| WHY ARE MEN SO MEAN
Posted: 8/13/2006 11:05:07 AM | Both men and women are mostly looking for something deeper and more emotionally fulfilling than just sex. While they're waiting for that to happen, some/a lot/most, men and women, have the desire now and again, or more often... to get laid (now, bet that's an enlightening piece of info.  )
Some just go with that drive, and some don't.
I've heard enough women, on a night out, saying something like: "I just wanna f*c*. Would be a better world if both men and women who just wanna f*c*, cared as to whether or not, their prey felt the same.
But actually, that's very often, not the case.
Why are men so mean?
WHY AREN'T WOMEN MORE DISCERNING?
Open your eyes... if you really want to see, that is... | |
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| WHY ARE MEN SO MEAN
Posted: 8/13/2006 11:58:20 AM | please forgive me but i think most men are basterds...come on guys lets face it we are.
and we know we say all the things we think women want to hear in order to get what we want from them....but the problem as i see it, is, that women dont just open thier legs...they seem to open thier hearts at the same time...unless they are hookers or just sluts and some are....its a fast food world we live in...and every thing we own and buy is disposible....i know, IT SUCKS.
so for you women out there who think that a guy is really saying what he meens...then you have no idea...but if you know thats all you want to hear in order to feel good about your self and to be liked...and if your ready to give it up after a few hours with a "NICE GUY"(full of shit)...then you dont have much respect for yourself...and as a man most would take advantage of that....so as long as you know that your being hunted by a MOFO...keep it in your panties if you want something more meaningfull | |
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| WHY ARE MEN SO MEAN
Posted: 8/13/2006 12:36:48 PM |
please forgive me but i think most men are basterds
hey ba*t*srd! speak for yourself | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 1:35:01 PM | there are some good guys out there..some of us willing and able to give 100% to finding and sustaining a relationship.i think many of us,like women ,have been burnt so many times that it alters our approach,usually for the worse.
i have never been more prepared to meet and "do things right"....and want to. You know any good women who r looking?
must be bright.witty,easy going..not too much baggage..emotional or otherwise and be as comfy in jeans as she is in a dress........i also very much like smaller women.just a preference.so.i am very serious and open here.....and truly one of the good ones
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Posted: 8/13/2006 1:38:05 PM | This has happened to me every date I have been on from this site. These guys say they want a serious relationship but use that to get women interested so they can get laid. One guy thought because he bought me coffee that he could stick his hands up my shirt and skirt. Fat chance, he wasn't even cute or interesting.
Guys suck. | |
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| WHY ARE MEN SO MEAN
Posted: 8/13/2006 8:14:46 PM | | NOT ALL MEN ARE MEAN remember that,some are not thinking thats all,some dont have a care in the world,some have no feelings,some have been hurt also,some want revenge,some are very dimented,MOST ARE KIND AND COME WITH LOVE VICE VERSA SAME GOES FOR WOMEN SO HEY DONT JUST SAY MEN, AND DOT YELL OR ILL YELL,SHEEEEEESH you use caps ill use caps dont always blame the man after 40 its called men a pause see men pause also helloooooooooooooo | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 9:51:57 PM | It's really to bad for those idiots who blow it for some of us good classy guys who may be seeking a good elegant loving woman in return to share what life has to offer with the right person... We have no idea what these jerks say, or write to tick you off so badly. It really isn't fair for us genuine good guys (women). I'm just your normal guy not out to harm anyone. I would like to say I'm very upfront, fun to be with and I'd like to be known for my integrity, passion and above all, my honesty. We are here witnessing these jerks on this site and I don't like it.
These mean (no class) guys (women) gotta remember a couple of things,
(1) What you dish out, you'll eventually get back. And so you should, big time...
(2) What comes around goes around. So have a look in a mirror.
Think first, have some style at least and love your "ONE", could be your only one...
PS: This applies to a lot of women too!!! You know who you are.
At least some of us are true...
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Posted: 8/14/2006 4:03:54 AM | RE-to all canadian RELAX abit keep calm yes i agree SOME ruin it for others yes male or female,the same forums keep arising like what does a man or women want,what do we need,what if,the needs and wants are all totally different and some do not see you or i or anyone for who we really are,some like to be children and those people will never grow up,and sometimes if you look at all the factors and you start hearing stories then thats what can destroy also and these people dont truly give a damn ,so relax canadian because your right what goes around comes around,RELAX ITS ALL OK
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Posted: 8/14/2006 11:44:53 AM | I'm so sorry, I didn't read the entire thread, but did the OP say she fell in love with this guy whom she never met and had only been speaking to for a month?
Um, ok, just wondering... | |
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skruss
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Joined: 7/8/2006
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Posted: 8/14/2006 11:54:16 AM | Daisie.. I think in this day and age, that's pretty irresponsible the "bed buddies" idea. With all the stds out there, is it really a good idea to sleep with more than one person at a time? Sure, bed buddies are fine.. but I think it's better to make it aware that the sex is just that, and that if they meet someone they want to get involved with, then it has to end... but.. I still think it's resonsible to be with only one person sexually at a time... unless it's groups sex :P lmao.
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Posted: 8/16/2006 9:49:37 AM | | arkham resident. You are totally right. One woman told me that i was too nice and too sweet and that she wanted a bad boy, guess i should have drive her car and wrecked it,made her pay for dinner, stole her money out of her pocketbook and then groped her. Then i guess i should have groped her and said yes we are going out again and your gonna do what i want. THEN SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN HAPPY! | |
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Posted: 8/16/2006 9:59:41 AM | fun2gether...
the only reason women want a bad boy is cause they can feel uninhibeted with them and not feel selfcontious....but really they want a nice guy...thats just the way they are programed. | |
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Posted: 8/17/2006 11:47:42 AM | | Women are no different. And maybe you came across like a sex maniac based on your photo, or your profile. Women want men to respect them , but look at some of the womens photos, on this system, your just asking for trouble. | |
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Posted: 8/20/2006 11:26:15 PM | | Nah. Not all of the guys are looking for sex. Just don't put yourself out there. Make sure your friend's with the guy first before you jump into anything. It's a good thing you refused to go out with him too...good choice. He's just pissed off at you because you wouldn't go out with him. Guys like that are a waist of time. | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 5:25:07 PM | | You said you met him on this site rite?!! So my suggestion is look out for your fellow females and post his screen name on here so no one else gets hurt!! Plus pay back is a biotch and fun for the person dealing it!! | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 5:32:28 PM | | Here we go again with the sexist comments! Women are all little perfect angels, and every man in the world is mean and scum. What a crock! I'm a man and I'm not mean. And I personally have met some mean women on this site. | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 5:48:03 PM | | Trust me, It's just not a man thing!!! Maybe with men it is a sex thing, but not all of us are that way. Cheating ex's tend to remind you what that hurt feels like. Thus those of us that actually do have a concience, wouldn't want to push that type of hurt on to anyone else. With women, (granted NOT ALL, instead of sex, they are lookinG for a roof over their heads, not a mans love, his companionship, just a house to live in. I think I'd rather be taken for sex, than to have what I've worked my whole life for and have it invaded. Yet I can see how with a lady, being used as a sperm recipticale would be down grading too. So sad isn't it!! So many lonely and good people, yet then there's the ones that live to take away whether it's a man or lady what you treasure most. | |
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Matt-e
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Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 319 | |
| WHY ARE MEN SO MEAN
Posted: 8/28/2006 6:03:11 PM | Well, I was with someone for 2 months, and then they dump me and pretty much go straight for this other guy. I was a rebound. I don't care all that much now, but she won't give me the items(only 3 items) I left at her place back. I spent too much on her. I did too much for her. In the end, I am down around $500, becuase of her and all she does is be a complete **** to me. I got used, as well. Don't just pin it on the men, here.
I wanted a good relationship with no drama. Hard to find. Hoping someday it will happen.
Chin up, it could be worse. | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 6:22:44 PM | | I have a question for you, why and how could you fall in love with someone that thinks your a one night stand. Sounds to me like you fall a bit early. Why dont you try getting to know people for who they are first, then you can decide after some sort of prolongued exposure whether you love them or not. Seems like a better plan to me than falling in love with a guy you cahtted with a couple of times. Reality check. Do I sound like an ass? Hell yeah I do, but get a clue. I'm so sick of hearing about what evil jerks men are. Guess what, women are the same way and do the same things. Women cheat, women steal other womens men for a one night stand, women game play, women manipulate, women guilt trip, women lie, women do things to do intentional damage to the emotional state of others, and women play head games. So before you come on here to try to figure out whats wrong with men, figure out whats wrong with a woman who falls in love after a few chats first. | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 6:36:28 PM | 
Darling Yes, I agree..
But, there is THERAPHY and GET OUT get your SELF WORTH BACK... Yiou deserve better, you and your children...
Life is TOO SHORT to allow yourself to be Demoralised bty anyone ok...
Hugs from Artemesia and cats... | |
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Posted: 8/28/2006 6:49:25 PM | | I think that lately i hear of as many women cheating on their mates as men.I think if a person is still married that they should not be on a single site especially if they are still living with their mate.I was cheated on for 18 years of an 18 year relationship but was to blind to see that he was cheating on me.Iam out of that and over that now,but as many women as men cheat. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 2:31:43 AM | | we need to start a thread stating which guys we have all dated and why we arent anymore. That way we know which ones are users. doneatlast1 is a bad one........ likes to date ya until he thinks something better has come along. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 4:26:02 AM | | It has become obvious to me that how nice they may be on the phone-it all boils down to the exact same thing. They are not listening to anything we say, but looking at us a potential prey. Do not fall for it and don't give in to it. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 4:42:16 AM | Why are woman such liars & so shallow that they cannot talk on a 1-2-1 basis without being a player at same time, in fact why come on a date site to swim from one fish to another, mmm too many fishes to give a knack really ain't it. plus you dont reply so you tell me ? what goes round comes round. if yoyu cant commit to one guy then join a hookers site but not a dating one if your gonna fish all the time, gees wheres your commitment. why ?? lol duh i aint got a clue.    | |
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