| Worst dump ever
Posted: 12/1/2007 9:58:21 PM | above thread in response to
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| Worst dump ever
Posted: 12/1/2007 10:19:01 PM | Britelad, they always say opposites attract.
I smoke almost not every one but almost every one that I have been with don't
same for the drinking
and I always attact divorced/kids or the crazy, insane, and those who lact intellect .
But kudos for you using condoms I tell you how many people I know who wish they did. A lot of women out there think a child is their meal ticket.
Being in the middle class then shifted to the poor sides of town I have seen all I want to see. What don't kill me makes me stronger.
Well good luck to you, you know we can have things a whole lot worse.
Now she is a republican with a spending problem I wonder if Laura dumps GW she should go for him!!!! They can have a piss off contest about the money they wasted.
Best of luck to you | |
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Posted: 12/1/2007 10:30:34 PM | I actually have two for ya! First one, LTR (over 10 years) after I became unemployed for unjust reasons my ex comes home and instead of being supportive and asking what happened if she could do anything to help etc. she walks right past me into the kitchen and stayed there without saying a word. This went on for four months until she finally has the guts to say to me "I think we need to seperate for awhile" I think I shocked her when I leaned forward and said "I know we do, your right, when do you want me out". then the shocker of all time came when I went back the next day and found myself locked out of the house completely. I still have personal belongings over their that she will not let me get.
second one. A woman I had met on-line, our relationship was going GREAT. We were talking about the big M word after only 6 months together. She has a son, one day at a family reunion of hers. the little boy and I had some difficulty. (I was there after no sleep in 30 hours and my stress level was hi). what can I say I blew up at the kid. I knew I was wrong apologized to both him and Mom and the whole family. I thought we had things worked out then the next thing I know via inter-net she is breaking up with me.
the important thing is I am getting on with my life as best I can. So, I know what its like getting dumped via mail. and there is nothing you can do about it except get on with life. | |
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Posted: 12/1/2007 10:35:25 PM | After I ate 45 hard boiled eggs.  | |
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Posted: 12/1/2007 10:45:56 PM | I was seeing this latina and happy as I could imagine for about 4 months. We had shared talks about the future and maybe moving in together the following year if we found ourselves still so happy and it looked like it made sense. Then surprise, in one night I cought her lying to me 3 times in less then 20 minutes about use of pot...
1) She said she was gonne be late to our date due to traffic...lie#1 (was smoking pot with an ex-boyfriend from work)
2) She denied smoking any pot when we meet...Lie #2 (she smelled as only one can smell after smoking pot)
3) She said she only had 1 small joint and no other pot and only smoked that because she forgot her migrain medicine and her friend said it would make her feel better Lie #3 (she had a larger stash in her car...and I am not so sure the headache was teh reason why she smoked it...hmmm.)
Also she told me she told me on a previous date she had smoked it once before last year but never wanted to do it again because it didnt do anything for her and she didnt like it.
Also she told me an old boyfriend who was a "jerk and an ass" to her for 3yrs was asking her out on dates while we were steady in a relationship. We agreed to have him removed as someone she associated with if he couldnt respect our relations together. We both agreed to this without any pressure..we didnt want anyone to divide us was the concensus.
She informs me a month later and the same night the 3 lies occur that he is still calling her and asking her out. I assume in my mind this old boyfriend is not being cool and I am gonna have to get his story on what the deal is. I write to him on messenger and ask what his intentions are and if he is still in love with her and if he believes in honoring other peoples relationships. I'd like to hear his side of the story before I formed any opinions of his character. he kindly writes me back and states he is sorry for asking her out and understands what is it like to really love somone and he will respect our relationship. I am happy and pleased we got things worked out ...BUT...when my sweet heart finds out about this, she breaks up with me and thinks I am psycho for contacting her old BF. Says that I "ruined everything" Apparently this guy was much more to her then a "jerk and an ass" or maybe she liked being treated so ...who knows but it was a MAJOR disapointment and left me reeling. I really loved this girl and was willing to go the distance. Our happiness was much more important to me then any lie she made to try and keep me with her for trying pot again...I could care less about that compared to the love we had. So yeah, lost her for interfering with an old flames come ons when we agreed to not let anyone divide us....sucked.  | |
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Posted: 12/1/2007 11:39:16 PM | | After over a year with this guy, he arranged this wonderfully romantic weekend together just before i left to spend xmas with my family in spain (i live in the uk). It was the best weekend ever and he even told me he loved me and would like to spend his life with me. He then sent me an email to wait for me on my arrival to spain saying he never wanted to see me again and had blocked me all over the place and had changed his numbers. Apart from spoiling the first xmas in ages with my family, he literally broke my heart. I thought i would never get over it, but you do. So all the best to everybody who has been dump, learn from it, get stronger but dont let it avoid you getting to meet other people and enjoy a great relationship. Its not worth it. AND ALWAYS THINK, HOWEVER SAD YOU ARE, THAT U ARE WONDERFUL AND ITS THEIR LOSS! hehe... x | |
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Posted: 12/2/2007 2:50:47 AM | medana-
I read your post twice and both times I laughed till I cried. The first time I practically fell off my chair here at the computer and the second time I had to run to the washroom ... laughing and afraid to burst~
I am sorry if this offends you but the part about the jerk giving you ectasy and then you said welcome to america(whoa way too funny).
This jerk should have been reported and in jail. Ectasy is a dangerous drug and not at all fun to be alone so I have been told. The newspapers tell of people dying from it.
It is just the way you describe all of this that is so comical... have you tried writing comedy scripts at the local theatre? I hear that if they write a short play out of it, it can be quite profitable. I had a friend who did this for awhile to supplement her income after divorce.
Anyway you made my night filled with laughter and your right... "Any other break ups fade in comparison".
Hope you don't hate all gays because of this jerk... well at least not lesbians
Your quite pretty with your dark hair and sultry looks.
dykestergal | |
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Posted: 12/2/2007 5:57:12 AM | Probably shouldn't post this, but here's my experience.
I was in a 5 year relationship. About 6 months before it ended I had an accident and completely snapped all three ligaments in one of my knees. After three operations I couldn't walk without crutches for over a year. I got back from school one day ( I was in college back then) And she came home crying telling me it was over. She didn't want to talk about it but I managed to get some of it out of her and her biggest reason was that I was "crippled" and she didn't want to have to take care of me. So she packed up most of her clothes (We were living together) and went to her mother's. Needless to say I was devastated. About two weeks later it got worse as she showed up at my door crying about the whole break-up and ended up admitting to me that she was sleeping with someone else in the ending weeks of our relationship. The ironic thing is that the guy dumped her after he slept with her a few times. To top it all off, I had also heard from a good friend that she went to a party the weekend after we broke up and ended up having sex with three people. I found this out a few hours before she showed up to get the rest of her things. It was true because she didn't deny it. She was starting to give me details until I had enough and asked her to leave my place.
That's one experience I'll never forget. | |
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Posted: 12/2/2007 6:03:54 AM | | after eating Taco Bell, must have been the beans and hot sauce........ | |
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Posted: 12/2/2007 6:06:26 AM | I few years ago i was i love with a guy. He wanted out but hadnt the guts to dump me so he told me that he could replace me anywhere and waited for me to dump him. Which i did. He replaced me in a few weeks Then he had the nerve to lay a guit trip on me for ending the relationship | |
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Posted: 12/16/2007 6:27:28 PM | | I would have dumped you too if you would have blown up at my child as well. Family first and boyfriend next. More than likely it would happen again. | |
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