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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 12:42:18 PM | If the sex sucks, it wouldn't work period....being compatable is just that...how can ya enjoy each other if the sex sucks, and there's no intimacy???????? DUH!.....
that's like your grandparents at 70! why live like your grandparent at 70 years old now?????????? lol
I'd prefer to wait umm....let's say about another 60 yrs !  | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 12:54:36 PM | I know this question was aimed at guys, but I see girls answering it as if the shoe were on the other foot, so here goes...
Tough question...would I WANT to??? ...no
COULD I, if it was that important to the guy I was absolutely in love with?.... Yes,without a doubt, BUT...he'd better behave, and not count on ME to be the one to keep it in control!!
(I'm wondering if this would pertain to everything sexual? ...or just the actual intercourse?) | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 12:55:12 PM | Well yes, it would definitely suck if you married them and they were terrible! But that's something people can totally work on.......uh I think. I just think that if I met someone and they weren't against a different kind of action, but just no sex, that would be fine. You can still release tension on both sides and not have sex.
It's interesting to hear what you all have had to say though. Obviously sex is VERY important to you, and the feeling of love, trust, and respect aren't as important. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 12:59:44 PM | but keep in mind, sex isn't just the act of intercourse....it's the intimacy, the romance, the closeness all wrapped in one.....to me if you can do all the dirty deeds but intercourse, what's the point of holding out for the intercourse??? doesn't make sense...let's just let it build up and build up till ya kill each other lol intimacy and sex is suppose to "release" ...lol holding off just builds tention even more till ya burst.
And like somenoe said ealier, if you are into each other that much and in love, you are into each other with everything, not some things...
And like I said earlier, it depends on if you are 20 waiting till u get married or 33 waiting to get married....the 20 yr old may not wanna get married till she's 30, and the 30 yr old may want to in 6 months!! ok THEN it's feasable heheee but waiting 10+ yrs?? that to me is torture
you gonna run a marathon and stop 10 feet from the finish line? 
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Posted: 1/13/2006 1:06:54 PM | Well I would have the utmost respect for her that's for sure. In an age where most women are ho's now to find a woman that holds her morales dearly would catch my attention as a keeper.
On the other hand you don't buy a car that you don't test drive. Unless it's a Lamborghini or a car on that level you don't need to test drive it to know it's a car you really want bad, but how often does that happen? Yeah never
So I say it's good and healthy to wait a good while before having sex to see if both of you are 100% compatible. If you have sex way too soon then that only complicates the situation. Unless you're only looking for sex and not wanting to settle down then wait as long as you can.
Nothing is worse than getting married and then having sex to find out neither one of you are sexually compatible, talk about having a bad day. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 1:44:58 PM | Depends 100% on the reason.
I dated a religious girl for 3 years without any real sexual contact - and for her I obviously would have waited - of course that was 20 years ago so... in the end I think it depends on the real authentic reason and how much she means to me.
I think for the same girl, I would wait today - although Im with someone else now. | |
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Tinkle
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Joined: 12/14/2005
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 2:35:44 PM | I remember this very attractive Christian female telling me she does not put out before marriage. What the hell, I thought, she's beautiful, fun to be with, sings like Barbara Striesland,and makes me laugh.
For six months I never hit on her. We sang duets, watched movies, had discussions, drank Grand Marnier [her favourite drink] and became good friends. She was a stunning companion to accompany me to business functions and dinners. She was a delight to have around.
One evening, out of the blue, she grabbed me by the hand and drags me into my bedroom. I protested that she should wait until marriage as she tore my clothes off. I told her No means No. If I did to her what she did to me, I would be serving life for rape. But I loved it. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 4:15:23 PM | im just wondering "u both not vigins". yeah, the man is not virgins-->no doubt, but the girl. I mean, if she's not virgin anymore, what u hav to lose? at least u wont be shy anymore. it means u guys both experienced, both adults, so whats wrong? Of course, it must be the rite moment.
but if u-the girl is still virgin, & u want to wait till marriage, then u & I r in the same way. my advice KEEP IT!!! cuz how about the guy with u this time is not the rite one, & u gave him ur precious, then u guys apart. The rite one comes & u can not give him that gift that should have been his.
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 9:26:52 PM | @ -Aussie Buff-
Once you test drive the lay , do you decide if she's worth the money? Guys with that must test drive first attitude are what keeps them single for years and complaining they get turned down.
I'm interested to know what parameters she must meet to be a successful test drive? | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 9:30:12 PM | @ nipoleon
After one night or two, how can you determine if she couldn't learn? Do you know some women havent learned good sex because the guy she lived never explored sensuality with her? It was the same old thing and no variety. Maybe a woman who is lacking will want to learn. Why not be the teach and have fun with the student. | |
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popie
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Joined: 12/28/2005
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/15/2006 11:03:00 PM | | nope, wouldnt even act like it. now its one thing if shes a virgin, which u wont find anymore unless you're in junior, but its another thing if shes trying to prove a point to herself, or expect you to go through something she didnt make any other man go through. men have egos, and can u imagine how a man is supposed to feel knowing another man has been there, but he cant, aint happening. | |
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joesch
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Joined: 1/13/2006
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i really don't know. never been in that situation.
