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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/11/2008 11:27:39 AM | You know, The more i read threads like this the more i know why people have such a hard time staying together. They marry for the wrong reasons and put the cart before the horse. They don't for the most part marry for love of the person anymore. They marry just because the sex is good not thinking about whether there the kind of person they can stay with for ever or not. Men and women marry and are happy as long as the sex is good and there is plenty of money. At least that is what it seems when i read these forums. Pitiful. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/11/2008 11:37:00 AM |
I personally think sex is important in a relationship (definitely not based on it) but like the saying try before ya buy like.. what if you marry them and their crap in the sack and i mean useless and there is no helping them... I don't know i personally wouldn't wait if my partner wanted to.. Sex is important and in a relationship where you love someone its a very intimate thing but if you wait for that intimate moment on your wedding night and its crap... then what a let down..
That's why you make sure you love each other before you marry. If the true real love is there' There is nothing that can't be worked out. When we put sex first and leave another just because the sex wasn't good at the time and there is no real love just primal lust, Then we are no better than a dog on the street taking turns humping some old slut dog in heat or some animal in the field. I think i am better than that.  | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/11/2008 11:37:32 AM | No, I would never wait until marriage. I won't even commit to a relationship until there is a physical relationship.
I would never buy a car without test driving it...........
That's a perfect analogy.
Relationships where there are drastically different sexual appetites are disasters!
Uh huh. Waiting till after marriage to find this out is moronic. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/17/2008 11:14:00 AM | I understand the OP's position based upon Hebrew and Christian values.
I mean with VD running so high everyone wants to meet up with that nightmare.
And of course all men want to doubt the fidelity of their bride by marrying a woman with questionable morality!
And of course we little gals want our man to be very sexually experienced with so many lovers that he dosen't even remember how many he has had! That way we will always feel secure knowing he will never stray with us because his prior lifestyle said what about his loyalty to his convictions????  | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/17/2008 12:03:36 PM | Sarcasm can be fun too ....^^^^^ just don't use it too much in your relationship.
it too often gets confused with reality.
I still say .... no ... because she would obviously not be the right girl/woman.
waiting for anything until marriage is just .._____ fill in the blank.
Marriage itself is way over-rated and bordering on obsolite.
Thinking love will make a marriage work is like thinking love will keep a business successful.
marriage is a contract and only works as long as its mutually benefitial.
Throughout most of history and in most cultures ... Love had nothing to do with marriage. It would develop over the course of a marriage but was rarely the basis of a marriage.... our society has fallen for romantic novels and movies and is living in a bubble of fantasy about marriage.... that's why so many fail.
Marriage for love is the wrong reason. [by most evidence] | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/17/2008 12:15:20 PM | I DID WAITED AND WAITED IT WAS HARD FOR BOTH OF US 7 MONTHS YA... NEVER ARUGED WITH HER TREATED HER WITH RESPECT...............
NO KIDS I WANTED SOME BUT SHE WAS THINKING SOMTING ELSE FOUND SOMEBODY AT WORK GOT HER WISH PREGNANT WHILE WE WERE MARRIED (SO MUCH FOR BEING MR. NICE GUY) | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/17/2008 1:57:03 PM |
No, I would never wait until marriage. I won't even commit to a relationship until there is a physical relationship.
I would never buy a car without test driving it...........
That's a perfect analogy.
It's analogy's like this that make women think that all men are dogs and not worth there time. It's a sorry state of affairs when people need a "test drive". I have lived 46 years and in that 46 years i have never met a woman who wants to be "test driven" They all for the most part want to be loved for who they are and what they are. Not for how good they put out. What ever happened to the days when we married just because we loved the other person? It's sad really. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/18/2008 10:40:53 AM |
It's analogy's like this that make women think that all men are dogs and not worth there time. It's a sorry state of affairs when people need a "test drive". I have lived 46 years and in that 46 years i have never met a woman who wants to be "test driven" They all for the most part want to be loved for who they are and what they are. Not for how good they put out. What ever happened to the days when we married just because we loved the other person? It's sad really.
While I am no proponent of wating for marriage, but, not for the reasons most men list..I have to agree with Eddie on this one..
I have to believe this fixation ( or fear) about the sex being bad comes from prior bad experiences..and , maybe even more so... by PC and feminism propaganda...especially the part about love being BS, and marriages obsolete...I know many good, long term marriages..with love, not contracts..and they can work anything out...guys...if the sex went bad in your prior relationships..I'm guessing you had more than a little bit to do with that..either you choose poorly, were blinded by lust or hotness factor...or...you contributed to her losing interest..
And really...if we go by what many men on here say....90% of women either hate sex, or suck at it...I find that hard to believe...plus, men are never sucky at it ?..lol..( and we won't even talk about where they are getting their standards...porn and media maybe?..where other men claim women get erroneous ideas about love?...the irony...teehee)In my experience it isn't that hard to show someone who cares about you, and you them, what would make us both happy....
EDIT: And all men are competing for that remaining 10% , of course..lol.. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/18/2008 2:55:19 PM | There is really no right answer for this. It's up to each individual to make the decision that is right for himself or herself.
For myself, I would want to see if I am sexually compatable with the person before I marry her. It is a total package deal. A really lousy (or lazy or infrequent) lover would make a marrage difficult & it could all be avoided by doing a little bit of damage control at the beginning. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/18/2008 4:41:13 PM | Of course you guys find willing females to fornicate with!
Don't you understand most of the children in USA are born from tramps?
I mean do you honestly think Jefferson as the father of three black familys who can trace their lineage back to dear Thomas was any moreh ethical than Stalin or any Bolseivick forefather?
But is this what you honestly want? | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/18/2008 4:47:18 PM | ^^ (two up)
Assertion with no statistical backup = flawed at best.
The Jefferson thing is something that historians have been arguing about for quite some time. The fact that he freed his children in his will is something. The fact that he paved the way for abolition by writing "all men are created equal" is something. To compare him to one of history's greatest mass murderers goes, I think, quit a bit beyond the realm of reason. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/18/2008 4:55:21 PM | | no, i would never wait. it would be an insult. besides what is a man to think if she inst dying to jump your bones. if she isn't sucking your****then you failed in your seduction efforts and its your fault not hers. she may say "not till marriage", but what she really means is no one has been found worthy to have this. So be worthy, be a f'ing man and just seduce her the way she wants to be seduced, she will tell you how. you just need to listen and take action. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/19/2008 12:58:58 PM | What about the WOMEN who want sex the first date and can't have a conversation with a man without sexual connotations?
Granted, it is just completely retarded to wait until marriage to have sex. Sexual compatibility is a huge component in a relationship, and believe it or not, some women aren't any good at sex. Either they don't do their Kegel exercises, or other problems. You could be wasting your time going out with someone who will never satisfy you in bed. Why would anyone do that to themselves, man or woman? Although I seem to attract women who are the opposite, I'd never date a woman who felt marriage was necessary prior to sex. The words I have to fully express myself in regard to how moronic the no sex before marriage outlook is cannot be typed here. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 11/19/2008 3:25:13 PM |
What about the WOMEN who want sex the first date and can't have a conversation with a man without sexual connotations?
That's simple
(1) Run, Never look back. If that's all she wants you don't need that anyway.
(2) Hit it one time, When your finished, run. Never look back. If that's all she wants you don't need that anyway.
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