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RUSSII
| | Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 101 | |
| | GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?Page 5 of 152 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41) | | Sex is far too important a subject to just talk about and then believe everything will work out in the end! Personally, I feel it is best to have sex early on in the relationship before developing any strong feelings toward your partner. What happens if you both love each other and find out later that you're just not on the same wavelength when it comes to sex? Then you'll both be mixed up emotionally and will either feel the pain in breaking up or else go ahead with a marriage which should never be in the first place. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/18/2006 11:05:22 AM | Me and my husband did and I believe that that made a difference on why we are now married as opposed to "just dating" like a lot of you guys.
You're 25, dear. You haven't earned the right to be c*cky about it, yet. Come back and brag about it in 10 years. Plenty of us walked a lot farther down the road you're on than you have, and that's part of the reason we say, "Never again." | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/18/2006 11:12:14 AM | | I find sex to be an important part in a relationship...But, i think many guys think that physical compatibility is more important than emotional compatibility. I could def. wait 2 have sex with a woman till marriage... If i was told on the first date and the girl told me she was waiting till marriage she would only intrest me more (Girl doesn't sleep around, u don't have 2 marry her with a shot of penicillin!)... | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/18/2006 11:20:28 AM | | I don't think I could wait until marriage...I guess it all depends on the level of love we had for each other. I don't sleep around though. I don't get the level of sexual satisfaction that I like, unless I'm with someone that I have great feelings for. I guess I could wait for a while, but tell me....Who can go a long time without sex? | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/18/2006 11:23:00 AM | | I waited until I was 24 before I lost my virginity. I wanted my first to be someone I cared for. Maybe it's corny, but I like to know that I'm with someone I want to be with other than just sexually. Sex should only be the icing on an already delicious cake. I like the icing and don't need the cake under it, but I can wait for my cake before I get the icing. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/18/2006 11:51:06 AM | my definition of a long time...I think that it's safe to say that within 6 months of a relationship, you should know if you love someone or not. If you love them, you should be able to enjoy pre-marital sex together. If you love someone so much that the quality of sex in the future won't matter, than a long time can't really be defined.
A long time for me would be 6 months. But I've done crazier things and just might wait, without issues, a lot longer.
The key to a successful relationship is the level of stimulation you share with someone intellectually and sexually. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/18/2006 11:57:40 AM | | The right woman is going to be smart and jump my bones before investing her future on manhood of as yet undetermined substance. Any woman that makes me wait but has already indeed become a woman makes me wonder how much of the actual man within me is of interest to her. Take it slow, but I can't believe that in this day and age we would make a lifetime comittment without knowing the potential satisfaction of a haealty portion of the relationship and life to come. I will not wind up in a loveless marriage. I've got to believe that, and I've got to do everything I can to prevent it from happening. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/18/2006 12:03:46 PM | Great Question...
The answer is NO Way, Never Again.
I made this mistake, and thats why I'm here now. I respected her wishes and waited because I thought that it was the right thing to do for my wife. See, if she's not into sex before you get married, then it's likely that she wont be after either. And then your STUCK. I married a wonderful woman, but she has no interest in sex of any kind. She never did, and she never will.
Now, with that said, if your wife to be wants to hold off for the month before the wedding, then DO IT. It would make the wedding night really hot, and thats pretty cool.
just my 2 cents. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/18/2006 12:07:19 PM | Yeah, I know this question is directed at the guys but....
No way in Hades would I wait. It is possible to love someone and have horrible sex with them. Sometimes it just. isn't. there.
Sexual compatibility ranks in my top 3 most important things in a relationship. I KNOW what bad sex is like with someone you love. Never, ever again.
You're 25, dear. You haven't earned the right to be c*cky about it, yet. Come back and brag about it in 10 years. Plenty of us walked a lot farther down the road you're on than you have, and that's part of the reason we say, "Never again."
I have a feeling that life may knock some of the "c*cky" out of her. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/18/2006 12:39:35 PM | Frankly a woman that would want that wouldnt be right for me. Furthermore it begs the question (at least in my mind) why would a woman (especially if she where not a virgin) want that? I Really would be interested to know the thinking behind it.
And my response isnt about the sex or getting laid thing but rather what kind of pathology/mind would even consider such a pedantic exercise or worse impose it on a loved one? If its silly religious thing, I would gently suggest you take a serious look at tantric sex and some of the other beliefs etc that correctly recognize sex is (not the only one ) a way to connect with the divine. | |
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Tinkle
| | Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 114 | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/18/2006 1:17:31 PM | Earlier I had said that " it would depends on how long the courtship is?
and if someone wanted to go out 3 years and be engaged for 2 years"
My answer was --- NO WAY,,,,
the terrible anology was ""would you buy a car without taking it on a test drive ????""
seems I see a variation of this on many replies here from both men and woman.
and,,, I looks like most want to see if they are sexually compatible, do they fit???
I think that all adults would have the same question,
what if after your MARRIED your wife says she does not desire sex for pleasure
or only once a month or in very limited ways,,,
at what point do sexual acts "" others things"" as the poster put it cross the line?
is Anal entry -- sex
I guess the country is mixed with oral sex
Remember , Clinton said "he did not have sex with that woman"
IS oral sex -- sex before marriage??
I would stick around depending on the situation.
that being said it is important that sexual compatibility and apetite DO exsists
Ok we can talk about it - in that case I guess Oral sex is safe ! | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/18/2006 7:20:18 PM |
I waited until I was 24 before I lost my virginity. I wanted my first to be someone I cared for. Maybe it's corny, but I like to know that I'm with someone I want to be with other than just sexually. Sex should only be the icing on an already delicious cake. I like the icing and don't need the cake under it, but I can wait for my cake before I get the icing.
My point exactly. | |
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ya472
| | Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 119 | |
| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/19/2006 9:05:34 AM | ..
Like my mother always said "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"
I'm waiting for marriage, for moral reasons.
Bullsh*t !
The only reason your waiting, is because either you haven't had the opportunity or the interest.
AND, if you had the interest, you would have made the opportunity.
BUT, there are men out there who do not have sexual interest. Lack of interest comes from fear, usually the result of a past sexual trauma.
(Just my opinion)
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/19/2006 12:34:48 PM | ya472
Bullsh*t ! I think the poster expressed their opinion as you have yours. So does your opinion constitute Bullsh*t. If you dont agree, fine I can respect that. But that poster has their opinion and thier position on this is equally respected.
Now , I disagree with your comment as opportunity does not determine a pesons desire to live by a certain moral standard set out by themselves. As for interest! The poster has already given their position on this. Thus interest is defined.
Of course.. JMO.. ( Just My Opinion )  | |
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stevn
| | Joined: 12/22/2005
Msg: 122 | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/19/2006 1:05:52 PM | You couldn't be more wrong ya472
I myself am waiting for marriage because I believe that sexual purity is important (and as a Christian it is commanded of me.)
I do not agree with premaritual sex. That being said, I definitely have the interest, but I also have something called self control and discretion.
I appreciate your oppinion.
I-S | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/19/2006 1:09:08 PM | Earlier I had said that " it would depends on how long the courtship is?
and if someone wanted to go out 3 years and be engaged for 2 years"
My answer was --- NO WAY,,,,
the terrible anology was ""would you buy a car without taking it on a test drive ????""
seems I see a variation of this on many replies here from both men and woman.
and,,, I looks like most want to see if they are sexually compatible, do they fit???
I think that all adults would have the same question,
what if after your MARRIED your wife says she does not desire sex for pleasure
or only once a month or in very limited ways,,,
at what point do sexual acts "" others things"" as the poster put it cross the line?
is Anal entry -- sex
I guess the country is mixed with oral sex
Remember , Clinton said "he did not have sex with that woman"
IS oral sex -- sex before marriage??
I would stick around depending on the situation.
that being said it is important that sexual compatibility and apetite DO exsists
Ok we can talk about it - in that case I guess Oral sex is safe !
I would think that unless one of you is a virgin...(Not at MY age, but maybe for some of you), that all this would be discussed..and honestly before marriage. There should be no holds barred in this conversation, because sex is a VERY IMPORTANT part of a relationship. | |
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