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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/6/2006 3:16:14 PM | | and as an added note to some things that have been said..... i have a GF now and no we arent having sex.... infact im making her wait.... A) she is 3 years younger than me.... do the math B) thru past expiereances ...(ok i cant spell good but who gives a flying F&*$)... ive learnd not to get into that bit of a serious relationship untill you can handle the result of "i forgot to take my pill"..... and a phone call from her saying"honey im pregnant" .... luckaly for me my ex had LIED and i dumpd her ass the next week but stilll scared the living shit out of me at 17 | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/6/2006 11:43:42 PM | eeh... tough question... it would depend if i had plans to marry her...(but i'd still need to know what the sex is like) there is a such thing as sexual compatability. Its a bad time to find out on your wedding night that the sex isn't worth the wait, or that there are other sexual hangups that just kill the mood...if neither is a virgin then its a matter of choice, i'd question her about it. not trying to break her down but just to understand the decision. but if marrage wasn't on my mind after we'd been going out a few times then she'd end up on the friends list with a call ever so often to see how she's doing and whatnot...
Other things are nice n all but they don't do a thing for me if you get what i mean...i don't mind doing other things to her but my boys would be blue and thats no way to enjoy an evening... | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/7/2006 12:10:32 AM | From my experience in my failed marriage, I would say without a doubt it is important to find out if you are sexually compatible. I was 26 when I met my ex at 20, and was much more experienced (she was a virgin but had some peripheral experience). I was willing to wait for marriage because I was so in love with her, but didn't have to (and I didn't pressure her at all, it was mutual.) Though it was decent, she had a lot of inhibitions which we both thought would go away after marriage.
Well, long story short - they didn't, our sex life went to pot after the first couple years, and our marriage slowly deteriorated until we divorced after 10 years. It is true that sex isn't the most important part of a marriage, and it was other factors that led to the divorce - but great sex can make up for a lot of deficiencies, and in our case you might say we just got bored with each other. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/7/2006 1:27:44 AM |
So I'm interested in how many men would wait till marriage if they met the right woman? Even if you were both NOT virgins, do you think you could wait if that was her choice?
Yep, easy. Its never been an issue, as everyone I've dated seems ready to hop into bed long before I hit that stage. | |
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Heilig
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Joined: 4/11/2006
Msg: 934 | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/8/2006 9:49:00 AM | If I meet the right woman I won't have to wait for sex til I am married! hahahaha,... actually I think it would depend a lot on the person I met. I am not one to force myself on anyone and certainly there are many factors much more important to a successful relationship than just sex. But I think I would like to know that there was some physical compatability before marriage because I plan on being with that person for life. I am not into the ( if it does not go well we should just get a divorce ) ideology. I always try to make it work.
I have a friend who is just a friend. A close female friend. She is happily in a relationship right now and I wish her the best. She's a very nice, very attractive woman and I like her a great deal. In many ways we are great when we hang around with one another. But I never see her in a sexual way. Not because she isn't hot or sexy or cute, she is all of that. But because she is with someone in a working relationship and she is just a close friend. It's also a bit strange because I tend to at least see the sexual potential of many of the women I associate with in my day to day life. ( Not obsessively, but I think it's a typical guy thing ) The whole point here is, for someone like this person I would easily be able to wait. But there are some others with different dynamics to them, I don't think that I would feel the same about some of those people. Each person and how you are drawn to them etc is different. This is a strangely tough question I guess. Hahaha,... Hopefully everyone will approach that one with caution at best. Take care folks!
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exxess
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Joined: 1/31/2006
Msg: 937 | |
| I'd wait
Posted: 6/10/2006 9:51:46 PM | | If the marriage came the next day that woudl be the extent of it. | |
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Posted: 6/11/2006 1:27:43 PM | Hmmm, but there is so much to be said for compatability in this respect...that could effect long term results.
You know, if you are gonna place all your money on one horse, don'tcha wanna be d@mn sure it's a winner?
I know I would.
So waiting ....yes for sure.
How long, depends on the couple.
Meh, not everything needs to lead to a walk down the asile with a bouquet. | |
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bingus
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Joined: 2/1/2006
Msg: 939 | |
| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/11/2006 1:37:52 PM | kudos to both of you on that one. I don't consider myself Christian either, but, finally, there are a few intelligent people out there that do.
It would be really tough for me to wait. I would have to be absolutely convinced that she was IT. I'm speaking from past experiences of course. This girl and I were dating, and we mutually agreed to wait, figuring we had all the time in the world for it later, and it would just **** things up if we did the deed too soon. I can't help but feel that if we'd gone ahead, things would have worked out much differently. There are plenty that I regret having slept with, but I really regret not sleeping with this one... This was quite some time ago, and I still find myself thinking about it a bit too much. | |
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bingus
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Joined: 2/1/2006
Msg: 940 | |
| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/11/2006 1:39:26 PM | *Add me to the list of women who don’t buy it.
Where is the list, I'd like to sign my name as well.
I will never make apologies to anyone ever again for being a sexual being and having a high libido. I will never again be with someone that doesn’t think sex is extremely important. I will never, ever be made to feel bad for expressing my God given sexuality. Yeah, that’s right boys and girls. Some of us are Christian and we don’t view sex as immoral, evil, disgusting or wrong outside of marriage. In fact, there’s a lot more of us out there than you think.
Amen sister agree 100%! Ermm.... except I'm not Christian...not that there is anything wrong with that! In fact I say all the power to you as a Christian to challenge the notion.
I do not judge those who make the choice for themselves to wait(although I think Molonel has made extremely rational arguments against it)...I too would appreciate not being judged for the choices I make for myself.*
(that's what I was giving kudos for...where's the 'quote' button on this forum??) | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/11/2006 3:19:58 PM | hell no i would not wait____ you have to try before you bye!!!!
they dont give refunds for wifes/husbands that are duds in the sack!!
i think sexual chemistry is VERY important.. you might be into each other in every other way but if you dont also "click" in the bedroom it could ruien the whole thing...
and then you have already paid for the wedding BUMMER!! | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/12/2006 3:02:24 AM | The guys are lying....if they were in love with the woman who completes them then you can bet even if it was cold shower every day they would wait. This is called respect, a key ingredient in love.
Guys are macho of course they have to beat their chest and say they insist on sampling the goods blah, blah , blah as if having sex before marriage is some kind of entitlement it isn't. A woman yields based on her trust and sense of security and optimally the most assured time for this is after marriage vows have been said.
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Oh my god Cybercher! What kid of hipocrite are you?
You talk about respect for women in your first paragraph. And then you display nothing but contempt for guys in the second.
I wouldn't wait for either sex or marriage with you, because I simply wouldn't come near anybody with this attitude to guys. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/12/2006 3:24:28 AM | People in this country are over sexed . There seems to be a thin line of obsession for sex with men.
People, men AND women, are generally more obsessed with sex when they either aren't getting any, or are getting it sporadically and with inferior quality. This ties in with the "no sex before marriage'' scenario. I've seen a bushel full of films, mostly foreign comedies, that deal with the sad-sack men and women who wait (patiently on the outside; impatiently on the inside-- in other words, hypocritically) .... and wait .... and wait .... only to have their partner either fuck somebody else with more cojones, receive dull and uninspired sex as a duty after marriage, or who end up, themselves, cheating on their fiances before the big wedding day.
When you're getting frequent, mind-blowing sex, it frees up that energy towards other pursuits outside the bedroom. Obsession, in this case, usually happens IN the bedroom. That's a good obsession, to me. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/12/2006 7:27:20 PM | Sex Is On My Mind
by N/A
Ooh, ooh la la, la la, ooh la la la
Sex is on my mind.
(chorus)
Sex is on my mind.
(I wanna love you down if you let me)
Sex is on my mind.
(I wanna be the one that you sexin')
Sex is on my mind.
(I wanna love you down if you let me)
Sex is on my mind
(I wanna be the one that you sexin')
(verse 1)
I know she heard it on the phone,
but she was to fly for me,you know
I knew that this time I would have to come real
so she could know exactly how I feel, eel.
And I wanted her to be with me,
kissing her lips is all my mind would think
Just when I dont know and I can not wait
to lick that booty(booty). yeah.
(chorus)
(verse 2)
I finally got her all alone
I spit so hard I saw it right through her clothes
Then I licked my lips cause I knew today,
that I would finally get my way, yeahh.
And this is like a freaky dream,
I livin' out all of, all these fantasies
She was a freak that would do many things,
just to hear me scream
(bridge 2x's)
Girl you know you got me goin' crazy.
(got me goin crazy baby)
Cause in my mind itz sayin'ba-by.
Cause you know you got me goin' crazy...all the time.
(chorus)
Sex is on my mind
(sex is on my, sex is on my mind, on my mind)
Sex is on my mind
(I dont have a mind, I dont have a mind...from you ba-by)
Sex is on my mind
(oooh oooh oooh, ooh)
Sex is on my mind
(I dont have a mind, I dont have a mind)
I wanna be the one that you sexin' ba-by
la la la la la la
Insane me baby
la la la la la la
Goin crazy...all the time. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/12/2006 7:36:17 PM | At this juncture in my life,first date sex is out.Little too wise for such maneuvers and I really care about my health and welfare to put myself in such a perilous position without checking the personality out first.Once checked out and she's stable,I think that holding off on intercourse is a bit tough and just a tad draconian for my tastes.Intimacy is super important and I need to know how she relates to me before I invest the ranch in her,metaphorically speaking.
To each his/her own,but I need the whole enchilada in order to complete the picture of what I'm likely to invest quite a bit of time and effort into.Make sense?
Does for me.
Peace. | |
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DJ102
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Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 947 | |
| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/12/2006 8:07:13 PM | | Hell yea i could I am 21 and still a virgin and damn proud of it to. It is way to risky to have sex with all of the stds out in the world today. You never know what you can get and be stuck with it for the rest of your life. I want to experience sex, but the way God intended it to be. In the confinds of marage. It is tough being a vergin at times because some people make fun of and laugh at you because you are a virgin, but you then can turn around and laugh at them when they get an std. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/12/2006 8:37:29 PM |
but you then can turn around and laugh at them when they get an std.
Well, THAT'S certainly a charitable Christian response to suffering.
Sex as a risk? Sure. But we're all dying of something. I'll repeat an earlier maxim: "the most dangerous thing in the world is to think you have time to play it safe."
More die of frustrated, stunted growth than of wild adventure. Not that sex before marriage has to involve recklessness. | |
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ponie
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Joined: 1/25/2006
Msg: 949 | |
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