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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/22/2006 2:53:22 PM | | I believe sex is one of the most important aspects of a relationship. Up there with trust and communication. Gothygeek is my favorite person right now. Anywayz, I dont know about the rest of the guys here but I wouldnt know if she was the right woman without having sex with her. But maybe thats just me. | |
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sally0
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Joined: 4/28/2006
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/22/2006 7:11:51 PM | I am 37, never been truly intimate with a woman so I would wait if she loved me and once we were married would be sexual with one another. I can't wait to have sex, but will wait, as what's another few years added to 37. I am extrmely obese, and am only attracted to thin/slim women, so it is a compromise I am willing to make. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/22/2006 7:28:04 PM | | yes becuse the ones who give it up early probably are not that serious any ways i could be wrong like one night stands they go into it not expecting nothing out of it i had one i want more from her than sex. sex is one of those things that can bring you closer to some one and could also ruin a relationship it just depends but if you both wait it will be more fufilling and meaningfull and i think if you wait i think you will have a better emotional connection | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/23/2006 7:36:13 AM |
I believe sex is one of the most important aspects of a relationship. Up there with trust and communication. Gothygeek is my favorite person right now.
Aww, shucks. You flatter me, killuminautica. Danke!
You know; I don't really care if someone wants to wait. I think everyone should do what is right for him or her and no one should violate his or her own belief system. I have no right to judge someone else’s choice nor would I. It doesn’t make me think less or more of them.
I just cannot stand it when other people try to impose their belief system on others. My sex life is no ones business but mine and my relationship with God is no one’s concern but mine. | |
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CMS72
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Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 988 | |
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ayanah
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Joined: 6/22/2006
Msg: 990 | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/24/2006 11:49:19 PM |
lmao ok.. this is interesting........most of the guys here are saying they wouldn't wait..i wonder if any of them have advised their daughters to wait till theyre married *grin* luv it. - ayanah
Believe it or not, many men realize that their daughters are going to ... *gasp* ... have sex someday with someone they care about. Like any parent, most men simply hope it will happen with someone who loves them and cares for them back. If not, hopefully that person won't hurt them too bad, and they will pick themselves up and learn from it.
Parents often hope that their children will experience the best of all possible worlds in every regard, and not just sex.
That goes for mothers AND fathers.
And since you're too lazy to actually READ any part of this thread before providing your snarky commentary, a lot of women, many of them mothers, have also said hell no. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/24/2006 11:50:59 PM |
I hate that whole "test" drive saying as if human beings were machines built to be toyed with. Wait until marriage. True love is patient and not selfish. - Oscar15
Maybe if you'd done a few more test drives before you got married, you wouldn't be here trying to cheat on your wife:
I'm not into any games...so not being honest and blunt upfront sends me right out the door. I'm searching for some one to either hang out for an occasional lunch date and/or quiet meeting. All in all, let's start with just lunch first. - The Profile of Oscar15 (married) | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 6/25/2006 3:05:03 AM | | Ok to start off , Marriage roots from Religion. I do not know if I believe in religion yet. Second. Foreplay such as oral sex, masturbating eachother, and fetish play r in the same league as intercourse as far as supposed morals go. If anything u should be waiting to do anything til marriage. Then your theory of relationships would make sense! Now if I was on a date with a woman that wanted to wait for marriage, I don't know what I would do. I do know that NATURALLY , I am going to want to have sex with her eventually if I like her and continue to date her! My theory is once I or her asks the other to be their partner in a relationship, is the time sex is ok. Prior to that, I think just some kissing and non-sexual affection should be used. The slower and less frequent that u eat the " food ", the better it is going to taste and make u feel! Hope my words were helpful to anyone. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 7/5/2006 8:23:39 PM | Well believe it or not, that is exactly what my plan is. I don't want to have sex unless I am married to her. Yes, there is my personal religious reasons, but also the the problems with STDs and unplanned pregnancies (no such thing as safe sex, the only truely safe method is abstinance). There are many other ways to enjoy the physical intimacy of your partner besides sex.
And if she told me that she was waiting for marriage before she had sex, I would be happy knowing that it takes the pressure off and I would tell her that and my personal beliefs on the subject.
And from reading other posts on this site it is refreshing to see that there are in fact women out there who are in my age bracket/range who are still virgins and waiting to be married before having sex. I was starting to get worried that there were no more left, seeing as I haven't met any that I know of in the last few years.
And to all you who think a 23 year old male virgin is weird, what do I care what you think of me? I have made my choice, I am happy with it, and that is all I care. It's not like I haven't turned down oportunities to have sex in the past and not like I won't turn it up in the future unless there is a marriage between her and I in place. And if that means I die a virgin, so be it. So don't pity me or call me gay. I am an idividual with free will, and happy to not always go along with the crowd. I choose not to bow to peer pressure, on more subjects than this. And you to are free to make your own choices in life and I respect that as well as your decisions and won't judge you for them, even if I don't agree with them.
Although, I am looking forward to my wedding night (whenever that is)...   | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 7/6/2006 2:17:34 AM | I really dont see what the problem is with waiting. You say you Love someone ~Love encompases so much more than sex.
I find it crass to say you want a *test drive * first, like a woman is some kind of machinary with no feelings whatseoever
What if you *test drove* her as you put it, find out she's great in bed , then you marry her and she has a rotten personality. Truth is if you really honestly loved her TRULY Loved her then you would wait, if thats what she wants.Whats the problem of waiting ....if you get to be with the woman of your dreams forever | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 7/6/2006 3:41:53 AM | ~Love encompases so much more than sex.
you are correct. love does encompass much more than sex. however, sex is still included under the "love" category for many people.
What if you *test drove* her as you put it, find out she's great in bed , then you marry her and she has a rotten personality.
then that person would be an idiot for marrying someone just for good sex. what about the opposite? what if you "love" someone and you wait till you are married to have sex and the sex is horrible? what then? sometimes ppl just arent sexually compatible. the sunday night sex show cant fix everything!
Truth is if you really honestly loved her TRULY Loved her then you would wait, if thats what she wants.
the truth is, if SHE really loved HIM, then she would give him what he wants. i know that sounds ridiculous, but so does your argument.
the bottom line is that the premise of this topic is wrong. i claim that you cannot really love someone until you have the sexual intimacy established. the sexual component of love is just as important as the emotional component of love. the only way to rationalize waiting until marriage for sex is to envoke the religious argument, and some would argue that even the religious argument is invalid, but that is for another forum! | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 7/6/2006 4:04:57 AM | I wouldn't want to say "no way"--but it's very unlikely.
I'd have to be as sure as possible we were compatible in every other way, and that her desire to wait for marriage before intercourse was not the result of some psychological problem she had. And I doubt it would be possible to establish that beforehand.
I'd probably have to pass on that. I wouldn't necessarily ditch her on the first date if she said she was waiting until marriage for sex, but if I became convinced she really meant it, I would very likely get rid of her.
Sorry, but life's too short for long, platonic engagements with uncertain outcomes. If I want platonic female love, I'll go see one of my friends. | |
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