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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 4/25/2012 7:51:49 PM | Archangel_07, justinfox1, camarogue,
Its nice to know there are some respectable men out there, I hope God puts someone extra sprecial in all your lives! =)
(for the rest of you that WILL critisize me, I mean they dont feel the need to put down the person for feeling this way. Everyone is entitled to their own opnion, and preferences, but we dont need to make fun of others its not high school) | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 5/31/2012 1:40:42 AM | Hmm.. interesting question.
If she's making me wait until this arbitrary milestone so we can consummate the relationship on our wedding night then she is NOT the right woman.
The right woman for me does not make her partner jump through hoops like that, she gets to know me and decides with me the right time for sex and that ain't when the ring is on the finger.
"Waiting for marriage before sex," isn't exactly the litmus test for being a good man.
My thoughts too. There are plenty who mistakenly view religion as the sole source of virtuosity. One doesn't necessarily have to follow any form of dogma to be a good person. There are also many who hide behind their religion whilst doing monstrous things.
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 5/31/2012 2:29:31 AM | | The tradition of showing the bloody bedsheets after a newly married couple has sex the first time to show the girl was a virgin is still very much alive and well in some parts of Africa and in several countries in the Islamic world (Afghanistan, Pakistan, some parts of Central Asia, Yemen, Saudi Arabia). In Muslim countries, this is mainly done in the lower classes, not the wealthy or the educated classes. Still, it is practiced by a lot of people. In some countries, the groom's mother will wait by the bedroom door and go in the get the sheet as soon as the couple finishes that first sex act! If she didn't bleed, she is seen as a whore and is often divorced immediately, and in some of these countries, her father and/or brothers will kill her for dishonoring the family. Many men actually hide a piece of raw meat in the bedroom to stain the sheet with if the bride doesn't bleed, because he wants the woman even if she doesn't bleed! Some men in nomadic societies have been known to cut themselves on the leg or upper arm (a place covered by clothes so no one knows he did it) to get some blood to smear on the blanket for the same reason. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 5/31/2012 9:09:25 AM |
Evolution is a bunch of bullshit!
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I was going to say something but I'm just shaking my head and being grateful I live in a much more progressive part of the world. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 5/31/2012 5:07:13 PM |
I would definitely wait if she were a virgin. Statistically, the more "partners" a woman has had the more likely a marriage is to end in divorce. Marriage is for virgin women. This has been known for thousands of years.
I hope you're talking about somebody older than 18, right?
There are plenty of backward tribal and not-so-tribal societies in the world today that force very young girls into marriage.
I could be wrong, but I'm guessing the reason a lot of marriages where the woman has had a variety of sexual partners prior to marrying end in divorce is because the ladies know what they are not prepared to put up with.
I would also venture to say a man who is specifically looking for a virgin to marry must have major issues with self-esteem in not wanting a woman who's been with another man, in case he doesn't compare favourably or 'fails to measure up!' lol.
Give me a worldly woman any day of the week and let us meet as equals. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 5/31/2012 7:07:12 PM | There are plenty of backward tribal and not-so-tribal societies in the world today that force very young girls into marriage.
I am referring specifically to the good old US of A.
I could be wrong, but I'm guessing the reason a lot of marriages where the woman has had a variety of sexual partners prior to marrying end in divorce is because the ladies know what they are not prepared to put up with.
By that logic, you would think that women that had more partners would have more successful marriages, having had more "experience". But that is not the case. In my opinion, there are a couple of major factors. First, a woman that has not given herself to another man is better able to bond with her husband. The fewer "relationships" she has had, the less "baggage" she will have. Second, a woman that waits for marriage (if by choice) is demonstrating that she takes marriage seriously. Traditionally, sex is a part of marriage, a bonding between husband and wife. It has been relegated to a cheap thrill by the media, something to be thrown about on a whim. A woman that does not share traditional values is necessarily less inclined to be successful in marriage.
I would also venture to say a man who is specifically looking for a virgin to marry must have major issues with self-esteem in not wanting a woman who's been with another man, in case he doesn't compare favorably or 'fails to measure up!' lol.
I certainly can't speak for all men. I am sure that there are plenty that are motivated by wanting a woman carrying as little baggage as possible, at least concerning marriage. The old sayings really are true: "Don't turn a whore into a house wife", etc. This avoids a lot of unnecessary drama and hang-ups. Also, many women (and men as well) have intimacy issues resulting from having multiple relationships. Speaking for myself, "I am an accountant, not a psychologist".
I am not saying that there is anything inherently wrong with women that choose to have sex outside of marrige. But there are real consequences, whether people choose to acknowledge them or not. If there are not going to be any kids involved, then it is not such a big deal whether the marriage lasts or not. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/7/2012 11:35:37 AM | "Could"?....There is no question about "could", it's "would". It's not like waiting til marriage to have sex is any difficult thing to do. It's not like men are a slave to their sex drive and just can't go without sex. It's just an optional activity, not a need or neccesity. ....Duh.
The question should also be directed towards the women. Women are so mis-informed in this topic.
I would be more inclined to make the statement, that "we are not having sex until we are married. I'm not asking you, I'm telling you."
It never ceases to amaze me at the attitude projected with the way this question is ALWAYS stated. Like women hold the authority of sex over the men. Not even close.
She will have to wait until I'm ready, not me wait for her. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/8/2012 2:43:07 AM | I could wait until marriage, maybe that makes me one of the few guys left out there. Maybe it's because I've gotten all the wild out of my system when I was younger. I know how to ummm... "take care of myself" when it comes to things like that. I'm no stranger to blasting off a set of knuckle children after work / class. If I found a girl I truly clicked with and we cared for each other, I'd have no problems waiting for sex...
Sort of a big question here, when you say you can "do other stuff" does that mean I can go down on her? If I can do that then I'm set, we'd never have to have sex. lol
To be honest, I sorta get the vibe from someone I am meeting tonight that things may lead in the direction of being physical. I'd really rather sorta wait a few more dates but I'll have to wait to cross that bridge when we come to it. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/8/2012 3:49:50 AM | No...the answer is no. Lord knows I am not a sex maniac...well I am not a sex maniac 24/7....well not a sex maniac 24 hours a day...welll...okay maybe I am a sexual compulsive.
No way am I going to wait until the honeymoon to determine if we are sexually compatible,,,if you aren't sexually compatible do you then just get divorced or find a mistress? | |
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