| WHY ARE MEN SO MEAN
Posted: 8/29/2006 4:47:44 AM | io !!! not all of us honey phoo, some of us are sincere but when push comes to shove you all bottle it when a serious guy comes along cause you all like your fishes to much, i aint seen none of you yet take half the blaim. christ your all so shallow, like youve all been so loyal and never give cause to get cheated on, i never have but had many do it so don't tar all men the same cause since last march ive had nearly 58000 lying girls and players so be fair. u dont want it when it comes your way, you say ohhhhhhh too tense ahhhhh im frightened of commitment i need to go ask my mumsy what to do, i cant live without my p.c or mobile, i need to share my bed with a p.c too. god your so wow. a joke. go on get fishing. | |
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| WHY ARE MEN SO MEAN
Posted: 8/29/2006 4:54:41 AM | "get to know me first" maybe thats the key. how can you fall in love with someone you hardly know? well yes you think you do but it's not gonna be real love. yes men want sex, get used to it ! the best way to deal with it is to understand it. men want sex and so do women, some men just want sex and no commitment or real involvement but hey ! some women are like that too. you cant just cling to the first man you like, take your time, do the usual dating thing, if your just after sex you'll get that but if you're after a "nice" man take your time and you'll find if he is "nice" he will take his time too because he will think you are worth waiting for. if not move on after all there are plent of fish  | |
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Sarbux
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Joined: 11/21/2005
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| WHY ARE MEN SO MEAN
Posted: 8/29/2006 5:20:05 AM | Well, to be honest with you I have experienced some very mean women in my life, take the last one that I was with I did everything for her even got her citizenship and after I did she told me she was still married to another man and unless I let her handle my money she was going back to him. To this day she still says she loves me, but the trust and respect are gone.
I at this point unless someone can prove me wrong feel that there are no honest women in this world they are all after one thing and that is MONEY. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 5:21:27 AM | I maybe wrong,,,, But i thought i read up that you fell for a guy on line ..... Then he hurt you . You say you never met him. Just phone and on line am i wrong ????????????
Now you saying you are married to a man that cheats . Sounds like you both are cheating
Maybe i read wrong | |
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| WHY ARE MEN SO MEAN
Posted: 8/29/2006 8:58:07 AM | Meaness can be found in both sexes.
People can be mean for any number of reasons.
1) It boosts their own ego.
2) As revenge for something someone else did to them in the past.
3) Because it's in their heart and it's all they know.
And on and on.
Me...I don't care what a persons reason is for being mean to me. If I haven't done anything to deserve it, then my sentiment is, get out of my life. This way they don't get a chance to hurt me meaninglessly again and I have no more to do with it. | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 9:13:36 AM |
Meaness can be found in both sexes.
I completely concur, all the way. This is not a gender specific trait. In fact, I have found that women can be ten times meaner than any man I have ever known [I learned this when I was doing divorce cases - never again!!!]. There are some PEOPLE, male or female, who are just plain ol' mean. That's the unfortunate way it is. | |
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| WHY ARE MEN SO MEAN
Posted: 8/29/2006 10:03:23 AM |
well hun alot of men on sites are looking for just sex..you just gotta keep looking...they assume alot of things
and unfortunately these are the ones that give the descent ones a bad name........ | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 3:06:50 PM | Cuz someone raised them that way!!!
Do unto others as you would have done unto you...stop being Mean, people! 
~lil Cyn~ | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 8:05:57 PM | | hmmmmmmm i dont agree all men are mean not at all | |
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Posted: 8/29/2006 8:45:03 PM | | Not even going to go there, anyone can be mean period... | |
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Posted: 8/30/2006 10:53:49 AM | | I know just what u mean, i face the same problem all the time. | |
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Posted: 8/30/2006 12:54:34 PM | Men are just as mean as women, just in different ways. We tend to be more confrontational
and outward in our 'mean-ness'.
Actually, there are a TON of good guys out there, single good guys at that (I know, 'cause I'm one of them). The problem is that you don't really hear the happy men/women complaining or openly complementing their partners so it appears that there are an abundance of "mean" people 'cause all you really hear about is people complaining about the "bad" ones...
"The first step in getting what you want out of life is deciding what you want." - Ben Stein | |
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Posted: 9/4/2006 8:59:30 AM | In response to Scintillating_Angel...
I concur with your opinion about divorce cases. I have seen disgusting and savage behaviour from both genders in those. I don't like working on them either.
But I don't think that there are *people* that are mean or evil. Anyone is capable of baseness and depravity...or self-sacrifice and nobility. It's all in circumstances.
People react to what they have to deal with, to how they perceive things. Even in the midst of the lowest behaviour, I see people rationalizing what they are doing, telling themselves that they are in the right, and that they *know* that *ordinarily* what they were doing would not be *right* or *fair* but because of (fill in the blank) they are right or at least not wrong to act as they are acting.
Partly it's a failure of perception, an inability to have insight into how what one is doing is impacting others, how they feel about it.
The problem is worse between men and women because to a great extent we are *wired* differently, and react differently to similar situations. This makes insight into the other person harder. | |
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Posted: 9/4/2006 9:14:20 AM | | men are "so mean" becacuse of the women we have been with in the past. i have read the replies, and i see all the angry women who have a complaint about the men---but i see absolutely -0- admissions about just how shittttyy they might have been to the guy i question! every story has 2 sides, and for any girl to get on here and file they're complaint aginst a man will no doubt only give the one side that makes them look good and gains sympathy for a cause, and that is not only unfair but just downright wrong. but then again, most women won't claim responsibility at all but they will sure cry about they're own woes, won't they?? | |
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Posted: 9/4/2006 9:26:00 AM | Some people take advantage of others,and some people do not want to get to know the other person.Only one thing on their mind.So with them you just feed them some good puppy food and pat them on the head nicely.Rub their belly,and scratch them vigorously behind the ear and they will roll over and play dead.Problem solved.  | |
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| WHY ARE MEN SO MEAN
Posted: 9/18/2006 6:20:23 AM | I believe that some people that are datingtry to get together for the wrong reasons so they date but are pissed off or unhappy with the results.
How about each person asking this question.
For a wonderful relationship (and one that will last) you have to give of yourself. What do you want of this person that you are dating and what do you want in return.
If you start thinking about things like this then you might suprise yourself with the answers and save a lot of people and yourself a lot of heartaches,headaches and sadness.
SPREAD THE SMILES, THEY ARE FREE,FUN AND CONTAGIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 10:37:35 AM | | I dont i was married to a man for 4 years he was a drunk and verry mean the last 2 years we were married i didnt even sleep in the same room with him, one day i just said thats it im done , and never left him back in the door, Dont keep him for the kids , kids will be happy knowing you are happy, be strong u dont need him to pay the bills You get a good job and stand tall, but after i kicked him out found a man a week later and spent the next 16 years with him and was verry happy but he got sick 9 years ago and died 2 years ago , what im saying your holding your self back from meeting a good man. and belive me right now i need to wake up again lol met some one over a moth ago fell in love and he just stop talking to me 7 days ago and have no clue even why, Im trying to wake myself up again here, and lol when i stop hurting i will wake up and see he was an ass , | |
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Posted: 9/29/2006 10:44:37 AM | | Listen... some are just animals... Sorry! Had a guy just yesterday... Ask me to meet him at some motel! I wrote him back and said... Wow... your photo and profile does nothing to suggest that this is what kind of guy you are.... I am not against sex... but... come on... why can't a guy take sometime to get to know you first!! | |
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Posted: 9/30/2006 5:03:16 AM | Mean????
Mean is not a one night stand. Stop kidding yourself.
Mean is the BF who does and deals drughs in front of your and your kids.
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Who has beaten you up badly enough to be hospitalised a dozen times
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Who has raped his own five year old daughter.
These men do exist but , thankfully, they are rare.
For all the moaning and griping the botttom line is that very few women have ever know a mean man. You women don't know how good you've got it. | |
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Posted: 11/8/2006 4:25:39 PM | | No mean is one thing ....cruel is another. Stop criticing the women cause someone else had a cruel and evil person in their life. I had that....the whole beating on my thing. I know what mean is. I also know what a fist feels like. So let the women have their mean term and stop being so critical. | |
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Posted: 11/8/2006 7:35:58 PM | | Had a girl use me for a one-night stand once. I was disappointed as I was looking forward to quite a bit more. Still, it was a good time, I just wish she had been honest that it was only one night. Both genders do it. | |
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Posted: 11/10/2006 4:19:25 AM | Why are women so mean... err men so mean..?
Cause they don't care enough about the other person and they have forgoton what their parents told them when they were children. To treat others ass you would like to be treated.
Bill in Oakville | |
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| hey im ben
Posted: 12/31/2007 11:02:56 AM | | my names ben and im prob the kindist caring funnyist bubbly man any of you ladys will ever meet check out my profile and im sure you like the sound of me its been a hard life but im not the most best looking bloke and im not the worset so come on down ladys and ill show you what it means to have a good time then to share the memorys well cyaz round. xxxxxx | |
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| WHY ARE MEN SO MEAN
Posted: 12/31/2007 11:43:32 AM |
WHY ARE MEN SO MEAN
wow. another generalization thread... OooOOooh and it's in CAPS.
uh oh...it's coming... i can't control it..
here it comes....
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ZZZzzzZZzzZZzzz! | |
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