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scratch121

Joined: 9/23/2007
Msg: 276

Used for sex? Posted: 10/8/2007 6:15:01 PM
after thinking on this one long and hard(no pun ha!)i belive its time we men got a good dose of our own medicine!!..you heard me right...the women of the world should start using US for sex!..i know for a fact it would show me the error of my ways if some gal dragged me off to bed(kicking and screaming)and then never called...but you know...id just end up getting suckered in by the next pretty face...sigh....

Lyricallady

Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 277

Used for sex? Posted: 10/8/2007 7:54:17 PM
My opinion of your analogy???? Naaaaaaaa! A little off the mark. My own analogy???????? Used for sex? OK let's dissect this... USED FOR SEX this would imply: said perpetrator indicates he/she is really looking for more than "just sex" with the victim.....the SEX happens between said perpetrator and victim.....no future communication with said perpetrator afterwards.....victim feels pretty much lied to. Yeah, that scenario sounds like USED FOR SEX. Other possible scenario: Two people meet, are attracted to each other, discuss what they are looking for/want from each other, SEX HAPPENS, it’s awesome, but the two aren’t really compatible otherwise, but neither one really discusses this with the other. No further communication between the parties. This =ONE TIME ONLY MUTUAL GRATIFICATION That's my two cents (- a penny or two)

quirkyflirt

Joined: 8/12/2007
Msg: 278
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Used for sex? Posted: 10/8/2007 8:09:27 PM
If I use you for sex, and you use me for sex....it's mutual use. Still USING though. If find the term used for sex, in most cases a big case of sour grapes. But I do think that many people have been used, or use other people for sex. It's just poor acting to make yourself seem victimized after the fact.

Tx_DreamWeaver

Joined: 1/10/2006
Msg: 279

Used for sex? Posted: 10/9/2007 12:21:29 AM
It's like buying a 747 to get free peanuts. I don't agree with you taurus, but you sure as hell cracked me up!

AQUALOVE

Joined: 6/13/2007
Msg: 280

Used for sex? Posted: 10/9/2007 12:47:31 AM
Good Kissa ****Ummm? Any Hoo Maybe in some Euphoric way you Believe when two people are having sex ...That they are both only receiving^^ Umm ? Is that a Guy Thang ? Cause Uhh ' Not the same sex tune playin here .......if I am having Sex with someone I give a hoot about , you can darn well bet'' I am gonna ""give ""him all my Love ^^^^^^^^^^^^ BeCause I am going to want to receive all of his Love .........for a long time to come Cause I am gonna like him 'and not for short term duration "<So therefore it is important that we do not wait til after SEX ??? and think ??? ohhh ''''''he /she will Love me for sure ""Manipulation does not last "remember ? ! Its important to save the ^oooh Babies ^until we ^communicate how we feel or what we are seeking or needing from a relationship or what we feel for each other in the beginning . But ?? even then "The communication is only founded upon Honesty <>& Respect !!! Ya gotta have it at both ends of the spectrum to call it Love or a committment or anything to Believe in ! Here Handsome "this is for you

goodkissa

Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 281
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Used for sex? Posted: 10/10/2007 10:27:29 AM
aqualove: i was just trying to remain on topic as presented by tho OP. thanks for the compliment, you're very kind.

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