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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/11/2009 10:13:45 AM | Anyone who will wait until marriage is perfectly capable of waiting AFTER marriage,
he or she just isn't into it people!!!!And he or she will use it as a control method afterwards. There should be a dating site specifically for people who don't like sex.
Maybe "Don't ever touch me like that.com"
"We both have a headache.com"
"All right, I will let you this time.com"
Amazing how the person who does not want to demands this respect, yet has no respect for the partner's desires. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/11/2009 12:36:08 PM | Yah!! We have to test drive, we have to know if we're sexually compatible.. I need to know if she'll do anal, if she gives great head, if she'll take it any which ways i want her to, because, after all, thats what marriage, and love is aaaallllll about, right?
Gahh!!
So, out of all all the marriages, 50% that end in divorce, it seems the test driving, didnt actually wotk out that well, did it guys? You still FAILED!!
Why is that, do you think?
Could it be that too much emphasis is placed on sex, and how well she puts out?
Maybe ignoring the other stuff, like core values, morality, interets, things in common?
Maybe, it was all about the sex, and not about love and respect.
How dare some of you liken a woman to a car? How dare you think you're entitled to some sort of sexual fantasy woman thats just walked out of one of your porn influenced, addled dreams?
Women are human beings, just like you,.. and if we were to test drive every shmuck who came along and said, 'lets see how it goes'... our private parts would be hanging off , and only held together by bits of sellotape.
We HAVE to show some discernment somewhere, because its blatantly bloody obvious that most men will not.
I refuse to be some sort of sperm recepticle for every guy who wants to use me as such,.. with the very slim chance that' he'll actually stick around.
Again, how many d**** do you want me to take in my lifetime, in the hope that one day, one of these guys will see fit to be in a commited relationship with me?
I refuse. I refuse to give myself up, in the vain hope of a relationship, or love.
lets put the horse before the cart this time,.. lets do this right, lets build a relationship first,.. lets see if we could actually grow to love and care for each other deeply, lets see if we can be commited, and then,... lets bring sex into it, after a commitment is made by both.
If for some women, that comitment is marriage, then so be it,.. at least a man who will marry, is showing a deep commitment, even if it just means he's willing to put his assests where his mouth is.
Talk of 'I'll love you forever, doesnt mean anything, when its said to get someone into bed. Say it, mean it, commit to it,.. and then, sex will follow, and Im sure that sex is sex, is sex.
Most women are not porn stars, but most women arent frigid sex haters either.
Some of us do however, need to feel that the man we're having sex with , will be the last one, or indeed, the only one.
If you find that risible, or funny,.. then I'm sorry you're so shallow.
A part of me deep down, really reckons that men, if they were honest with themselves,.. would rather know that the woman he loves, has only known him... or at least has waited,.. so that he knows shes capable of fidelity,.. and thinks he's special enough to wait for.
After all, what do you want?
A woman who will wait, and makes you the one special person? Or a woman who f***s like Jenna Jameson, .. but has unfortunately, f**** as many as Jenna Jameson, and will probably continue to do so, long after shes said goodbye to you.
Be careful what you wish for guys, you may just get it.
TDD. xx | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/11/2009 3:20:00 PM | Piece of cake fellas .
You know you would wait if its the girl of your dreams .
Just imagine the wedding night how fantastic would would that be .
Already know what shes like as in personality looks (shes hot remember ) damm what a first time explosions electricity passion gazing your eyes upon her body im getting excited just thinking about her .
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh she has a****lol | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2009 8:17:02 PM | How will I know if I've met the right woman if I wait to have sex until marriage? If I'm wrong, it will be an expensive process removing that not-so-perfect woman from my life.
No thanks. Too much of a gamble and I don't like the odds.
As for the last question. I would kiss her goodnight and wish her all the best.
Best,
ACP | |
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| Nope... and other things AND intercourse are both sex... so,
Posted: 1/13/2009 10:50:15 PM | | Yes I could wait. I find it funny how both sides look down on eachother though. "No I cant wait and anyone who can is nuts." type thing and the other side "If you cant wait your just a slut, pig, whatever blah blah" To some sex is important to others, not so much. Neither side is right or wrong lol. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/14/2009 7:15:01 AM | Yah , guys who need to test drive probably don't think they are good in bed themselves and women who agree with test driving are lonley, easy, and probably disease carriers but suuure go ahead and rebel! Oh your sooo bad assss, actually I bet if half the "oh I can't wait, there ain't no chance in hell", people got tested they would turn of positive for std's some deadly! Did you know you can have hiv and have no symptoms until you suddenly start DYING! Seriously if a person is that desperate and lacks that much self control they have weak character and apperantly that's were all these broken families and disease are being created. Test driving is an exscuse and ultimatley seems like the male or female advocating for it don't think they have anything else to offer and, I know I have enough passion, affection, and am in shape to do what is natually intended. It's natural in humans that are succesful in life to be able to please one another in bed, life, relationships........so if you doubt yourself in any of these aspects than maybe you shouldn't be dating/using people as f-holes. Maybe you should find your own faults and weakness and if possible get rid of them. The well known facts are asians and indians, have smaller sized weenies, and there asian and indian women are made to accomidate. Same with caucasins they are madeto fit and black, so what's the big mystery. Can't a guy tell when a women doesn't have self resepct and has slept around sooooo much her vagina is loose to the point of not being able to work th eway it should. Maybe you guys should learn how to spot loose women so you don't have to degrade them and other females and create babies that suffer at your thoughtless actions. Maybe loose women should realize whne the parties over, if they feel like shiz it's because they allow it. And guys who LIE to women to try to make them feel insecure and give them sex should realize they are the ones that don't have the goods ....OTHERWISE THEY WOULDN'T BE SO DESPERATE AND WHINEY, haven't you ever stood in line, had to follow rules that you don't like, but they are for your safety? Of course sex is sooooo different it's scientific. I think scince is used as a tool again for desperate insecure beggers to get people to once more give in. If you realy have no self control that lines up with sex offenders, that's there "exscuse". Either be adults or get counceling, the U.S.A and world has enough problems with over population child sex abuse, broken families, suicide, and to think at can all start by being self centered and imaptient and of course insecure.........eat that! | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/14/2009 7:27:38 AM | Gosh yes!
Then I could be stuck w/ some judgemental prima donna who's convinced of the fact that people who don't share her frightened little girl world view are irresponsible baby-making idiots. It'd be even better if she was a green youngster who had zero clue of how the world works outside her cult of one. Give me a repressed Harridan anyday.......everybody knows that rigid, self-centered zealots make the best lovers!
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/18/2009 9:14:18 AM | I absolutely agree with you devils daughter!
I also want to ask the men who want to sleep with a woman after 2 or 3 dates or the first date " Would you guys advise your daughters , sisters or single mother to have sex with every man they go out with?
Having SEX without the feel of chemistry, connection of love etc. to me is like been a tart.
Now women who give themselves to a man for the sake of getting him hooked are nothing but tarts. Men who ask for sex on the first or second date are not going to make a good solid long term partner if they jump from one woman to another and they should be called male tarts.
Well guys if that is what you want SEX some other man wants the SEX from your daughters!
chic | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/19/2009 7:13:14 PM | Since I don't want to be married, NO. Can be faithful, but something about the day-in/day-out living together that makes the whole thing lose its sexual fizz (for me)...
Maybe, given "the right one" (i.e. a nice angel with a bit of a devilish whore in her), things could change...
"You can't do THAT with your WIFE!" -Charlie Sheen, on cheating on Denise Richards with prostitutes | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/19/2009 7:24:38 PM |
I'm not saying you can't do other things, but the actual intercourse...could you wait for it? -- why (exactly) would you want this? I don't know many companies/businesses that hire a person before running you through the vetting/interview process. To get your driver's license, you take a Written & Practical Driving Tests. Do you view sex a simply a means to pro-create, or are you interested in compatibility and mutual enjoyment? No offense, but there's not a snowballs chance in hell of me postponing the sexual compatibility test until after marriage.  | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 2/21/2009 4:55:46 AM | I think this depends on your religious and personal values. Most of us would not want to wait till marriage to have a sexual relationship, especially because you would be marrying someone without having complete information about who the person is. What would happen if you waited and then found out the person had a serious sexual problem which could not be resolved? Some people use this "wait until marriage" tactic to hide the fact that he/she has a serious sexual issue, while for some people, it's a religious value. What are your values? Find out your own values first and then select someone who fits your own values.
Judith | |
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