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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 5/26/2006 9:38:36 PM | Not no but, HELL NO!!!! I wouldn't marry anyone that I did not actually live with for a whole year. The marriage would be a formality that we were both entitled to. Yes some guys see marriage as a totally positive experience.
What as gal says on the first date can not be taken at face value. She might say that she would never kiss on the first date, but you hit it off, that idea goes out the window. Who knows...a guy with the right game could entice a gal into doing all kinds of things on the first date. If you like her, by all means, stick around! | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 5/27/2006 1:37:08 PM | Whoa,
You people are brutal. This is called values and morals. She is waiting to give herself to you because of how much she loves and adores you. She is waiting until marriage because she also loves and needs to take care of herself.
Just because she does not allow your penis to enter her vagina does not mean she cannot demonstrate her sexual nature. She most certainly can be physical and loving and affectionate, even playful in many many ways that are fun and exciting but the sex act itself can be a very special beautiful expression that a woman wants to share with only her husband and it is because she believes you are that fantastic that she wants to wait. Such a woman is rare and beautiful and should be celebrated not ridiculed | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 5/27/2006 2:36:13 PM | Back when I was a virgin, I was the one saying I wanted to wait until marriage to have sex.
Then I hooked up with a nympho, and that was out the window.
Now I would just laugh. If she didn't laugh too, I would walk away.
It's not even about "testing the waters" as many have said. Its about willingness. If a woman wants to hold out until marriage for sex, who is to say she will even want it then, or ever again after that?
Forget it. Risk is too high. If I get married, I want her to know she is a freak so I am not left hanging. Then again there is always divorce... pretty word aint it? Nice and expensive waste of time too. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 5/28/2006 10:17:24 AM | It would depend on her reason for waiting. If it were for religious reasons I would be out the door. Faster than a set of rims at a Puff Daddy concert. If she wanted to wait until there was an emotional attachment sure as long as we were getting married in like a month. Annullments are great. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 5/28/2006 12:56:53 PM | The guys are lying....if they were in love with the woman who completes them then you can bet even if it was cold shower every day they would wait. This is called respect, a key ingredient in love.
Guys are macho of course they have to beat their chest and say they insist on sampling the goods blah, blah , blah as if having sex before marriage is some kind of entitlement it isn't. A woman yields based on her trust and sense of security and optimally the most assured time for this is after marriage vows have been said.
Besides there are fun and fanastic ways to get to know about each others sexual identities without compromising values and integrity. Text messaging sexy notes to one another can be a very steamy way to spend an evening hehehe 
Even though I was married for 15 years and the physical/intimate part of our relationship was good....now that I am separated I am not going to have sex with anyone until I get married again that distinct privilage is for my next husband only. I love to date, love to get dressed up and be in the company of a strong, confident sexy guy. Like to smell him and have him close enough to smell me. Like to have him rub my back, and really like an occasional kiss or two, but no sex. All my dates have been totally awesome, they are gentleman, never pressure me in fact they adore me and tell me how special I am.
If you saw a present on a table that was beautifully wrapped and you just couldn't take your eyes off of it..even if you wanted to open it you wouldn't until you were absolutely sure that it was yours to have. So if you haven't claimed her as your own...leave her bow intact! | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 5/29/2006 1:43:09 AM |
A lot of guys ARE horndogs who can't keep it in their pants. - mystriousnetrix
A useless observation when speaking specifically of other participants in this conversation. Some guys who "wait" do so because they are impotent, or lack the confidence, sexual desire or manliness to get busy.
Weee! Aren't useless generalizations fun?
If you can't wait till marriage, then doesn't that mean that you can't keep in in your pants? - mystriousnetrix
No, that's not what it means. Someone who can't keep it in his pants lacks self-control and maturity. What you fail to understand is that someone can make a mature decision NOT to wait, and yet possess self-control.
Oh by the way. You said before that there are women that are posting and agreeing with you. Well I am getting messages from women saying that they agree completely with me, so it doesn't seem like they are all on your side after all. - mystriousnetrix
Ah, but you see, the difference is: the women I'm talking about actually posted their thoughts in a public forum instead of mysteriously and anonymously sending their private thoughts to my unverifiable inbox. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 5/31/2006 8:45:43 PM | You bet I could. If that's what she wanted, I would.
For me, I have a six-month rule anyway. No sex before six months into the relationship and it doesn't have to happen at six months and one day either. lol
It just won't happen prior to the six month mark. Period.
There's too much drama, too many diseases, too much of myself that I value to just go screwing around.
I'm not highly religious either. It's just a decision I made. Nothing more, nothing less. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/2/2006 7:49:53 AM | | If it were the right woman and she said that she wanted to wait till marriage then that would be fine by me. I would be disapointed granted but I've lasted this long a little while longer wouldnt hurt. as long as she wasnt doing it with someone else. and too be honest the question could be reversed somewhat into GIRLS!!! Would you wait till after marriage for sex? given the right man or would you bow to his advances? | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/2/2006 9:33:43 AM | Sorry but I'm going to side with the NO crowd. Sex tells you alot about someone that you might not get from them in courtship. Also the thought that you'd end up with someone who is a cold fish or just doesn't have the same sex drive is a bit intimidating. Sex is a big part of a relationship to me because of the intimacy involved...now its not the most important aspect, but its up there.  | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/2/2006 9:47:49 AM | Been there, done that.... She was the right woman in every way.... except after nearly two years, I was still waiting for the sex. It turns out that her reason for waiting in the first place was that she feared sex with men, (due to an unfortunate experience with her father), and ended up developing an attraction for other females.
I would be more inclined to "wait" on the wedding until I found out if there was sexual compatibility and a sincere desire to share equally in that pleasure.
But then there's the issue of whether sex is marriage or signing a piece of paper is marriage. Are our bodies governed by the legalities of our traditions to oppress our free expression to choose marriage by way of physically joining? Say, isn't that what the word marriage means anyway? It's the same word used to identify the joining of the male sperm and the female egg. Marriage is a biological process, not a legal one.
Oh, and back to my story.... we didn't divorce- we merely printed a paper stating no physical union, ("marriage") had ever occured. Even the law recognizes marriage as intercourse, not just a wedding and two signatures. | |
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