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sar_86
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Joined: 5/23/2007
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/4/2008 2:30:19 PM | i probly wouldnt wait till marriage if i met the right woman. that could be a long wait, and all that tension of not doing that part of a relationship would probly damage the relationship.
if i met a girl on the first day and she told me she was waiting for marriage, i probly would stick around, show her she could trust me, and maybe shell see thatdo dont need a ring on ur finger to perform the act of making love.
im a pretty patient guy when it comes to sex though, so i dont expect anything immediately. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/6/2008 11:32:21 AM | | why should u have to have sex straight away. i've met some never till married couples and they are okay with it. i personally see myself as not that strict and there's a right time for everything but understand and respect the girls who feel they should wait. persides there are far more other ways to have fun... | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/6/2008 3:44:33 PM | If she were the right one for me, i wouldn't be bothered about waiting, cause sex be the bonus......if ya happy and full of joy, it would be easy.
Having said that, ya Real marriage is between ya two hearts and ya two minds.....ya get the paperwork and witness to keep it legal and God be ya witness
Sex is good but ya have to be happy.......ya buy ya nice flash car and ya only feel good in it when ya riding it......surley ya want to feel good all the time......if those two mind and body is one, in other words ya comunicate and understand each other , the paperwork don't matter......if she dosen't understand that....do not bother. Every relationship requires TRUST.......
Tell's me on the date,
So what, i stick with her till she understand.......the outcome will be different every time. Depending on ya maturity.....if ya both wanna wait fair enough....but i ain't CUMMING .......
Firm and Fair
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/6/2008 3:58:51 PM |
Guys!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? - Taran23
> Gals!!! If you met the right guy, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
> It is a pointless question, perpetuating yet further gulfs and chasms between men and women.
> Every person is unique and has different needs and desires.
> - Peter. | |
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dewitt
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Joined: 1/18/2008
Msg: 2708 | |
| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/6/2008 7:08:59 PM | | I would on one condition...she can't complain if I decide to purchase pornographic magazines and dvd's, and that's if I was really interested in that person and I knew she had the same interest in me and we were going somewhere in life,but if I was'nt sure and getting mixed messages then I would'nt wait. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/7/2008 12:56:12 AM | | No. I would not do it. I have already been in relationships where I was totally sexually incompatible with my partner and am not willing to take a chance on that again. If a woman wants to go a year or more waiting for sex, that is a strong hint that she does not have much of a sex drive anyway and that you are probably going to spend a lot of lonely nights layng next to her and staring at the ceiling in frustration. | |
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nnbjr
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Joined: 2/4/2008
Msg: 2713 | |
| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/7/2008 10:06:09 AM | | Yes, I can wait till marriage, whether or not it's her choice or not. I am the one with the**** and have waited for a long time thus far... And if on the date she said she wants marriage, I'd say good for you, your not the only one, I am more into seeing what your character, and personality is, then anything else... | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/7/2008 1:05:03 PM | wow this thread is going strong!
I'd have to say never a chance in hell would I wait until marriage for sex, and if someone gave me that stipulation i'd dump them then and there on the spot. Sorry, next!
In my last relationship I was very sexually dissatisfied and I vowed to myself to never again suffer through that. Thats what waiting would be; suffering.
Besides, marriage hardly carries any meat and bread these days, so why wait for something that has a 50% chance of failing?
no thanks i'll take the sex now | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/9/2008 10:32:50 PM | | That would depend on whether there was a discussion before "her choice" was made. Given that there was a discussion and we BOTH decided that it wa best that way, then the answer to the original question is yes. IF, however, she decided and then _told_ you that _she_ wasn't going to have sex until then, that would be a horse of a different colour. Given the first option, then yea there would be no problem, if the second option is the one on the table then I would say a discussion needs to happen immediately! | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/11/2008 7:46:16 PM | Ok so here is my two cents worth.
Sexual chemistry is going to be evident long before you ever get into a bed. If you lack the chemistry to begin with, why would you find yourself with that person in a committed relationship? I know if I'm with someone who I would sleep with given the right circumstances, Im either attracted to them or I'm not. Being boneheaded in bed is just a temporary problem, a good sex life requires communication and a learning period no reason why anyone should have to deal with a bonehead in bed if they are willing to learn what is good for both of you. I would wait if I needed to, if it was that important to someone I was considering spending the rest of my life with, well we have the rest of our lives to make love. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/11/2008 9:46:37 PM | Honestly, sex isn't the first thing I'm looking for when I meet someone. If they said that to me, then I'd respect them for it. It just all depends on how much I like the person. I believe that there has to be some sort of intimacy between a couple, but if you love some enough, then the sex should take a back seat in the relationship.
So yes, I could wait for sex until marriage if I met the right women. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/12/2008 3:42:31 PM | I did wait...
I couldnt say if both were 'not virgins', but my Ex was a virgin and I respected her choice. We dated, had fun and things seemed okay.. but there were failures in the relationship that practically screamed that we were not compatible in our physical needs.
This is a fact that you cannot know until it happens.
The littlest nuances can make a major factor. You can try to sweep it under a rug but unless you're talking about it, you cant fix it. I couldnt get her to discuss squat, so marrying a virgin and waiting can have its downfalls too.
Waiting has its prestige, but its mainly a tool to supress the 'physical' realiance. Once you have determined that your relationship has body, and can sustain itself.. your physical has to be there. Women need substance. As crude as it sounds, men need more physical attachments.
I just read and heard about some study talking about how women can judge a man for marriage potential within 30 minutes to an hour. Guys are clueless until our beastials go caveman.. or something along that lines. This topic was saying to women, "If you dont maintain a strong physical, then the man isnt likely to attach to the relationship. "
It also said that if you want to really get a mans attention early in the relationship, move the bases up to early on in the dating. The man will attach and we're likely to get involved into the relationship faster.
I think its a crock, but I believe that men with higher testosterone might be afflicated with such a attachment. LOL
I'm not saying you can't do other things, but the actual intercourse...could you wait for it?
3rd base is okay, but going all the way is on hold? I could do that. :)
Also, what if you went on a first date and the girl tells you she's waiting for marriage, how would you react?
I'd respect the concept. Intercourse really isnt that important. But I also know that people can say that, and once vested into a relationship.. that can quickly be thrown to the wayside. It's one thing to say it and another to live it. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/14/2008 8:39:12 PM | I could wait yes.
All this BS bout well I have to test out a car etc gets on me nerves. Women are not cars ffs we are human beings.
If I love someone, truely love them the sex doesnt matter one bit. Id want it. i enjoy it but i can get off other ways. Sex is such a small part in relationships. Thats not to say it isnt important but intamacy will always be more important to me than penetration. There was a guy on here sayin he wouldnt even wait till date 3 to get the girl into bed or no more dates. He doesnt know her. Its just about the act itself. What ever happened to buildin relationships over time and makin love to someone cos they're them?
What happens to relationships built so much on sex when it all goes wrong? When the woman has just had a baby or shes not well or the bloke becomes impotant? My dad did. Was impotant many years before he died due to bad health but did my mum run off wth the postman? No. My Mum was a virgin on her wedding night even though they dated 2 years and they were together over 30 years. My dad had no guarantee of a fab sex life but he loved and adored my mum to marry her anyway.
Theres more to life than sex, though its great but mind blowin with proper emotion involved knowin the person geninly wants you and only you will do! | |
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