
You can do the holding off thing and you may get your way ...
You can do the holding off thing and watch the guy walk away ...
Ladies think about your situation and what you want and go from there ...
To a man .... sex is sex ..... not more / it can be wonderful and even earth moving ...
but it is one thing on its own .... to relate it to love in a magical way is irrelevant and unimportant...
I am not saying that it may or may not "seem" better with someone you are all enchanted by and in love with .... but it can be good on its own as the act between consenting people.... and it is separate fom love. | |
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