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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/12/2006 8:52:55 PM | Nope. I could wait a while in a relationship (months even), and would even prefer to not get into that right away, but not until marriage. The decision to get married wouldn't happen until after full compatibility had been tested.
It's not the most important thing, but it's up there. | |
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vxzen
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Joined: 3/26/2006
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/12/2006 9:51:58 PM | There is a right time for everything...Sex, is one of them. It has to be mutual. And, if your both praticing SAFE SEX, then you should both get tested for any sexually transmitted bugs.
You do not want any unplanned children. And, yo should wait until you know for a fact that each of you are safe, and have been tested. I only read the first page, so I do not know if anyone has brought this up, but someone should. Better safe than sorry. Have no regrets.
That would be of the upmost importance, to know this before you have Sex or Marry anyone. What if the person has AIDS, or HERPIES??? Would you want to wait a year before you found this out? Not me.
If I am strongly attracted to someone. I could not wait a year. I would recomment finding out what is going on between the two of you, first. So, neither one of you are walking into a serious relationship, with blinders on. If you LOVE a person, you should give each other a choice to take the blinders off and see what your are walking into. Does this person want to obstain from sex, due to Religious reasons? Or, is it some Dream, of this being the right way to do it? Or, is this person trying to hide something from you? Or, perhaps that person is not really interested in you. And, they are after your money or something else. And, it will not change much if they do not have feelings for you now, they may never have feelings for you? Were they mulested or raped in the past? What is causing the hang up? Tell them the truth!
I would say! Honesty is always the BEST policy. Right...
End of story. There are good and bad things either way. Then there is things like size, and fit. Like buying a dress that is too tight or too loose, Or, the legs are too long or too short in your slacks. Wow...the right fit mean, a lot. Good Luck.     | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/15/2006 6:51:57 PM | | Yes. While I'm not going to discount it if she wants it earlier, she would have to convince beyond a reasonable doubt that she's staying for good. And even if we married, and she said she wants on the first date after, I'm sure by that time, we'd be in a pretty good position to leave the reasonable doubt out. For one thing I don't want to marry someone who would leave me a reasonable doubt. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/15/2006 7:40:35 PM | | ^^^^^That was how I was raised. To wait until marriage to loose your virginity. Of course I have not lost my virginity yet, just because of some serious issues that I have...long story. As for the ops question, yes I could easily wait for marriage for the sex. Looks like finding a girl friend first is much tougher than I thought it would be. Because I have not had a girl friend yet, or a first kiss yet or my first date yet. No thanks to "social anxiety" which I am seeking help from a psychologist and psychiatrist again, and this time I believe it is helping thanks to a drug called Celexa. With a bit of luck, and the right lady I hopefully won't be a "Forty year old Virgin".... UHG! | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/15/2006 8:38:34 PM |
The point is, it's against the Bible. It's fortification.
So is wearing clothes made out of more than one kind of fabric. Worn any cotton blends lately?
Many religions also believe dancing is ungodly. I'm fairly certain that you don't think that way seeing as you have dancing listed as an interest on your profile.
Not everyone subscribes to your belief system. Heck, I'm a Christian and I sure don't.
Good for you! I guess there is one man out there with some sense.
So basically you're saying that men that believe that having sex outside of marriage have no sense. Wow, condescending much?
You are divorced. A lot of religions believe that once married is always married and there are no acceptable grounds for divorce. In their eyes you are an adulterer.
Kinda sucks to be judged, doesn't it? | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/15/2006 10:03:01 PM | | YES OF COURSE! the right woman is eveything what are our priorties? If its right, the value of a good woman out weighs any personal inconvience. Its like any choices in life is the "sacrifice" worth the reward. I have met a man worth 250 mil he speaks to employes about the value of his wife and why thats all that matters to make sucess worth it. Lets face it guys if it wasn't for our desire to impress women we would do very little to maintain ourselfs and die off. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/15/2006 10:05:11 PM | Yes, after previous relationships. Gone wrong, I can say that sex complcates things that could be so much more enjoyable Until Marriage or trying for a Child. I can't say that the urge wouldn't be there. Because it would. ForePlay. Is better anyway. U know there are ways to have a sensual relationships without sex. Like massage,kissing,nibbling,cuddling. Points of the body that can cause an almost instantaneous Orgasm. just by kissing a part of the neck or plslowly carressing her hand. Sorry I am getting to deep.
Yeah it's possible.
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Posted: 6/16/2006 11:04:52 AM | Yes, I would wait, whats another 2-3 days?
Anyways, its not about the sex, its about the connection! If you have found the one, its worth any amount of time.
(waitingline) next please. | |
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dr_who
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Joined: 6/8/2006
Msg: 966 | |
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RuMoR
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Joined: 5/31/2006
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/16/2006 11:23:28 PM | I think if I met someone that I could see myself marrying, of course I could. In fact, I have asked that of my Ex, She laughed and asked me if that's what I wanted to do. I've asked it of other women friends already, some mixed responses. Some say yes, but then get that funny look, wondering just how serious I am about it. To be honest, I am starting to wonder if I am not going to do next time. I mean afterall, sex is over-rated anyway. I want to settle down and get married eventually. I suppose that would quickly sort out who's serious about it. Could be a long lonely wait though, but.. I have to say, I think it would definetly be worth it. Like I have said in some other threads, Love making beats amazing meaningless sex hands down. It's completely more intimate. There's just a higher level of satisfaction making love to someone you truly care about compared to having sex with someone you simply like.
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/17/2006 1:17:50 AM | What if she is not good in bed? has hangups won't give head, swallow, or lick balls?
OMG this is such a "GUY" thing to say...lol guys are so one minded...
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Actually Zen it isn't
"Guy thing" is simply the lastest excuse to go man bashing.
And it isn't a guy thing at all. If you would use your ears round your girlfriends they are continually griping about men who are "lousy lovers". It's actually a girl thing. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/17/2006 1:21:44 AM | Gentlemen!
Before another female preaches STDs to you let me remind you of one thing.
Marriage is actually twice as risky as contracting STD. I kid you not. Half the marriages fail and an ex husband, suffereing post divorce trauma is twice as likely to die by suicide as by STDs.
So forget the STDs gentemen. There is such a thing as safe sex. There is no such thing as a safe marriage or safe divorce. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/21/2006 7:13:21 PM | I think that the whole if you both wernt virgins thing why wait and what is she waiting for is kinda rude...i mean if you were married before and it just didnt work out of course your not going to be a virgin..or what if you were the kind of person that has changed over the last few years...example found god and had newly found religious confictions about the whole subject....so the whole well if ya aint a virgin whats the big deal thing is so narrow minded....
Now having said that i think to that this whole test driving a car thing is just laughs worthy lord all mighty im sure women in general love being compared to a car...sheesh....I would think that even the simplest of idiots on the planet would know if they are at least somewhat compatiable without sealing the deal for heavens sake...
Me i was married 16 years...didnt wait till i was married.....sex was great before and after.....but everything else sucked...so now im getting a divorce cause sex just isnt enough to hold it together...would i wait now......or demand that the person i was with wait well thats a whole other issue.....being someone who holds thier morals in high accord and believes in god well i dont know....i would like to think that i would wait until i was married but .......lets face it once youve had chocolate no matter how many diets ya go on you still want chocolate especially if its goooooood chocolate....if anyone out there has ideas how to avoid having sex with someone you love find attractive and melt when they kiss you please by all means let me know how the hell ya do it lol... | |
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