| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/20/2006 11:35:21 PM | OK.. let me get this right.. sex is sex... ok.... thank you for letting me in on that.. lol | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/20/2006 11:40:52 PM | | Haha i ain't gonna get laid then for many more years to cum..err come...I guess i gotta be asking women outright if they wanna go home with me..something I really cannot see me having the balls to do. That would be the ultimate rejection to experience, some woman saying "Ya whatever buddy in your dreams" or something to that effect. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/21/2006 12:16:12 AM | | obviously sex and "love" are not the same-anyone hear of HIV? I can't believe how stupid some people are-a guy has a cute butt or the lady has a nice "rack"-I thought that it was only 15 yr old kids (girls) who thought that if u do it he'll love you-exact opposite ...why would a guy call a girl back after she was so easy to nail?He'd think that everyone is doing it with her....no "long-term" possibilities there...am I right guys? | |
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Posted: 1/21/2006 12:24:58 AM | Sexyrenee, don't think you're a whore... Did you get paid>? That's what "whores" do, get paid for sex.
Look at it as life experience. Don't let it make you bitter, because it's probably happened to every person on here waaay more than once or twice~~ | |
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Posted: 1/21/2006 12:36:11 AM | | Although I have never gone home with someone after first meeting them, if someone wants to be active, so be it, just be careful about it. But never fall for the BS charm from the guys who are just talking thier way into your pants. So many have told me over the years that I could easily be that way too, I got the gift of gab etc. But I could never do that really. But mind you I have never been in that situation yet so it is hard for me to judge. Have not had any women ask me to go home with them nor have I asked a woman to go home with me. | |
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Posted: 1/21/2006 3:41:56 AM | | I agree completely with not sleeping with them right away. I would never do it with somebody I don't know well enough so soon again. The first date is completely out of the question. It's so much better if you wait and get to know the other person. My thoughts going into this was that it would be fun, and it was, but there's emotions that come creeping in sometimes whether you want them to or not and if the other person doesn't feel the same, it's not a good thing. | |
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Posted: 1/21/2006 7:34:21 AM | | Y@ I bet if you trimmed your facial hair and dressed up you would knock our socks off .You are cute and on topic if they did not call me in 2 days I would definately call them.Maybe they are waiting to see if you call.Maybe they go home thinking "man I screwed that one up"no pun intended.Call him ,what you got to lose? | |
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Posted: 1/21/2006 7:40:08 AM | | I have found put the hard way... there are some guys out there who will play any game just to get sex... but on the other hand there are also some nice guys, who still feel that if you say no.. you're frigid so they stop calling you........... can we win?? | |
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Posted: 1/21/2006 8:06:21 AM | | of course you can win..I have been celibate for 5 years...is that a bad thing for a guy? | |
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Posted: 1/21/2006 8:09:18 AM | | Errr not sure how to comment on that one.. and I would not want to be celibate for that long... sex is meant to be fun and with the right person it can be, fun, thrilling, intense, loving and is perfectly natural | |
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Posted: 1/21/2006 9:03:06 AM | | Ah but you said the right person...me I have met nothing but the wrong women so the no sex in 5 years has not been by choice at all. has been no offerings. | |
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Posted: 1/21/2006 9:07:45 AM | More like an Ocean apart...but unfortunately it is true, no offering ssince October 2000. My birthday is this coming Friday so who knows, maybe I might luck out for my birthday? Anyone? Anyone? LOL | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/21/2006 9:05:32 PM | y2 you keep going on an on about how long you have been celibate, now I am starting to think you aren't telling the truth ,Are just looking for sympathy? go get some or quit complaining. just go to a bar and keep asking every woman until you find one that says yes.  this thread isn't "Don't give in to sex with Y2" here I will even ask for you. Would one of you really nice ladies please invite Y2 over and rock his world?  | |
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Posted: 1/22/2006 2:27:10 AM | Wait at least a few dates......................unless you just want sex and thats all,
just be carefull............sex is the quickest way to get a guy out of your life before a relationship even takes its first breath | |
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Posted: 1/22/2006 9:29:08 AM | Why is it that when someone gets burned or isn't getting laid for a long time for whatever reason, has to preach to us and try to convince everyone not to "give in" to sex.
We are all adults here with a free and open mind to do what we wish. Men are not svengali's who hypnotize women into doing things they don't want too. Women don't get duped into sex. And if you think that, than your implying that women are stupid.
There is nothing wrong with 2 adults having sex on a first date. There is also nothing wrong with 2 adults dating eachother for 2 years and not having sex either.
To each their own. Don't judge others the same as you judge yourself. | |
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Posted: 1/25/2006 12:23:25 AM | Hey well i myself did not start this forum because i cant get laid, let me just make that clear. Yes because i got burned mabey, i was voicing my opinoin on having sex too soon for the females that can fall to easy. Or for whatever reason, and no their is nothing wrong with sex on the first date, I THINK THAT FOR THE FEMALES IF U FEEL MORE THAN WOW THIS GUY IS HOT AND I WANT TO FU*K HIM THEN HOLD OUT TO SEE IF HE IS MORE INTERESTED IN U THAN SEX. OR U WILL MOST LIKELY GET HURT. INNOCENT ADVICE... | |
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Posted: 1/25/2006 6:19:43 PM | Some guys might think that a chick willing to have sex on the first day, might show your true intentions.............This one chick who i met off here, we talked for a while....quite a while in fact, we decided to meet......the feelings were there, we loved talkin to eachother....i went to her house a hour and a half away, we spent the day layin aroun d watchin movies, holding eachother......things got a little hot..........she wanted to go all the way............i didnt........she was "thats fine, i understand." so, i left because i had to work that night and was only gonna get 3 hours of sleep. She told me to call her when i got home.......im thinkin that this chick is really diggin me, i mean, it was great! Layin around cuddling, holding eachother..........hadnt had someone that just wanted me to hold them in a while....it was nice. WEll, i got home, called her........no answer......called a little bit later......no answer.........called befor i went to work.......no answer........called from work.......no answer.......called when i got home........no answer........checked my email, and there it was........."its not gonna work out between us......................" basicly because i didnt feel like goin all the way was best for us at the moment. So......To the dudes..........be careful! If your lookin for a REAL relationship like I am, and find someone on here that seems to have good intentions.........listen to your heart, trust your feelings. If you think you 2 can handle the next step in the relationship, sex....by al l means.......go for it! If not, dont fall for her sweet talkin. Women know how to sweet talk and say all the right things like us guys do......but they can hide their true intentions alot better than we can! Dont get caught up in what you think is right based on what she is tellin ya and how she is treatin ya......Nothing hurts more than meeting someone who you think might just be the one, later to find out that all they wanted was sex.......and didnt give a damn about your heart.
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/25/2006 9:18:17 PM | | Did you stop to think that guys like to have the women call them as well........kind of to find out if the feeling is mutual...........yes guys should make the initial effort......but if the connection was there for you what is wrong with calling and saying Hi if its been more than a couple of days since you heard from him...........he could sitting there thinking well guess she is not as interested in me as I thought...........so both of you sit there and wonder...... | |
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Posted: 1/25/2006 10:54:16 PM | Xristos, funny story.
Has happened here too. Strange feeling, eh? Things aren't always as they appear. Aloha | |
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Posted: 1/26/2006 12:24:54 AM |
Did you get paid>? That's what "whores" do, get paid for sex.
Keep it down Livewirehere, if my girlfriend sees this, I'm going to have to get a second job.  | |
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Posted: 1/26/2006 5:02:02 AM | Angelbabe1184,
So...your saying that if that special connection between 2 people is there, on the first date, and you both know its not infatuation, lust, a great deal of likeing......that its ok to have sex then......? I understand that if 2 people cant help it, they cant h elp it....but what needs to be in place is knowing that much more will come outta the relationship that good sex and possibly babies! lol. Ive have 1 one night stand. Where there were no strings, no feelings, no nothing, just straight sex.......Im very good at controlling my actions if you get what im trying to say, so when im entering into a relationship........for me to take that next step, i need to be assured that this isnt just sex...that there are many strong feelings behind the actions, i need to......almost feel loved, i need to feel that assurance in my heart befor i can take that next step. I dont want to be "tried on for size..." If i feel like thats whats happening, ill stop. Relationships are about much much more than sex. Ok.......ive ranted enough! Ya'll have a great day!
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/26/2006 6:59:03 AM | : Dont give in to the sex girls ............HEY, you're right, take it to the bank and save it and you will always have it...
OT, ladies keep these anti sex threads coming, it helps us guys weed out the dead in bed chics that don't like or want sex......great post
kce
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