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| worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 1/13/2005 7:41:02 PM | | Mr. John once said...."You are gonna turn out just like your mom" and he knew that is something that bothers me and something that I work so hard on to make sure I don't end up that way. She just hasn't done so hot in life. It really hurt...may not make a lot of sense to you some of you but yeah. | |
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| worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 1/13/2005 7:56:53 PM | | My first boyfriend in high school told me that he wanted to break up when he was driving me home from school. We rode the rest of the trip in silence, and then he looked at me, and said, "So, do you want to go to a movie tonight? We can still hang out, and go on dates and stuff, I just want to date other people, too." Asshat. Another guy yelled at me because I found his cocaine in my car and threw it out. I date real winners, sometimes. | |
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| worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 1/13/2005 8:24:41 PM | I wanted to tell her...
Look, you suck, your ugly and what the hell was I thinking...
but instead,
I said "I do"...
Then She said " I love you"
after a few years she didn't even say it..but her lawyer who didn't have the balls to say it either sent letters saying....
not only is it over, but now you get pay a whole lot of money for making sure she was happy as a stay at home mom, who never worked. Oh, and that savings account..its now gone.
I gladly accepted my fate, and my revenge....I almost have as much accumulated now, as when it ended, and I have my happiness. I have custody, and I have made her my friend, so I can torture her in little ways through out the rest of our time here on earth..
but, I am not evil. | |
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Joined: 1/9/2005
Msg: 31 | |
| worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 1/14/2005 12:32:16 AM | Well Jojo, sometimes marriage is like a tornado, ...at first there's a lot of blowing, then before you know it, .........your house is gone.
My ex was verbally abusive, it would take days to figure out which was the "worst" thing she said. There was a time when just hearing her voice would make me sick to my stomach. | |
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| worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 1/14/2005 10:33:11 PM | The extent of my ex's negative verbage has no boundaries, and has been fashioned in the Mensa Halls in the lowest hell...But now..I don't have to listen, nor, do I hear it. But I witness it.
Confusious say...Hear no evil, see no evil, speak no evil....
Jojo say...Woops..did I hang up on her? | |
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Posted: 1/15/2005 8:28:41 AM | She said: "I love you, I hate you"
I replied: "Which one?"
She said: "I don't know, BOTH"
I blurted: "Well, you can't have both, pick one. And if you can't decide, you must hate me, mainly because you said you hate me."
The funniest thing about that was me playing her stupid little manipulative game. She ALWAYS did that.  | |
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Joined: 1/9/2005
Msg: 34 | |
| worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 1/15/2005 9:19:45 AM | Jojo, bro'...
The extent of my ex's negative verbage has no boundaries, and has been fashioned in the Mensa Halls in the lowest hell...But now..I don't have to listen, nor, do I hear it. But I witness it.
Yes, I hear this, one of the things that attracted me to my ex was; she was the most intelligent human being I'd ever met, .......little did I know.......
I truely believe that her abuse was an attempt to "behaviour mod", ..... it worked, but in the opposite way she intended. I wonder if things would have been different had I realized what was up when it started. .....No, .....it started out too subtle, and escalated too slowly for me to catch on 'til it was too late.
Live and learn. | |
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| worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 1/16/2005 1:35:23 AM | Ok, get this. I had an online relationship with a seemingly amazing girl. After a couple of months we decided to meet. Of course as a guy I felt some pressure to get sexual with her, but I supressed the sexual feelings so I could get to know her.
So everything is going well for about a month, then one day she says " Does your not work? I found someone a little more sexual...". What could I say? I just smiled, and wished her luck. It seems that I was blinded by how amazing she built herself up to be. | |
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| worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 1/18/2005 9:07:34 AM | I have to say my worst was shortly after I graduated from highschool. He didn't even tell me himself but sent a mutual friend (another girl) to tell me. It went something like this:
friend: So what did you and Eric do last weekend?
Me: Oh we just hung out...had dinner...then we came back here and made out.
Friend: you know I always thought it was so cute how you two decided to wait until mariage to have sex.
Me: Yeah, It's a great idea...we love eachother so much
Friend: Well...ummm...Eric sent me with a message for you.
Me: oh?
Friend: Yeah...remember that bussiness trip he took last week?
Me: Oh yeah he had to go to Alabama
Freind: yeah well...in all honesty, him and this girl Renee ran off to get married cause she's pregnant.
Me: WTF!!!! | |
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Posted: 1/18/2005 5:18:46 PM | omg....brutal. the worst yet...went out on a first date with a guy and my "best" friend came along becuz he was going to bring a date for her. Needless to say, he came along but couldnt find a friend...it was the three of us. To make a long story short, my now ex-bestfriend took him home that night and screwed him and lied to me to top it off...but i called her and his bluff. Disgusting and humiliating.......anddddddd 29 years of friendship blown in one night all for a lay.
How is that for brutal and ego killing. P.S. both of these people are on this website. | |
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| worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 1/18/2005 6:16:46 PM | Okay, well he didn't quite break my heart, but I cared a lot about him. This happened four years ago. He was widowed (five years) and we began seeing each other and just when I though we were getting close to some kind of longer term relationship. He said "Let's just be friends. Followed quickly by - it's not you, it's me. I can't get into another relationship and lose someone."And then, he cried, but I couldn't I was too angry. I've forgiven him since and we're friends because -
He was right - it was him, and not me. He's still moping but I'm not. | |
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Joined: 10/10/2004
Msg: 41 | |
| worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 1/18/2005 6:40:07 PM | Wow. As awful as a lot of these stories are, I wonder if some of you realize what insight into yourself you are inadvertantly giving the rest of us? There are some guys here now who I will give a WIDE berth to.
For me it wasn't so much what my husband of 23 years said to me as the way he treated me the last two years of our marriage and then the few years since. He was meaner, colder, more emotionally removed from me that I had ever seen him with anyone; including guys who had contracted him to do work and then stiffed him of thousands of dollars. He was seriously more open to talking to them and working through things, and then putting it behind him and moving on than he has been with me. I gave him my love, life and devotion for 23 years...stayed at home to raise our kids....homeschooled them when we moved to a community with a lousy school system...provided him with a tasteful and comfortable, welcoming home. And he just coldly left me with nothing. He went out of his way to hurt me by buying his new gf the one thing I had always wanted him to buy for me but he never would. Refused to pay me spousal support without dragging our kids through hell so I just walked away from that. He showed himself to be someone I never believed he could be....never once in 20 years of being married..... | |
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| worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 1/19/2005 12:33:45 AM | How about this girl I met in highschool who came to me for help with connecting with males because when she was growing up her father sexually abused her when he was drunk. She became attached to me and was her first kiss and all that lovey dovey the world is perfect sh*t. Then one day she just said "I love you too much and you remind me of my father so we cannot date anymore"
Let's just say that one f*cked with my head a fair ammount... | |
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| worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 1/24/2005 11:45:52 AM | I guess the worst for me kinda went like this:
Me: Hey sweetie, how are you doing?
Her: We need to talk
Me: Ok sure, what's on your mind?
Her: This isn't working out.
Me: What do you mean?
Her: Us! It isn't going to work out.
Me: Why??
Her: I don't know..... it just isn't
Me: So that's it... it's all over just like that?( I'm just stunned at this point, I wasn't quite sure what was going on, or why)
Her: Yeah
Me: So what do you want me to do now? Pack my stuff and leave?
Her: She just nodds her head
That night I packed everything up and left.
The thing that gets me is that everything seemed to be fine. and No I wasn't being blind! Nobody seen it coming, not me, not her friends, not my friends, I'm not even sure if she seen it coming. Even to date it's still a mystery. Oh well what can you do. | |
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Msg: 45 | |
| worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 6/23/2005 10:56:47 PM | What haven't I heard?? Well here's a few that I did hear.
1. I've been thinking about it and I realize I don't love you but I really really really really like you. (that was in a letter)
2. Yeah so I'm moving to LA....(come to find out he never moved and years later the jerk had the nerve to try and hook up with me again...guess age has done me some good)
3. I know I'll never find anyone else better than you or treat me as good but I just wanna be single....(this was about an hour after he told me he loved me for the millionth time)
And the lowest blow....
4. You'll never be a good mother..(can you believe this guy is still trying to get me back and got his ex to email me saying how great he is and that he cares about me after I freaked out when he said he gave her my email!!!...oh and he's on this site!)
Hmmmm? I think I have some crappy luck....or maybe....it's not you it's me!!! lol | |
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| worse thing anybody said to you before they broke your heart.
Posted: 6/24/2005 2:22:11 AM | things are going great.. a few dates, lots of sex... then nothing... so i let it ride for a while cause i am not one to phone .. one message good enough.. anywho a week goes by.. he phones and seems really distant.. so i say whats going on.. and be honest if you are busy ok... but if you are not interested then tell me so.. i would rather know the truth then nothing at all.. so yeah he said he is busy and not interested right now.... burn.... at least he told me so. cause there have been others who just avoid you or disappear from the face of the earth...lol.. man i suck  ... | |
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