| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/26/2006 8:11:17 PM | A relationship based on sex alone will never last....
A relationship without sex will not last as well.......
I have experienced both first hand.
Sex should be consensual...there should be no pressure.
Men should recognise when she is not emotionally ready and stop pestering her.
Ladies should not dangle sex as a carrot to obtain emotional security, I can understand if you are cautious or selective, but if you send mixed signals and make him jump thru too many hoops...its only a matter of time that he starts looking elsewhere............. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/26/2006 8:20:27 PM | I've had a really powerful connection sexually with my ex. It started of as an office flirtation and progressed for about a month before I laid (no pun) down my cards and admitted we had something in common. She let me know how attractive she felt I was ... strangely I was the one prolonging the inevitable.
Afterwards, was always great. Talking, laughing, and spending time together (even just quietly reading). Unfortunately, after 4 months she decided that she was not ready for a reltionship of any type and wasn't looking to be in one ... sigh 
I don't know if I will ever find anyone that is so into me and vice versa, eventhough it may not be the 'love at first' sight cliche. However, it can happen ... about once every 30 years I'd say. | |
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Posted: 1/26/2006 8:26:17 PM | I give into the sex everytime I can get over to his house!!!! OH wait.. there was that time in my front yard in the front seat of his truck... "assume the position"... tee hee hee  | |
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Posted: 1/30/2006 8:58:40 PM | | It is sad that in a society where women are supposed to be equal that they still play these games. Every women I have ever been with enjoyed the experience just as much as I did. It was her choice to have sex. I am a gentleman and respected their limits. To many women seem to think that men will wine and dine them.Then act like a puppy begging to be let in the house. Wake up ladies! If prostitution were ever made legal and clean in the US, there would be a lot less marriages and unwanted children. Women would have to start working everyday like men. They may even have to be treated like men and sign up for the draft. Wow, now that would be equality! Men are just getting tired of being taken for granted by women that want their cake and eat it too. | |
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Posted: 1/30/2006 9:41:15 PM | One comment Karate, BRAVOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!
I agree 100%(oops that was 4 words lol) | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 2:11:41 AM | Hey... you mean that after a great session of sex with an ex I wasn't supposed to take the $100???? Hmmm.... I think it was called "role playing"... only I kept the $$ !!!  | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 4:44:36 PM | | What's this about equality? LOL! I don't mind making breakfast after an "ahem" evening! I don't think the draft will (can) come back! Govournment has lost that kind of power. Meanwhile,...hehe haha,.... what about the feminist power? Think that's losing steam too! Thanks to the real ladies,...! Thank you! | |
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Posted: 1/31/2006 5:54:04 PM | | Sex is overrated anyhow? Too bad. There is a deeper problem here my friend that I am reading because how can it be overrated? I think sex is great and hope I can do it until I'm 100 years old. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 2/12/2006 5:40:15 PM | I have a terrible problem with the title of this thread.
Don't GIVE IN to the sex girls!!
GIVE IN, why can it not be a mutual enjoyment , just like a good bottle of wine,fun dinner, why does all this heavy shit have to be laid at the door of a lovely thing? | |
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Posted: 1/12/2008 11:56:23 PM |
Not all women are alike.... There doesn't have to be an emotional connenction, not at all~~ As the old bumper sticker says, "Shi# Happens">>>> and so does life~~
I couldn't agree more! The real problem is that women automatically associate emotions with the act of sex. At some point, I think we, as females, need to stop intertwining the two. If you're sleeping with someone you just met, there really couldn't have been that much of an emotional connection. I mean, honestly, how mcuh did you get to know about him before your pants came off? In the end, I don't think it's wrong for two consenting adults to hook up and have great sex as long as both (especially the female) are willing to see it for the good time it is and not the beginning of some extravagant love affair. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2008 12:20:04 AM | Personally I have a three date limit when it comes to sex: if on the third date you do not at least give me oral, I find another woman who is willing to do the heavy lifting. Every woman I have dated has given me sex the night we meet or on the second date.
We need to see you naked before we know if we want anything else to do with you. Just like you girls want to know how much cashola we have or our future precieved earning potential. Dating is war it is never easy there are always complications invovled. Why can't we all just bone and enjoy ourselves?  | |
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Posted: 1/13/2008 12:22:09 AM | why put the kitty in a pedestal?
gosh... for some reason maybe because I dont make it such a big deal... when I used to date a lot... I used to get laid quite as much! and for some reason I never got attached... guys would continue calling nonstop! still to this day they continue calling!
With my boyfriend, first date he came over cause it was my roommates friend... we did all sorts of nasties... and guess what? we are still together... sex had nothing to do with him calling me or not. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2008 4:05:38 AM | | After reading all this, guess I'm just weird....cuz I've always been one that didn't "give in" as you put it. I've never had sex outside a relationship....no casual sex, no one nighters, no FWB, or FB's, and lol definitely do not understand the concept of sex for fun. Since when was did it become a recreational activity? Guess things have changed alot more than I thought. Not knockin anyone who does those things, just saying I don't understand their thinkin. Guess that's why I haven't been with anyone in years. When things started to go south with my ex...I tried to change it, and when I saw he could care less, I just accepted it. I don't believe in cheating, so I just learned to do without for a very lonnnnnnnng time. He's been gone 3 yrs next month...still haven't been with anyone. Why? for alota reasons stated on this thread. I'm not into emotionless, no attachment, "just for the sake of it" sex....if I were, I'd have kept sleeping with my ex. Besides, I was told a long time ago by my many guy pals....all a guy wants from ya is sex, unless you hold out and he keeps coming back anyway. What they didn't tell me was that even some of THOSE guys only want sex, they just learned to bide their time better. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2008 4:18:26 AM |
a REAL MAN could call the women and say i had a good time the other night and im just not looking for more right now, i wasnt just trying to get laid
Has any man ever called you up to tell you that? And if he did, how did you respond? | |
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Posted: 1/13/2008 4:26:21 AM | And this little TRUTH is the KEY to the Kingdom....
I guess what I am saying is that sex can blind a man. Sex is not love. I wish I knew that 26 years ago. Loving someone and having sex with them is two different things. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2008 4:49:40 AM | Oh! no! ~ you'll get no stories from me ~they are my stories.
So what's wrong with a grow woman giving up a little tail? For whatever reason?
Emotionally? ~ Seems the ladies are quick to cut it on and quick to cut it off!
Once a man cuts it on ~ there is no "off"switch. ~ dar | |
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Posted: 1/13/2008 5:08:21 AM | Here's the thing I've been pondering. I'm a sexual creature, too. At my age, I don't expect to have to act like some kind of frustrated virgin in order to keep the guy. If we have sex and he runs, is that my issue or his?
Men often seem to put the onus on women for keeping sex out of the mix. I expect the men to be adult. I actually dated one man who said to me that he was really more of a "traditional guy". My response: "Really??? Then why did you put the moves on me and then expect me to fend them off?" He was as much responsible for that choice as I was.
My view is that I'm better off without him. I'm way too busy to be responsible for both of our choices. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2008 5:17:56 AM | dont ask if u dont wanna hear the answer
how dare u talk to people like they have no rite to write when u ASK em to..ur nutz
good luck
kathi | |
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Posted: 1/13/2008 5:38:20 AM | Well the only post in this thread that gives me pause to want to give a response is message #9. If she was with you for 25 years why would you think she didnt love you?
Just because someone doesnt love you the way you would like them to doesnt mean they didnt love you with all they have. Not every one love to the same intensity. It doesnt mean they are not giving what they are capable of.
OP Why on earth would you think you have to give sexual advise to ADULTS. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2008 5:57:38 AM | Those numbers on a telephone allow you to make telephone calls to people.Give him a call. These things go both ways, maybe he feels like he is making all the effort.
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Posted: 1/13/2008 6:01:38 AM | Everyone is right and no one is wrong.
Each person is like a snow flake. Different 'people' have different tastes.
I say 'Love, is friendship on fire'.
Lets see if anyone disagrees or argues with me. No matter where we are in our lives, there is always a way we can do better. A lot of people are waiting on someone else to change first. Step forward and be the bigger person.
Be the one!
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