| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/12/2006 9:52:10 PM | ok, this is painful for me but here it is. I had 2 bad dumpings but I'll spare you and only print the worst.
The "love of my life" called 2 hours before my birthday to tell me he got his roommate pregnant.
lovely
The other dump involved cheating as well. That's what hurts the most - the ignoring me for a while only to find out about the cheating.
I know, I know "He's Just Not That Into You" so it wasn't meant to be. Still sucks! When I dump someone its a discussion and we remain friends afterwards, it's not nasty the way these lowlifes go about it.
msannthrope - I just have to say, you have a wicked sense of humour.  | |
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| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/12/2006 9:58:30 PM | | getting handed divorce papers kind of sucked.... | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 10:19:20 PM | | Worst dump happened not too long ago....the woman I fell for decided after being a real temptress and snagging my heart to cast me off just as fast....only my heart never heard, and when she put an official 'no contact' order on me I thought, oh well, maybe next time...then, after a two month contract out of town I returned home and made the totally stupid mistake of calling her on a cell phone to try and apologize and boom, with four hours I was in JAIL with a six month sentence....all for being honest, following my heart and...I admit, pretty dumb, to break the law by contacting her with 'just one more try'...well that last try to make up cost me 110 days in jail, ruined my consulting firm business, cost me about $8,000...and taught me to NEVER EVER date an ex-cop! No disrespect intended toward any law-enforcement types, just the lesson I've learned for me. Now I'm almost out of the woods, might soon start a new job in a different state, and put all this super-psycho feminazi stuff behind me! All for trying to respond with total kindness. Go figure. | |
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Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 29 | |
| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/12/2006 11:12:35 PM | jazz.. instead of correcting people, why dont you share your dumping experiances? is that not what this thread is actually about?  | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 11:20:16 PM | | Jeez Bando, that makes unread/delete/blocked seem a lot more pleasant. I had no idea you could get a "no contact" order without a whole lot of documented abuse first. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2006 1:31:18 AM | How about:
Monday night week 1:
I am thinking of leaving you but I haven't decided, but its all your fault.
A weeks torment of wondering what it is I had done so terribly wrong,
trying to correct my every pet peeve of a mistake.
The next Monday night she tells me she cheated on me,
while I was doing her favors she had asked for that night.
It wasn't my fault it was her fault! 
The most messed up part? She was my soul mate. I felt the anguish and torment the moment it was happening, and the sorrow when it was done. But I couldn't do anything about it. Never felt that feeling so strongly before, as if my soul were being ripped from my body and my body would not let go.  | |
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agony
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Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 32 | |
| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/13/2006 3:01:45 AM | How about this.
It was love at first sight (yes it does exist and i didn't believe it either at first) 2 1/2 perfect years than little fight here and there, nothing major. Christmas day, just hours after exchanging gifts, she was cranky because of working all day (healthcare) ende up in a fight and break up with me. made up a week and half later. spent a wonderful day together. the next morning at the cuddling stage after sex, without me even asking, she told me all about how she spent the new year eve with a buch of cooworkeers and end up in someone bed. She described in graphic details her encounter thinking that because there was no intercourse, it was ok. She blame it on too much drinking ( yeah right) but she never once say to be sorry or regretting it. It was the last straw for me and ended the 3 years 1 month 4 days relationship.
i can and have forgive her for a lot of things but this is one thing i just can't live with. Yes, i'm still totally in love with her, don't ask me why. So i'm drowning in my sorrow hoping to forget. It is harder than i ever imagined. | |
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| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/13/2006 3:17:12 AM | The worst dump I ever took was after eating A bunch of cheese and jalapenos; hurt like a B*TCH | |
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Posted: 1/13/2006 5:06:04 AM | she put an official 'no contact' order on me I thought, oh well, maybe next time...then, after a two month contract out of town I returned home and made the totally stupid mistake of calling her on a cell phone to try and apologize and boom, with four hours I was in JAIL with a six month sentence....all for being honest
I put a restraint order against my ex husband.. he contacted me with the "just give me one more chance" I didn't have the heart to call the cops at that moment.. told him no way please don't contact me again.. he said.. ok..i'm sorry just giving it one more try... what followed was 2 years of him calling/harrassing me and my family.. finally I called the cops..
I wish I would have called after that first time.. but me trying to be nice I didn't .. a no contact order is a no contact order.. saddly you didn't follow it.. and you paid the consquences.. really you shouldn't blame her for your actions.
I take responsibility for what my ex did cause I was a dumb ass and let him do it.. just like you picked up that phone and made a call..chalk it up to a mistake and things will move on much faster for you. | |
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crs626
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Joined: 6/19/2005
Msg: 35 | |
| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/13/2006 11:57:34 AM | A good friend of mine had been dating a girl for three years while she was here on a student visa. After she returned home he kept in contact with her and even twice a year flew to her county to spend about a month with her each time. They desided to take the next step and get married. He flew out a week early to surprize her and found her in bed with two other men. Her response was she wanted to get one last fling in and acciendtlly called him by another name.
Turns out she had been dating several men from around the world through chat clients and had promised to marry several people. He is struggled with his feeling and finnally took the hint and left. Conned for money by his heart, a sad practice.
It has been only a month since it happened and she called him out of the blue and wanted to know when he was coming to visit. She forgot he was the one who caught her!! I do the only thing I can, stand beside him and keep him strong. | |
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Posted: 1/13/2006 2:19:47 PM |
and taught me to NEVER EVER date an ex-cop
WHAT??? She was an ex-cop?
No freaking wonder.
Never date women like that ... you idiot (sorry)!
No cops, firefighters, body builders, race car drivers, wrestlers, etc.
See, I knew there was more to it. There was a "no contact" order. You should take legal crap like that seriously.
No disrespect intended toward any law-enforcement types
I'll do it for you man. They are butches, they are usually f#cking dumb, self-righteous, and they have attitude problems. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2006 6:33:16 AM | | I've been dumped many times and it's like water off a duck's back. There are many more fish in the sea and I seem to catch a lovelier one each time. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2006 9:06:58 PM | | Definately being dumped by email by someone who I was madly in love with. So heartless, classless and evil. Twice! The second time right before my birthday. She seemed so sweet and caring, boy was I decieved. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2006 11:22:18 PM | | I was dumped cold-heartedly on Valentine's day a couple years ago. It was going to be the first time i had a boyfriend for Valentine's day as well. Now everytime it comes around and i see couples all lovey-dovey, it's like rubbing salt into a wound. **stard. | |
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Posted: 1/17/2006 11:48:20 PM | I'd say the worst i gotten was from the girl i first actually really fell in love with , the fire came to kelowna so i ended up getting evactuated and i stayed with her , came back from work one day and she pops on msn and starts attacking me about my past grades and if i really graduated -_- then dumped me after trying to defend my self calling me defensive like hell it was right after out sixth month i couldn't belive it  | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 12:11:09 AM | | This reply is for msannthrope:That was a mental image I could have done without & ended any further visit to taco bell for me.There's a time for humor but not at the expense of someone's pain & heartache. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 12:32:17 AM | My ex wife and I used to talk on MSN during the day as our offices were about 30 miles apart and we were both in comuters. The day she left me she pretended to be at work while she was at home and her friends were helping her pack up everything in the house. Her last written words to me were "I cant wait for our weekend alone...I love you so much" I came home to an empty house lol.
My last GF told me she needed some space. I said if we were breaking up we didnt and she said she didnt want to break up but we needed to talk. SO I surprised her, knocked on her door, no answer, used my key and found her stripping on her web cam, the music was so loud she couldnt hear me knocking. Oh ya and where my picture had been on the wall was now some other guys... That took 3 days from the time I left.
Those were the worst I think... unless i blocked another one out from shock lol | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 4:41:59 AM | LMAO connorus same sorta story for me - living with a guy he called me 3 times at work that day to tell me he loves me and he'll see me when I got home - wellll I got home and hi, and everything he owned was gone with a 3 line note left behind hahahahaa moved straight In with another woman I found out later hahaha
Gotta laugh now but at the time I was so shell shocked as I hadnt even seen It coming haha
Actually both times Ive been dumped was the same LMAO the other time I was living with a guy who came here from the UK for me ( we met here ) and he worked for like 4 weeks out of the 8 months - I had to buy his smokes everything - when I asked him when he was getting work he told me hed be leaving In the morning - LMAO and left crying and saying he felt I didnt love him and hed left his country for me - so obv I went Into a total depression and basically psycho trying to find him to let him know I did ... NICE ... only thing was everyone I was contacting knew he hadnt gone home but to queensland and no one bothered to be kind enough to simply say hes ok he just didnt think It would work - even his parents let me believe hed cought a flight to uk via new zealand and was missing as he hadnt arrived or contacted them since leaving LMAO. People can be cruel - I was so devastated thinking hed killed himself In new zealand I put myself Into counselling hahaha now It makes me laugh even thinking of it. But at the time It was 4 months of total darkness theres no way I wouldve believed 3 years later Id be here laughing as I told the story | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 5:56:59 AM | | Not being the jealous type, people sometimes assume that I am naive. I have learned over the years, however, to trust my instincts. They started warning me that somthing was not right with my wife, but I could get nothing out of her. So...I picked an appropriate evening and tested her underwear with a rape test kit. Since we had not had sex for some time, I must say that my biggest "dump" was the appearence of those swirly purple lines on that test paper. Until the moment I saw them, I thought I was wrong; just being paranoid. Then, of course, the bottom dropped out of everything. I will never forget that moment. And, I will always trust my instincts. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 11:46:49 AM | My favorite was the one who spent three hours cataloging my faults out of the clear blue sky.
However, laughing last laughing best.
I asked her if there was every anyone she was truly happy with.
She said there was.
I asked her what happened?
She said he didn't want the same thing from a relationship she did and dumped her.
Bwahahah!
That was easy to get over. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 11:52:35 AM |
This reply is for msannthrope:That was a mental image I could have done without & ended any further visit to taco bell for me.There's a time for humor but not at the expense of someone's pain & heartache.
No offense intended, but you don't know our Ann very well. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 12:04:19 PM | | I had a fiancee who suffered from depression and never told me she was on Zoloft. I was nearly fatally injured on the job and suffered Neurological damage, spinal damage, TMJ or jaw damage and a concussion in the month of December 1998. The result was a permanent partial dissability. She would argue with me about work every morning after I had ear bleeds and nose bleeds all night. Left me (broke off the engagement one month after my proposal with a diamond encrusted ruby ring) 7 days before Christmas 1998 and went to Jamaca for 10 days then left and went to San Diego for 2 months for her job. We had 8 months left on our lease in the house we shared together and she wanted to move to Norfolk (3rd time moving that year). Strange guys would call the house asking to speak to her totally ignoring me like I was her hated brother or something, inviting her to come out. And when she was home she wasn't home. She would spend like 2 to 4 nights out over friends houses. I just moved into my car because I lost my health, my job (career of 25 years) and my fiancee. I became her doormat and house cleaner. She told me she loved me, but was no longer 'In love' with me. She just wanted to separate or move to Norfolk and continue treating me like I was a bystander. So after having about 300 doctors appointments to put me back together again I was homeless, jobless and living in the street in my car messing up my back after 150 chiropractic appointments to get it useable. Merry Christmas to me. Took me almost 4 years and a couple of suicide attempts to recover from being eviscerated. Wrote over 40 pages of pain and screaming in a web based diary. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 12:08:34 PM | | Went to his place after returning from my father's funeral. He could not go with me as he had work obligations that he could not get out of (yeah right). He was not expecting me, I just drove by, saw his car, and, upset and needing a shoulder to cry on, I stopped. Knocked but he was in the shower and could not hear me, so I used my key. He stepped out of the bathroom wearing a towel around his hips, and his neck and torso were covered in hickies (sp?)!!! The man was 30 years old!!! Anyway, that ended that ....... | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 12:11:00 PM | | I live in London, UK, and I was living with my girlfriend who was from Prague, Czech Republic. Just before Christmas two years ago, she said she wanted to go home to visit her parents for Christmas, and I never saw her again. Nice after three years together, and no particular sign anything was wrong.... Probably me being dumb. Broke my heart..... | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 12:12:46 PM | To Fantasy Flavor69: HEY!! Why aren't you yelling at JRGuitar23 for this:
The worst dump I ever took was after eating a bunch of cheese and jalapenos; hurt like a B*TCH!
Now THAT'S a bad dump!!! | |
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