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Posted: 1/14/2006 9:23:14 PM | oh sure now you tell me i need lure....%&@$%%^&$#^#$%# 
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Posted: 1/15/2006 7:27:04 AM | most of my longer relationships started with sex on the first night.
it depends on the dude... if you can spot a player you will be way ahead...
I find dating a guy and withholding sex, is a big game in itself... sure its understandable that a woman has to be into it, in fact its way better that way. but first night sex is pretty sweet too... nervousness, passion... the fun of makin out with a stranger, how much do the chemicals mix, does she have the instictive nature that fries your bacon... all so fun.
waiting too can be cool... it just feels a bit contrived, jumping through hoops... all because the gurl is scarred from the way some fvkn jerk used her... now she carries it around as baggage. butthat is survival instinct... its fair... if you are really into her then the wait is actually a great way to show her that you are, worth it... she is important and so are her feelings... and then.... you can take it upon yourself to try and break her resolve with class... 
get her steamed up, make her want it as bad as you... romance, connection, enticemnent...
get her wee tiny little hed down below involved too....
and if it is not meant to be, then you roads just arent compatible... you are in different places... different stages of need... move on...
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Posted: 1/15/2006 7:36:36 AM | | Dr. Phil has a new book out called, "Love Smart." It is the bible when it comes to meaningful dating --- and helping you to have meaning in your life and self-esteem. | |
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Posted: 1/15/2006 7:46:09 AM | Itsmejazz, why don't you change the locks the next time your DH goes out?
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Posted: 1/15/2006 8:17:45 AM | | Hello ! Not all guys are just after sex . I just want someone to be with . I want sex too , but thats not all I want. Forget about the guy and move on . | |
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Posted: 1/15/2006 8:35:56 AM | Reading it now.... It's a must read for all ages... | |
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Posted: 1/15/2006 8:36:07 AM | Men want sex. We have wanted sex for thousands of years now. You are not going to change thousands of years of evolution. Men are wired to want sex all of the time. It's that proliferation of the species thing. Women are completely different from men, and if it wasn't for alcohol even the smoothest operators would do without sex. This isn't any big news flash. Obviously you ladies know what's going on. Have you ever thought, maybe, quit falling for those same old lines we have been using for thousands of years?
Never again, isn't that what you said?
You've been through this before
An' you swore this time you'd think with your head
No one, would ever have you again
And if takin' was gonna get done
You'd decide where and when
Just when you think you got it down
Your heart securely tied and bound
They whisper, promises in the dark
Pat Benatar/1981 http://www.songfacts.com/detail.php?id=1606&
I won't even waste your time claiming all men aren't alike. It isn't much consolation when your heart has been shredded by some low life scum. | |
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Posted: 1/15/2006 8:47:02 AM | As I started reading this thread, I came across a post that made me laugh! jazz?? You start a thread whining about men you meet on here being mean and just wanting sex, next post I see you are married?
I guess I can skip the next 4 pages of replies because I don't care to see what it is all about. Married woman online looking for a long term relationship. Get rid of your present long term relationship first. A lot of people will assume that you being married are nothing but a one night stand. Want to lose that distinction? Lose the hubby. | |
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Posted: 1/15/2006 8:59:28 AM | | God if someone could answer that question, i too would like to know. I like the ones that sound interesting to chat to, nice profile, but get into the conversation and all they want to know is what size are your b**bs. Good luck with the rock turning let me know if you find even one. | |
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Posted: 1/15/2006 9:01:13 AM | | I will have to try dating cancers then, maybe that works lol | |
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Posted: 1/15/2006 9:23:39 AM | Age old story, don't think its going to change anytime soon. We see faults in both of the sexes, once in a while a good combination does happen. I don't think the perfect couple exist, fights do happen and sometimes its over the smallest and stranges reasons.
Just keep fishing, my line is out there , no bait, just like to watch the water go by the boat. If somefish would bite on just a empty hook it might be worth seeing if its a keeper.: | |
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Posted: 1/15/2006 9:29:57 AM | | I am sure there are older men looking for a woman too. You are worthy of love and it is awful that the man you speak of has done that...but it happens to us younger women too. I guess that men do not change, even with age. BUT, I am not having sex with them anymore without a commitment.......I do not mean marriage, but at least knowing they have invested something into ME to know they are serious and really want me for something other than SEX! Life teaches us all kinds of lessons don't it? VERYNICELADY, go for a younger man if you cannot find an older one to treat you with respect. | |
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Posted: 1/15/2006 11:28:27 AM | | girlca..great book i read it an readin it again.. | |
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Posted: 1/15/2006 1:33:49 PM | | Men can be mean just depends on the guy,most of us can be jerks,but some of us can be nice,a little to nice,and get tooken advantage of. | |
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Posted: 1/15/2006 2:29:20 PM | I think to put all men or women in one basket can be a big mistake in itself. Not all men or women are mean and even if the overwhelming majority are, there are still that minority of people that have a heart and a conscience. It is all a matter of two people with good hearts that have chemistry finding each other. Chemistry and sex can be a tricky thing to keep in perspective but it cannot be denied that both men and women need this for a romantic relationship to flourish. Rejection can be tough but it doesn't mean the other person is mean unless they knowingly used you for attention or sex.
As for the original poster. Get a divorce, grieve, and then date. You can try and take shortcuts, but you'll only end up in some bad neighborhoods and possibly drag some good people with you. | |
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Posted: 1/15/2006 6:48:31 PM | He's not MEAN he's just frisky. What does mean have to do with
being horny????
Maybe you should be more descriptive in your profile including a message
stating what you're looking for. Adding a photo might give an impression of
what you're about.
You sound like you hold back alot and this just baiting yourself for abuse. | |
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Posted: 1/15/2006 7:17:23 PM | ITSMEJAZZ
Not all men are like that there are alot of good men out there not all after one thing most of them yeh. not all, I'ts just weeding out the bad ones from the good and that isn't easy. you have to use your best judgement for what you want in a guy and not fall in love just talking to him a few times guard your Heart Love takes time start out as friend's in any relationship don't have sex till married if a guy isn't willing to wait then he's not worth your Love.
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Posted: 1/15/2006 8:57:42 PM | | We're mean because we never forgave you women for Women' Lib. | |
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Posted: 1/16/2006 3:48:22 AM | It's HUMANITY that's mean; animals never laugh when a wheelchair careens out of control and runs over a cat. (Oh, shit, I guess I'M an animal | |
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Posted: 1/16/2006 6:10:26 PM | OK ALL U WEIRDOS!!!!
Yes I am married.............I bet you half you freaks who have commented on me being married are all married yourselfs with a freaking fake profile. If i were happily married and didnt have a D*ck for a hubby maybe i wouldn't be looking. If he can have affairs so can I. I am not going to take being menatlly abused and not have fun. I am honest and I am married but not happily. BIG FRICKEN SHIT....80% of you are all married so don't comment on my profile...HEY HEY at least I am HONEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  | |
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Joined: 11/20/2005
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Posted: 1/16/2006 6:44:20 PM |
i am with him cause maybe i am a idiot...no i am . you are right i do have his kids and he is paying rent but all that is not going to make me happy. i have no more self esteem because of him and i think that he doesn't even love us. no he doesnt. I need to get rid of him and i just cant i don't know u ladies mus t think i am a weirdo but i am not
Jazz:
If he is paying the rent and is not abusive, I would not rush to divorce without some careful planning about your future. Raising kids by yourself is not easy for you or for them.
Regardless of what he is doing, remember that 2 wrongs don't make a right. If you are still married, then looking for men on here is not the answer. You're not likely to find one of responsibility or character anyway.
You would do better to look at furthering your education, or saving money and that sort of thing. And while you are planning your future, it would be well to try to make the marriage as pleasant as possible, even if you don't sleep with him. Doing good things makes you feel good in the long run, even if the person doesn't reward you in the short run.
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Posted: 1/16/2006 7:08:44 PM | Well said Smilz. Enough of this male bashing. There is always two sides to the story. Suffice it to say this world is composed of all sorts of good and bad men and women, period! It's also full of very decent men and women, period! | |
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