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 Author Thread: GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
 Naethan

Joined: 9/26/2007
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/1/2008 5:28:50 PM
Ladies!!! If a car salesperson offered you a new car, would you buy it without test driving it first?! hmmmm...
 newfinland

Joined: 2/17/2007
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/1/2008 5:35:59 PM
Re Msg 8: Tictactoe:
Thank you, thank you for your response as it shows your calibre as a respectful human being.

Your last sentence is what grabbed my attention! Someone, somewhere will be very happy to have you as her partner.

Enough said, the hurt I experienced was overwhelming.
 newfinland

Joined: 2/17/2007
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/1/2008 5:37:28 PM
Re Msg 8: Tictactoe:
Thank you, thank you for your response as it shows your calibre as a respectful human being.

Your last sentence is what grabbed my attention! Someone, somewhere will be very happy to have you as her partner.

Enough said, the hurt I experienced was overwhelming.
 zangie

Joined: 5/30/2007
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/1/2008 5:39:31 PM

Ladies!!! If a car salesperson offered you a new car, would you buy it without test driving it first?! hmmmm...


I know this is redundant, and I've said it before...women aren't inanimate objects without feelings..

That car analogy needs to be retired....
 shaunh20

Joined: 4/27/2007
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/1/2008 6:55:54 PM
I would wait if that was what she desired. My last gf wanted sex too early in our relationship and I would not oblige as i didn't feel our relationship was in the right place for it. We ended up breaking up over it. I know, i'm a very odd man.
 SILady10306

Joined: 12/20/2007
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/1/2008 7:50:30 PM
if neither of you are virgins...what's the point of waiting. This makes no sense to me.
 shaunh20

Joined: 4/27/2007
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/1/2008 8:30:45 PM
Because I didn't feel comfortable with sex at that point in the relationship. God I sound like such a woman saying that I know..
 .Marc

Joined: 2/11/2007
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/1/2008 8:33:37 PM
^ Waiting makes sense in that situation, but I tend to agree that waiting until marriage- if both people aren't virgins- would be somewhat strange.

Different strokes for different folks though...
 Softcharms

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/20/2008 6:23:11 PM



Callistio, you sound like 'NO I can't wait' to me, lol!. You'd wait if there's a strong connection, but if there's no strong connection you'd have temporary sex, and sometimes its nice to love the one you're with" is that what you mean? lol! It seems like you're planning to have 3 wives! and stay with whichever one works without making any efforts... You sound double minded or more like corny. I'd rather be single than have a man that doesn't know what he wants. Please RELAX :)
 Medina49

Joined: 12/17/2007
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/20/2008 6:50:29 PM
Nope. I'd have to say I dont think I could wait 2 months, let alone the year or so to know if I was ready to marry.
Even funnier- to me- are couple who have dated for years and still aren't married!
At some point, dont you either know, or not know??
 dharmabum48

Joined: 1/12/2008
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/23/2008 10:45:46 PM
Given that a good sex life is a cornerstone of any successful long-lasting relationship, why would you want to risk marrying someone with whom you later learned you were not compatible? What if it turns out the sex isn't good? then you are stuck with someone who doesn't light your fire.
 Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/23/2008 11:11:03 PM
if we had mad chemistry yes. No chemistry, no way
 100prcntMe

Joined: 10/1/2007
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Posted: 1/24/2008 2:58:31 PM
Without a doubt.
However with that being said, I probably couldn't hold out on all sexual contact with her.
 Romantic Heretic

Joined: 10/24/2007
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/24/2008 5:12:10 PM
In a word, no.

Somebody that uptight about a joyous activity two people that care for each other can share is not someone I'd likely get along with.

It's a rhetorical question as I intend never to get married again.
 Mmm_Nachos

Joined: 1/14/2008
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/24/2008 6:37:42 PM
Only if she's okay with paying for all the dates until then
 NorseViking869

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/24/2008 9:33:56 PM
If I ever meet the right woman and we havent done it already, then sure I can wait till marriage, but she had better be the right woman. I am very picky when It comes to relationships, when dating, not so much.
 Ignoble

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/24/2008 9:36:46 PM
RE: First post.

How could you possibly know she was the right woman until you got as intimate as possible with her. If you think you can, Im personally gunna think you're deluding yourself. It doesnt get more intimate than that. Plus, you gotta find out if the sex is even good. And if you think good sex doesnt matter in a marriage you're more naive than I thought.
 Vayliss

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/24/2008 10:35:46 PM
Saddly I would like to say I could wait till then. But lo I cannot. I have had to many failed relationships not to walk the path of marriage very very lightly. Now I also feel that on that path being compatiable in the bed room is also a part of it. And I take the propper percausions. And I am also ready to Step up and take care of my responabilitys if somthing happens. My kick ass 4 year old son is proof of that.
 stumpy1970

Joined: 12/27/2006
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/24/2008 11:00:59 PM
Yup, I could. If thats what we both agreed upon. It would be very tough.
 crayonzz

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/24/2008 11:08:15 PM
Ladies!!! If a car salesperson offered you a new car, would you buy it without test driving it first?! hmmmm...
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The theory is that a new car doesn't need a test drive.

But, even if the car is brand new , you still don't know if it's any good.
 arodgerrabbit

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/24/2008 11:30:17 PM
Probably not, If she wasnt a virgin almost certainly not. Sexual compatability is really important.

What if you discovered she just didnt like it?....do you now have a sexless marriage?

Nope not for me.
 Byronic Hero

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/24/2008 11:38:04 PM

Ladies!!! If a car salesperson offered you a new car, would you buy it without test driving it first?! hmmmm...


Ever notice that the car loses value the moment it gets off the lot. People never buy the car they test drive.

And there's also something to be said about being attractive and intelligent and not needing to have sex to know you're compatible with another person. Does a man feel better about himself that he has sex with a woman who is average looking, and not that he has been successful in business or being a warm hearted person?

And it shows even in how our perceptions of attractiveness has changed. Jessica Simpson and Angelina Jolie are so effusive in their sexuality, and that's what's considered attractive. They aren't beautiful like Grace Kelly and Audrey Hepburn were.

It's the idea that a woman doesn't have to respect herself, and marriage has been cheapened immeasurably.
 Vayliss

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/25/2008 1:01:37 AM
Anyone noticed that on this forum when someone makes a true and honest point, weather it be pro or con. No one comments on it. LOL Now this pointless post here will get flamed the ever living day lights of. lol. Just a observation.
 ChrisFromBurly

Joined: 12/9/2007
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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/26/2008 11:03:12 PM
So you could still fool around? I can do more with my tongue than most guys can do in a night...so I think actual intercourse could be saved for marriage if she wanted too. I'd do it if it meant enough to her.
 NorseViking869

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/27/2008 3:05:35 PM
if I was alowed to make out and fool around then most definatly I can wait till mariage for intercourse . But if I cant fool around or make out then no way.
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