| Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 6/1/2006 4:56:15 AM | i think prostitution is prostitution...and what would you do if the fortune was lost...i have opposite issue....want to get back with my very first..unfortunately he is very rich...and everytime I see his name in news etc...i know the chances of me wanting to be with him,,,decrease...i wish we both could have stayed poor collage kids...maybe its because i have a pretty good life myself financially...and i dont want to be the girl marries to the guy...my philosophy..never be eithsome one worth more than you(financial or other wise)because you will always be the chic...and I do sincerely l--- him...but Ill probably stay away..except as friend....(we do e-mail, phone)and even though he searched for me..its too weird.... too much like prostitution....ladies we owe it to ourselves and our children...make your own legacy...dont become a prostitute for an easy life today>>>
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| Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 6/1/2006 5:08:12 AM | went back and looked at your profile..cute daughter is it ok to sell her to...financially and mentally..how many times will he need "payment"and when will it be ok to look to your daughter for payment..your young..go to an old folks home..and see what life is really like...dont sell yourself and your child out so early in life..i have three..and luckily when i take a bath its because of hard work not because my skin is crawlling....i have made my life mine....I have been sick..my kids were taken care of by me...im in the middle of divorce ..im sure that the girlfreind (still married)checked out my house before hook up ..but it is in my name I paid for it....and as i said I sleep confortably..I may have to move..but i will get there again..my mind cant be taken away... agian prostitution is just that..... | |
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| Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 6/1/2006 4:22:02 PM | | absolutely not! Marriage deserves more than money, I can't beleive this is a question here,but I guess it shouldn't surprise me. The world has become materialistic and I really believe it was never intended to be. But who am I, just a opinion.....I can say for me, it doesn't matter how much money you have, do you have the "fire and flame", I doubt it...but if you did it would be more awesome than money. I really, have to laugh at this one. But I know many look for this, not me...I'd rather have, romance and love and all that goes with that, because no matter what all the money in the world can't buy love. "Love" is rare,but lucky is the guy/woman that finds it's. I prefer to find love over money any day!!! It will definitely mean more to me. I guess everyone has there opinion, so don't judge me, just love me, I',m defintety sincere...hugs. | |
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| Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 6/1/2006 4:36:43 PM | | PROSTITUTION!!!! I defintelhy agree prositution is not the easy way...that absolutely sucks...and I hope no woman would ever downgrade herself to that....but beware - there are guys here that LIE, they tell you what you want to hear, but they really don't mean it. It's sad to say, but it's true. Of course, I could tell you a couple of stories, but I won't - all I want you ladies to know is "BEWARE", there are wolves here and they don't care the least bit about the woman. Only there gratification! I really send my hugs to you all...I don't want you to give up, because some guys here are awesome...and they are my bestfriends....and that is really hard to find - but in the same token there are bad guys here, all they care about is "me,myself and I", you are better, so reconginze it...Okay...I'm sending you my wisdom..."it's never any fun to go home, used!" Hugs to all of you.... | |
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| Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 6/1/2006 7:08:57 PM | | I know what you mean on this thread...Most women that i have met in my life time much rather have a grown man working at burger king than say a lawyer,doctor,policeman..ETC......Shoot!!!There is some out there that would not even care if you have a job....But with the divorce rate is higher in the poor than rich....Most people i know making $100,000 should be alot unhappier than a person making$ 20,000...You see this is why peole go to college so they can make $100,000...So they can be unhappy..I do not understand why they even waste their time...They can be much happier working at burger king...And they will not even have to go to college...What a waste of time.....And all these rich peole you can tell they are very unhappy...Shoot if i won a 6 million dollar lottery..I would give it all away....The reason is it would make me unhappy to keep it....I have been working in construction work for 24 years in the florida heat...I would never pass that up for 6 million dollars....Not only that if a woman hooks up with me with 6 million dollars she would be unhappy....NO!NO!...We would not want that...For crying out loud....I am like the rest of you..I want a relationship to work out...That 6 million dollars would be in the way....I would have to give it to a organazation,Because if i give it to a person they would be very unhappy with it......So i agree with all of you in here...The poorer the better...If they have money i will run from them..They scare me!!!!! | |
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| Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 6/1/2006 7:39:31 PM | wow..all you ladies are saying you would not marry if the rich guy was a creep. I didn't see anywhere in the question that he was a creep. If you had your choice would you rather your man made an extra 50 k a year?? | |
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| Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 6/1/2006 8:05:55 PM | | I've always had to work all my life for it. In the end, money does give a person the materials things they need, but in actuality does it bring ultimate happiness that last a lifetime or does it get you by for the moment of a thrill?? | |
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| Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 6/2/2006 4:04:22 PM | whatever happened to love. You would not be happy with someone who you did not love and happiness is important. We are not on this earth for long. its important to value life and people and not use others. its wroing. Its best to live for eternal things and not material things. Its all about greed and we should be more concerned about giving and not getting. Its important to be strong and indepdant and not rely totally on someone else. Its sad i think marrying someone because they are rich. These are empty relaitonships. Its best to have a loving rich relationship, rich in care and tenderness. and compassion for each other and not material richness alone. which can never make someone happy on its own. God bless you. | |
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| Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 6/2/2006 5:33:29 PM | | Absolutely not... I would sooner be with a poor person that i love then with a rich one that i do not love. I am dating a man right now that has alot of money and actually that scares me, i am attracted to him in everyway. He makes me laugh, we have lots in common but for some reason the money part scares me and i have actually thought about nolonger dating him because of this. I have told him this and his reply is money can not buy you love. So again the answer is a big NO WAY | |
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| Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 6/2/2006 9:10:44 PM | | Not a chance in hell! I was in a relationship with a very rich man. Money is not everything, believe me! He was a wonderful man, very generous, etc. however, very controlling and he "thought" that because he had all this money that that would be enough - I would rather be poor. | |
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| Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 6/4/2006 1:26:40 PM | | Not in this life time. I shudder to think about it. Money can't cuddle you, dry your tears, or share your laughter. Maybe it's age and experience on my part speaking, but just being comfortably well off, able to pay the bills when they're due is all that's necessary. I can do that by myself so any extra money is just icing. Anyway who wants all icing and no cake - it gets sickening after a while lol | |
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| Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 6/5/2006 1:21:49 PM | | I cannot or will not marry for money. Money is so materialistic when we have it in our hands, of course it can put food on the table, clothes on our backs, fun places to see, but I prefer to hold hands ... | |
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| Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 6/6/2006 3:07:44 PM | | Absolutely not!! No question..............I will never "settle". Call me a romantic fool but I want to still be dancing with my husband in the kitchen when I'm 75 and still be in love. Money is not the be all end all. I've been with guys who've had lots of it and frankly I'd rather be alone!! lol Seriously, the guys who have to struggle are the ones with heart and character. | |
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| Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 6/6/2006 8:45:34 PM | I would never marry for money. I want the real thing, I want to love and be love. I want happiness, I do not think money could bring you happiness. If I had a choice to marry someone for millions, and I did not love him, I would deafinately say no! Only because I am a simple woman, who does not need much to be happy! Believe it or not. mariah | |
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