| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/26/2007 8:38:12 PM | worst dump ever??
the morning after a mexican buffet.... | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/27/2007 4:37:35 PM | i sure know how to kill a thread huh? | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/27/2007 6:55:48 PM | I think that dumping someone by email, at work, is the worst. You start off, Monday morning, thinking all is well and feeling positive about the week to come and then, as you're going through your work-related messages, you get an email from your guy dumping you. That is one of the most inconsiderate and cowardly things to do!!!
Simply being ignored is also crappy. It is not only inconsiderate and cowardly, but it's darn lazy too! | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/27/2007 10:23:59 PM | | shortly before hearding to the ER to have our baby(my water broke) i get a call from him saying hes going back to his ex and that its over. he didnt even come to the hospital afterwards to see our son, that was over 6 years ago, havent had a relationship since then. | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/28/2007 2:39:57 PM | got to agree with allycat74 there. Being ignored is crappy, lazy and inconsiderate.
I'd rather someone tell me that they've met someone else than ignore me. Even if they told me what they thought was wrong with me... I'd rather they were honest. | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/28/2007 2:45:21 PM | | How about being dumped for another woman right in the middle of your cancer treatments. | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/28/2007 3:06:30 PM | | Pretty much when she broke up with me saying that she wasn't into it, that we were more friends. This was two days after one of my best friends called to tell me that she'd been sleeping around behind my back, and I didn't believe him, so huge debate, ended the friendship right there. Found out maybe 6 months later that my friend was telling the truth. At least him and I are buds again, but yea.. | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/28/2007 3:33:14 PM | I had a boyfriend that moved to California... we kept up a realationship for months... taking turns flying back and forth... then one day he stopped taking my calls... about a week after he stopped... he had his best friend call me and tell me it was just not the right time in his life for love... he loved me but would get back with me when the time was right I said I won't be waiting! Still to this day I have not spoken to him... what a loser!! | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/28/2007 6:31:24 PM | | wow i can't believe you think that about all female cops. There are 2 in my family and I will make the third. we are not butches and not stupid. Maybe you should look at the law side of it. you can not get a no contact order unless there is abusive or threating situations. Maybe stop harrassing the poor woman. Plus this goes either way if it was the girl bugging you . you'd have done the same thing. Come on grow up guys | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/28/2007 8:37:59 PM | First by email and then left message on answering machine. Funny thing is after 2 weeks, she wanted to have lunch and talk about it saying she missed me. Goodbye to me is just that ... goodbye
I have a friend who left her partner by moving to another city with his friend. gee...
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/29/2007 1:54:19 AM | The dump that I took after the last time I ever ate at taco bell was really bad.
I don't think I should even describe it here
 
Also, one of my friends calls this toothless old lady his "old dump on the side" (in reference to him cheating on a younger woman with her) | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/30/2007 5:15:39 AM | Linquatic~ I think she means ,"but I could be wrong about this" If her body wasnt going to be what he expected or wanted then why did he "Do the deed" in the first place. He should have been man enough to pack his wood pile up and tell her that ahead of time . That just what I'm thinking I have been wrong in the past tho my 2c~  | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/30/2007 5:30:14 AM | Dadrewskie~Msg: 111 Hey do you have a daughter? If so do you pimp her out as well? Are you for real? Dood you are one SORRY looking MF!!!. To me you look like an " Arab making a failed bid to impersonate Starskey and Hutch's pimp Huggy-Bear. In fact I think when your Mom took her "worst dump" ... out came you!!! Be very happy you live far away from me son. P.S. Your disrespect for women makes me want to smash your face in. Even if you are joking | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/30/2007 6:18:34 AM | Hey do you have a daughter? If so do you pimp her out as well?
No, I had to cut your daughter loose last week. The tricks weren't paying anymore, something about her being too loose I guess.
ou are one SORRY looking MF!!!. To me you look like an " Arab making a failed bid to impersonate Starskey and Hutch's pimp Huggy-Bear
It's great that you go around judging guy's appearances, that's not gay at all. You look like a European making a failed bid as Paul Bunyan.
when your Mom took her "worst dump" ... out came you!
LOL - You are initiating a "Your Mom" conversation?
Yo momma so fat... that when she waddled in front of the TV (after toothlessly servicing a two dollar john), I missed two episodes of South Park! I was like, "Damn b|tch!!! Move out the way."
Be very happy you live far away from me son. P.S. Your disrespect for women makes me want to smash your face in.
I will give you the address to where you can find me, and you can come here and "smash my face in". But when you come to Detroit, make sure you and your crew are equipped with Level IV+ body armor, because that Level III+ and Level IV stuff just doesn't cut it around here anymore.
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/30/2007 7:17:33 AM | | It will be just me , I need no one else to take out the likes of you. So give with the address..... if your stupid enough to ... You wont know what hit you. You wont see it coming . .. You have no idea who or what you are dealing with sir ....Dont be writing checks your ass can't cash !!!! Now you can avoid this severe ass beating by learning to show a little respect for women ..Oh yea and try to get a real job. You know one were you pay taxes and stuff to better your community. Oh wait you wouldn't understand that now would you? ......................May God bless you. You are not totally at fault tho. It's 90% due to your up bringing. Not everyone can have good parents. Realize this, Someday you will . | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/30/2007 8:11:37 AM | So give with the address..... if your stupid enough to
Sure man - if you're stupid enough to come here: 922 Elmwood St, Detroit, MI, 48226 - it's right past Gratiot Ave.
You have no idea who or what you are dealing with sir
You are right, but I don't care who you are, I doubt you are going to come all the way to Detroit just to get your a55 kicked.
Now you can avoid this severe ass beating by learning to show a little respect for women
I always show respect for women. Can you point out where I have not been respectful to women?
Oh yea and try to get a real job. You know one were you pay taxes and stuff to better your community. Oh wait you wouldn't understand that now would you?
You mean pay taxes to better your community? No, I think I will keep my bank roll right here in my pocket.
Realize this, Someday you will
Maybe someday, you will realize that you are just a little captain save-a-ho, b|tch-boy. | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/30/2007 8:20:38 AM | | Giving birth to several litters of snakes after eating something that disagreed with me. Love, Titus | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 11/30/2007 8:57:49 AM | A friend of mine was dumped by his wife of 30 years at his BD party. She presented his cake to him and asked him to make a wish and blow his candles. Everyone clapped and then she annouced the news. " We are done. I am leaving you tonight. I want a divorce."
He claims he had no idea this was coming. However, she had been carefully planning this for over 1 year. She took care of the bank accounts and the "credit cards cash advances" . She planned it well.
He still hasn't fully recovered from the blow and it's been 2 years. She got remarried within the year. | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 12/1/2007 6:44:10 AM | My wife of 24 years plotted similar against me. She ran off with a guy that works for me. He had nothing I mean nothing. I drove him to work for two years until he saved to buy a car. She turned my son against me saying I was bad dad. Drained all bank accounts and maxed out all credit. And left with my son. I have him back now.
Then I met a girl from this site that left her cheating husband of 21 years. We had a great relationship going. And she runs away with some dude to vegas. And brags about it. She new my worst fear was meeting someone from POF or somewhere else that was a cheater and look. | |
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| Worst dump ever; "Are you saying he should have stayed with..." Posted: 12/1/2007 1:38:40 PM | | Meeting someone and having them not be what you expected is understandable. How you go about resolving the issue is a different matter. Ultimately, for the sake of long term happiness yours and your partners, you have to be able to communicate in a respectful appropriate way, that the thing is not working. Where people run into difficulties is when there is a lack of candid honesty. A person meets, doesn't experience the chemistry they'd hoped for, and feels compelled to leave, fine and good; doing it sneakily, or without having that emotionally charged, extremely difficult conversation with an eye to being as compassionate as possible during the break-up process, bad form and terribly selfish. FIC, Katie | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 12/1/2007 2:20:21 PM | | I knew a couple who were together for nine years. (Personnally I think it was because noboby else wanted them, but that's me). Anyways, He tells me in April that he's having doubts about the relationship. About a month later, he's banging someone else ( Imet this girl, and she was not what I would consider a "step up"). He decides not to tell her it's over until about December, after all they mutual friends already knew he was cheating on her. The worst part, is that he didn't even bother to tell her himself, but rather have a mutual friend do it for him. I actually knew them for a good part of those nine years they were together, and they probably deserved each other, but that is that is such a horrible way to be dumped, especially for a relationship that lasted that long. | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 12/1/2007 3:03:56 PM | | Here we go again, but this time its a little different - the ones before were pretty much cut and dry. If I could wholly explain what I feel I would, but I think I have closed down - never to return. I used to be a bit of a lad and have my fun - but 8 months ago I turned into a family man. I know what your thinking, Ollie a family man? Well get with the program. I met this girl and fell hard for her, and even more for her daughter (which went beyond some of my previous beliefs). Even so I would have died for those two like I would a member of my family or indeed my own daughter. I loved them both sooooo much, but after we moved in together it changed. I used to love getting up in the morning and making them breakfasts sometimes in bed, sometimes not. Making the little one her lunch and tea. Taking them both out on her days off. Its those little things you miss. Even towards the very end she told me how much she loved me and that she was in love with me. Cried loads, we both did. I think she was feeling guilty for ending it, you'd be surprised in what people do and say in situations like that! But I believe if you love someone that much you wouldn't let them go ever. Especially for someone else? This has been the problem all along, what she said and what she did was 2 different things. And the tough thing is that I feel like I have lost a daughter. Never to return. The morning I left I sat down with the little one fighting the tears and said, 'I gotta go away now', I saw the littleones eyes well up shrink wrapped in her lil tears. She jumped off the sofa and went running upstairs saying to her mum 'I wanna go with daddy' I heard that and in an instant a part of me died. I dropped them both off. How could I turn my back on the mini family we had? I couldn't, she said she wanted a break which is what I gave her. In this time she turned her attention to someone else as much as I can gather. But I dont think I'd ever know the truth. I remember a song playing on the radio on the way back home, they were both with me. I said ' Baby you'd never make me feel like that?' she said 'Bubba, never'. My point is, this is the hardest break up I have ever had, my intelect can't even touch what I feel or felt. But I know this, I love them both enough to let them be happy. As for me now? I dont know, the hardest thing in the world is what I'm gonna have to go though soon. The love I feel with my own daughter and my almost step daughter and ex is watching someone else take my place in their lives. The very last time I saw her she we had a bit of a physical wrestling a bit of my stuff out of her hands. She punched me in the face, never once have I hit her or would. I got my stuff and left the poor lil girl not knowing what was going on and her telling me to stay away from them both. One day she might realise that it might have been her misplacing the blame on me. Or even a bit of both, but I have learned if its too good to be true it usually is. | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 12/1/2007 3:12:39 PM |
My best advice for you is to date nerds...they don't get relationships very often...and they tend to stick around, and be faithful.
That's what I thought. My ex-husband was the consummate nerd, and I was only his second serious relationship (he was 30).
Well, he left me for an online romance, which he had been pursuing for 6 months. He sent her an engagement ring a month before he left me.
Nerds do not necessarily a) stick around, or b) remain faithful. | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 12/1/2007 3:44:34 PM | my worst ever was a guy that turned out to be gay. he flew me to Maine from LA and gave me a pill of ecstasy. i was new here and new to drugs, i had no idea. and i guess i was naive enough to trust him.
well, he ended up leaving me in a hotel room on the east coast, in Boston, high on drugs, to live or die, after he told me he was not attracted to me, that he was gay and in love w 'Alexander'.
welcome to the united states
lolol
well, after being high for two days and delusional all by myself, i got my ass on a stand-by flight back to LA, and then straight into therapy, to see what was it in my childhood that i would draw in someone like that and not see it for what it was.
so yeah.. any other break-up fades in comparison. all those months of bs how we r meant to be together, and wait for the right time to be physical, and how we r doing this slow because he's tired of women wanting him for his body (he was drop dead gorgeous), and how he wants us to get married and thus do this right... i should have known
lol
in hind sight, an old woman had told me something valuable but i was in denial.. she said... 'hunny, any man that says he loves u, and does not wanna bone u, there is something wrong w him'
words of gold! | |
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| Worst dump ever Posted: 12/1/2007 9:56:55 PM | should have sent him a card of the taco bell dog in the mail.
I mean I heard of Mickey D's being Lame but Taco Bell, like their slogan RUN for the border for some the translation means the door. | |
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