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| The WORST Plenty Of Fish story you will EVER hear
Posted: 8/8/2007 7:57:57 PM | Mothers have tough times getting childcare. i wonder if she realized that sh ecouldn't care or her children adn you for 4 whoel days.
I am surprised you would decide to be dependent on a woman you never met for a whole weekend or whatever. I would have made my own hotel reservation adn expected maybe one or two nights of dates with her but also researched the area and nice places to see. | |
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| The WORST Plenty Of Fish story you will EVER hear
Posted: 8/10/2007 2:09:26 AM | | well this is the first time i ever posted but i had too. omg mojo u are the biggest loser ever.. SHE DIDNT LIKE U AND PROB. THOUGHT U WERE UGLY. deal with it. jeez get a life too. | |
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| The WORST Plenty Of Fish story you will EVER hear
Posted: 8/10/2007 8:50:58 AM |
omg mojo u are the biggest loser ever.. SHE DIDNT LIKE U AND PROB. THOUGHT U WERE UGLY. deal with it. jeez get a life too.
Even if she thought this, she should have had the decency to tell him. At the very least she could have said, sorry but you are on your own for the rest of your stay. There is no excuse for such rude behavior as she displayed. | |
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| The WORST Plenty Of Fish story you will EVER hear
Posted: 8/12/2007 2:44:18 AM | | Hey bud, This is not ,not, not, you..........I bet she was young, girls Im sorry about this, please dont think im a bad guy ok? You my friend are too nice, she was just testing you to see if you really came, it all fell appart in her reality when she saw you. but before then it was all fantasy. can you see it, dont think for a second there is anything wrong with you, except you let her lead...like you say yeh I would like to come there some time, your inviting yourself there.....you nuts boy, you should have reversed it, ohhhh mom can take the kids for 3-4 days great ill book you a hotel near me how many nights? see? now its on her, 100% she would have never come, and it had nothing to do with you. If you want to write me back try on the mail here, I could not find this again, if I was looking for canadian gi.....oh sorry never mind, LOL just laugh about it bro, no ****ing, and the fact she was nice when you wrote her back,,,,,she wants zero trouble from you....it is over though, forget her,,,,move on when she asid a hotel by the airport, you should have saidI heard thats where the hokers stay, I take it you have spent a night or 50? lol yeh what does she do....hhhmmmmm cya. P | |
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| The WORST Plenty Of Fish story you will EVER hear
Posted: 8/12/2007 3:17:40 PM | Acroos state line or international borders ..... hell I can even get a date here in town .... but I guess that's the despearation we sometimes feel when searching on the internet ...... good luck dude but you should have gone to Texas some of the best looking women I have ever seen ...
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| The WORST Plenty Of Fish story you will EVER hear
Posted: 8/12/2007 11:18:52 PM | well this is the first time i ever posted but i had too. omg mojo u are the biggest loser ever..
Thanks, d15bigguns. I guess I shouldn't expect more from a man with a "short guy" complex. Dude, I'm sorry you got dealt the short straw in life (heh heh), but really, your overcompensation with bulging biceps and pictures with your shirt off is more than enough - putting down the people around you will not make you any taller. And some advice - when you're going to call someone a loser, try spelling the entire sentence correctly.
To the girl next door, yes, I still check in from time to time. No one is more amazed that this thread is still going than I am. | |
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Posted: 8/12/2007 11:32:12 PM | | i dont know if my story has anything to do with yours butt here are my experiences on here so far i was raped once by this guy, ( and he still comes on here trying to talk to me)and it happened just recently i also tried a relationship with this guy a few months back, who controlled me and i had to move b/c of him, b/c he was stalking me, i cant even meet a guy w/o him trying or doing or saying anything w/o getting into my pants, i mean whats happening to this world cant i meet a guy and JUST GO FOR COFFEE? i dont know wat to say is that im hurt and confused and starting to think every guy is the same, and its really killing my ego. actually now im even scared to meet any1 off of here cuz i dont want to put myself at risk. im about ready to give up. where are all the decent men? please msg me if your out there cuz i need you in my life. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2007 4:23:27 AM | OMG......I can not believe all of the losers who have responded here, and their stories!! Wow..to travel that far for a date, not just the original story, but ALL of you...what has this world turned into? My condolenses to the last young lady who's been terrorized by some of life's lowest. But perhaps she needs to modify her "screening" process a little..seems to be a history there, and those who don't learn from history are doomed to repeat it!
This is not a personal attack on anyone in particular, but before you travel more than 100 miles to meet a TOTAL stranger (I don't care how much you've chatted on-line) take a long HARD look in the mirror, slap yourself and say "My god, what the hell are you doing?" Perhaps it'll save some of you some heart ache, money, and more...peace be with you all.  | |
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| The WORST Plenty Of Fish story you will EVER hear
Posted: 8/13/2007 8:16:56 PM | Im sorry for your experience, but I would never go that far to meet anyone. This and other sites have taught me that messaging and talking on the phone is one thing, but meeting face to face is TOTALLY different. Though I wish I could say you are still the same person who writes and talks on the phone, people respond different when they finally meet you. Terrible, but that's the way it is. That is why I don't like e-mailing or calling for too long, because it is time consuming, it is an investment, and most of the times leads nowhere.
On the other hand... this Canadian guy e-mailed me, telling me he was going to visit Denver, and would I be open to show him around and probably have a nice time, nothing more to it. I had never done it before, but I thought, why not? I never thought he'd be as charming as he was, and that, by the end of the day, I would be so heart broken when he left, knowing that we probably won't ever meet again. I am not ever doing that "tourist guide" thing again, but at the same time, I had a great time and I know there are still men out there VERY close to what I am looking for... hopefully, closer to home! | |
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| The WORST Plenty Of Fish story you will EVER hear
Posted: 8/15/2007 6:32:46 PM | | I've heard some whining before , but this is redicilous.....traveling 1500 miles for a first date...are you nuts?...the ultimte culmination of this fantasy would be one of you relocating....not likely....you should have planned it as a vacation, with the meeting secondary, with the expectation that it WOULDNT work out...if it did ..yeee haaa...wosrt case scenario would be a good vacation...the medium is fine...its you morons using it that screw up...B | |
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| The WORST Plenty Of Fish story you will EVER hear
Posted: 8/16/2007 3:59:28 PM | Chauntie: (message #686) Sorry guys keep trying to get into your pants, maybe your profile headline shouldn't read "HORNY." Just a thought.
Chukker: (Right above me) I love it when someone calls me a moron but can't spell "ridiculous." THINK before you type. If it's an option... | |
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| The WORST Plenty Of Fish story you will EVER hear
Posted: 8/16/2007 7:27:29 PM | Mojo,
I'll post my story and we can compare. I hope I have had the dignity and courtesy you have shown. I will try to be coherent as possible seeing as I am being treated for squmos cell carcinoma and the pain pills rock LOL. I met lisa on line and she said she was a hard working single parent. We chatted back and forth and we both agreed there may be something their. I arranged a 5 min meeting at a truck stop just to see if I was physically in the ball park for her. We met and there were sparks right away. we talked and dated and things went on and got serious. I would stay nights and weekends at her house and she at mine. We had agreed on marriage and were getting ready. I went to a routine dental visit and two weeks later was being treated for cancer, She said she would be their forever and see me through this. Three weeks later everything is goin fine she calls me friday night and says her friend is broke down and she is going to get her and will talk to me later that night. I called her twice and emailed her once and got no answer. Tuesday she calls and says she can't be with me anymore. I said can we still be friends and she says no. I told her I loved her and left it at that. I guess there are three things that bother me and are my fault. I noticied that everytime we were together she was drinking later she admited she had a drinking problem. she will drink abottle of wine every night. I never judged her we had talked about her tapering off, I never pressurred her. Then we seperated for two weeks during our relationship and I felt she was being less than honest so I hired pinkerton out of br to survail her. She went out and met a guy at a bar they came out all over each other and they spent the night at her house. When confornted all she would say is nothing happened he was a friend of hers and she just cried on is shoulder all night about me. Lastly, I ran into two people who told me she says nothing about me having cancer just that I was a liar. I don't hold anything against her and feel srory for her and her children. The thing that really hurt me was I saw her new add and on the bottom it hAS the thing that say pray for those you know who have died of cancer or are suffering from it. Oh well 30 more radiation treatments and its the next step. By the way I will always love her and I do forgive her. | |
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Posted: 8/17/2007 1:38:06 AM | Holy moley Dark Night, I don't even know what to say... that whole situati0n was filled with holes big enough to drive the Death Star through.
Anytime you feel compelled to hire a private investigator to tail the love of your life, you should probably face the fact it's not working out.
It sounds like she was a bit of a loose canon and you certainly had plenty of warning shots, so come on - you can't say any of this REALLY surprises you. Disappointing, yes, but surprising?
While we all like to have someone warm and squishy to hold on to, I think Pretty In Pink said it best: "I'd rather be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong reasons."
Is there any dilemma a John Hughes movie can't solve? | |
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| The WORST Plenty Of Fish story you will EVER hear
Posted: 8/17/2007 2:37:39 AM | i thought i hit the jack pot a nice blond ice blue eyed woman i live in fallriver she lives n woonsocket (witch i have no clue how to get around ) i meet her after driveing a hour at night yet .we talk walk in a baseball park little league get to the bleachers and we end up doing the nasty but she was so so into me (so she said) so i put on a glove and we made love i got home after getting lost at 11:00 pm in providence i ended up at T.F. GREEN airport but she wrote me a letter why i was driveing home saying i can see us as bro and sister nouthing else i said you do that with your bro she blocked me so the morel is men do it but woman can make. men come to them better then them come to us so wtch out for pookie on my fish she is a smooth one but she did like the pole  | |
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| The WORST Plenty Of Fish story you will EVER hear
Posted: 8/17/2007 5:58:45 AM | Mojo,
You are right about the P I but I would rather be sure than to blindly accuse. The way I look at it if you call someone a liar and they are not I guess you are. I really wanted to believe and it is my fault. I guess I always look to give someone the benifit of the doubt. I have always believed that all have a intrinsic spark of goodness if given the chance. I still believe that as if I didn't I would have to quit trying and stop believing in people. I guess I will just have to temper that with this experience. She really made me believe that what she said was true. When I told her about the cancer she cried and told me how she stayed with her mom who had cancer and she was strong enough to stay with me. You see early on I gave her the option of just seperating and she declined. Again I just gave her the chance to be honest. I willl again say that it was my fault for believing what she said and giving her that chance. This is my first experience with internet dating so I guess I can chalk it all up to ignorance. I certainly hope it was not stupidity. I guess on this site from what I have read falling in love is stupid or at least ill advised. Anyway thanks so much for your input I really appreciate it. I know everything has worked out well for you. God bless and thanks again. | |
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| The WORST Plenty Of Fish story you will EVER hear
Posted: 8/17/2007 10:52:48 AM | Hi...Im a first time poster. LOL, But I couldnt resist myself...the quote above is not from "pretty in pink"...its from the movie..."Some Kind Of Wonderful" starring Eric Stoltz and Lea Thompson. When "Amanda" gives the diamond earrings back to "Keith" and tells him...."I'd rather be alone for the right reasons, than with someone for the wrong reasons.". I know its way off topic..LOL. Sorry!! I couldnt help myself.
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| The WORST Plenty Of Fish story you will EVER hear
Posted: 8/17/2007 11:14:40 AM | Chauntie,
You sy you are looking for a decent guy, but your pics are mostly of a bong and you toking, your heading says bored/horny and under first date you mention "****"ing, and in "about me" you say you want a FWB. What do you expect? He probably thinks it was what you wanted and that it was not rape, since you said on your profile it is what you are looking for.
No means no and rape is not okay... but if a nice guy is what you are looking for, then write a profile that will interest one, not a guy looking for a FWB to hang out with and screw while stoned. I won't say you asked for it, but you did set the expectations... | |
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Posted: 8/17/2007 11:14:49 AM | I think you take a big chance when you agree to meet someone from another province/country. One of you may be disappointed, and so you should prepare a back-up plan to tour the city and see the sites, alone, if necessary. Agree to meet just as a "tourist", with no expectations.
While not excusing her behaviour, some people are unable to be honest under these circumstances, and will invent excuses and utilize all kinds of stall tactics. It's cowardly and inconsiderate, to be sure. There are all kinds of people on this system, and the "agenda" of some may not be the same as yours. No country, province, sex, or age group has the monopoly on rudeness.
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