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Posted: 1/18/2006 3:18:45 PM | After ditching me on our 3 month anniversary cause he was "busy", I confronted him and said "Is this your way of dumping me, cause if it is just tell me". He assured me he was just "stressed" and that he still wanted to be with me. (this was a Sunday night)
Tuesday I get a TEXT MESSAGE, yeah that's right a text message, that says "I think I need some time". Not one to grovel, I send back that whatever he thought was best was fine with me. (Actually it wasn't cause I was crazy about him, but what can you do, if one is not happy they will eventually make the other one unhappy too.)
For the next week he ignored me, and then he sends me another text message asking me how I am, well to make a long story short I called my best friend for advice before replying to most of his messages and I think I wound up really hurting his feelings. (Like he hadn't hurt mine in the first place). 2 months of silence from him and then I get an email telling me that he had a cocaine problem and that he knew I wouldn't want to be around that (which is totally on the money there), and that is why he thought it best to break up.
Stupid thing is the guy still text messages me all the time, wanting to "fool around". Yeah, like I'm really stupid enough to settle for "fooling around" when I can be looking for Mr. Right. Although I must admit he's a GREAT Mr. Right Now, LOL | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 3:25:41 PM | | She broke up with me by text message while I was visiting friends in another city. | |
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Posted: 1/18/2006 3:48:50 PM | At least I got a phone call, some of you didn't even get that! It happened today. Of course, his conversation begins with "We need to talk".........WTF? So, he tells me some LAME excuse that he's not over his ex, then changes the story to he "met someone else", THEN changes it to "we live too far apart".........Um, he contacted me, he knew that we lived and hour(Yes, only an hour) apart and he didn't mind.................I kind of knew things were up, but didn't want to get into them on the phone. Just like my marriage, I could see where things were going, but had blinders on! *UGH* Oh well, b*tching about it doensn't make it any better, or does it? I do feel better venting on here! I do have to say, that's the first time I've been dumped and it was on the phone. Two firsts for me today! | |
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Posted: 1/19/2006 3:26:40 PM | | Try it the second time around> see if it taste better | |
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Joined: 3/12/2005
Msg: 55 | |
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Posted: 1/19/2006 4:20:11 PM | I was 21 and she dumped me because I dressed "funny"....you see, I played a lot of tennis when I was younger and looking back the Andre Agassi stone wash/spandex shorts were probably not the best fashion move I'd ever made...  | |
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Posted: 1/19/2006 8:04:45 PM | | I found out I'd been dumped when my granddaughter asked me who Papa's new friend was. The coward didn't have the guts to say anything to me or the sense to hide it from our friends. My grandchildren knew he was fooling around before I did. THAT hurts. | |
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Posted: 1/23/2006 7:11:08 PM | | i was with someone for 3 months, and she dumped me a day after my aunt died. i came close to ending my own life, but thats in the past. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2006 1:58:05 AM | | He broke up with me a few days before my birthday, to make things worse soon after he told me he was already dating someone new and asked me if I have "had any luck". I also borrowed him 100 bucks and he never paid me back. I'm glad we broke up but I am sorry I ever met him. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2006 5:27:50 AM | accusation that i cheated with no proof was the worst one ever for me | |
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Posted: 1/24/2006 8:44:46 AM | | mine was that i was too nice.......... | |
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Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 61 | |
| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/24/2006 8:56:41 AM | | Oh I got one for you...after convincing me that he is the man of my dreams, buying a house...making plans for the futur and everything else people do when they are in love, he got weird. Weird I tell you. One day on a family outing, he tells me that he cant stand the chaos and activity of my children. The next day I move out....but to add insult to injury he informed me a couple weeks after that he could live my daughter and myself, but not my boys.??? Alrighty then....wacko. Then he tells me that I have learnt my lesson I can come back home now....have u ever heard anything so ridicously stupid in your life? Needless to say I am single. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2006 1:41:14 PM | | Back when I was a teenager, a guy took all the stuff I had given him (we were together a year), piled it in my front yard, and set it on fire. He never spoke to me again. I guess I got dumped? | |
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Posted: 1/24/2006 1:48:59 PM | | not only she accused me but went with someone total opposite!!skinny,tall,BALD,and looks like uncle fester!!talk about a punch in the gut,ooh well think of the money saved on shampoo!!now she can buy a decent dinner at swiss chalet | |
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Joined: 9/19/2005
Msg: 64 | |
| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/24/2006 2:33:54 PM | Okay, on the off chance that "we" actually "read" all these reponses............
LLLOOOOOOOOONNNNNNNG story made short.......heard from an ex-boyfriend (after 13 years......this was two years ago)...he found my mom!! He called her (leaving his number). I called him......after MUCH ado (that I'm leaving out but includes personal visits and MANY daily phonecalls/IM's/e-mails).......I gave notice at my corporate job, moved from my apartment (therefore giving many things away).....the most hurtful thing is that I was leaving my dad who is dying of emphasemia (he told me to go......"Follow your heart, I won't always be here") .....two days before I was to pick him up from the airport (to meet my family and drive back with me to HIS state.......because we were going to live "happily ever after") I found out he was still MARRIED! He'd gone so far as to fax me a FALSE divorce decree!
The sociopath is STILL contacting me........and I've talked to his wife MORE then once.
Oddly, his last name is "Pederson".........and I'm a massage therapist!! I'm not currently practising but the correlation is still a bit whacked!
YUUUUUUUUUUUCK!! | |
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Posted: 1/24/2006 2:39:59 PM | | When the man told me he loved me. Didn't get intimate with him for close to a year of knowing him. After we slept together he sent me an e-mail telling me I was an awesome person that he will call me later. That was months ago. haven't heard from him since. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2006 3:07:11 PM | | My worst....being dumped because I lost 180 lbs. Husband likes larger women. Kudos to him but.....so started seeing someone else - a fellow POF. I was just a notch on his belt. Brilliant. I can't win for losing. | |
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Posted: 1/24/2006 3:07:26 PM | | My worst....being dumped because I lost 180 lbs. Husband likes larger women. Kudos to him but.....so started seeing someone else - a fellow POF. I was just a notch on his belt. Brilliant. I can't win for losing. | |
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Posted: 1/25/2006 4:40:39 PM | | It's not you, it's me.... Yes I heard that line, he wanted to go home to Mom on Thursday, so on Friday I packed him up & moved him there, didn't let him come back either. | |
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Posted: 1/25/2006 4:58:46 PM | | huh , funny see this forum on here tonight, as I was posting my worst dump myself. I was just dumped because I could be possibly pregnant. He puts in his profile aquaman, lmao, how it suits the situation to a T | |
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Posted: 1/26/2006 7:00:20 AM | | hear ya digitaldave. you have summed it up very well. What you wrote is to a "t" what happened to me! | |
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Posted: 1/26/2006 7:08:54 AM | | Maybe Thanksgiving, at her parents house, almost an hour and a half drive back to my place? She tells me she loves me, but not in love? What the hell is that about? And when is she coming to get her things out of my house? | |
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Posted: 1/26/2006 8:08:56 AM | | JMJ ROTFLMAO! Now that was funny. Reading all these various and serious well-thought replies and along comes a great wiseass line. TY...made my day. | |
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Posted: 1/26/2006 10:57:30 AM | | 'Way back in the day I took my girl to the senior prom. She had her new boyfriend show up so she could dump me in front of all my friends and walk out with him. | |
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Posted: 1/26/2006 11:44:19 AM | OUCH, Doug! Now that one is painful. Did you do something to make that chick hate you?
I had to take a few days off from reading this thread. Hats off to you all for living through these experiences and still wanting to date. Bless you!  | |
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