online dating service
REGISTER | MAIL/PROFILE | HELP | NOW ONLINE | SEARCH | RATING | FORUMS | SUCCESS STORIES

 

Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest 100% free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Over 30  > I got "massaged" today      Mod Threads Home login  
Page 2 of 4 1, 2, 3, 4
 Author Thread: I got "massaged" today
 Shangrilah

Joined: 12/2/2005
Msg: 26
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 11:03:34 PM
I like a nice gentle massage. I wouldn't feel comfortable going to a man, I prefer getting massaged by women.

My neighbor used to give me massages, then she started getting too rough so I stopped going.
 Pgooperman

Joined: 8/10/2005
Msg: 27
view profile
History
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/16/2006 12:36:36 AM
My fantasy for a dream date would be side-by-side his and her massages with a bit of wine or an eye opener on a warm sunny morning along with good music. I get the guy therapist, and he gets the gal therapist. Now to me, that's sensual.

Now all I need is the partner to do it with. Dang!

Petunia G.
 Shaps

Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 28
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/16/2006 1:00:35 AM
Gray if you wanted ther dark side then you should of put it in the sex area lol
 masseurr

Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 29
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/16/2006 7:33:48 AM
Graykisses...

.... you only prove that you are human and with a craving for sensual touch. I say enjoy the moment, fantasize, embellish or whatever you wish.

Perhaps next time you could check out an erotic massage service for ladies and experience a new dimension ... erotic touch massage. I may not have RMT training; however, I have a number of regular female clients who seek an intimate massage without it going any further than that. Similar to yourself they started off with a theraputic style massage but needed more provocative touch in conjunction with a relaxation technique.
 CuddleFreak

Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 30
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/17/2006 3:44:26 PM
MASSAGES ARE SEXUAL in the right circumstances. I've given full body massages to many women, friends and partners. I've done them in a non-sexual manner and a sexual manner. If the person giving the massage has no feeling then their massages are just going to be plain..simple as that
 kitsguy4u

Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 31
view profile
History
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/17/2006 4:02:06 PM
I half expected this to be posted by some guy that went to a massage parlor. Not a massage therapist.

Massage can be sensual. Often part of foreplay so thats where the turning on comes in to it. Giving a woman a good massage will often yeild good results!

Yes, massage therapists are doing real massage and it is NOT sexual. Doesnt mean that it might not turn the person on a bit. Its relaxing and feels good. I occasionally go to the chiropractor who also does massage. It doesnt turn me on at all because its a man. But he works out all the knots and its great. I will admit that were a woman doing that to me i would probably find it arousing. If you are worried about getting turned on then next time have a woman do it for you. Or even better just put on your profile that you are looking for a man that can massage you AND please you
 MathGeek

Joined: 12/21/2005
Msg: 32
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/18/2006 3:35:35 AM
After the Tour de Cure bike run I got a free massage, they were being given by students from a massage therapy school. Luck of the draw, it was a man...no big deal but I was worried about having a George Costanza incident. Only moved a little...I think
 fiddlenotes

Joined: 10/2/2005
Msg: 33
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/18/2006 5:15:37 AM
Because of tendonitis from playing my violin, and back problems, a Dr. recommended that I get a regular massage. I go once a month, and wish I could go more often. I go to a woman who has a real gift for massage therapy, and she has become a dear friend. There is nothing sexual about it, and I feel completely at ease with her. And yes, sometimes it's just nice being touched. Everyone needs touch.
 mindinflight

Joined: 7/4/2005
Msg: 34
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/18/2006 10:22:04 AM
i've had massages...professional and not.....and male and females giving them. never fails...it's always a huge turn-on. i can't help it. maybe because it relaxes me and once relaxed i let my mind carry me away to something else.
 Mandrake48

Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 35
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/18/2006 10:51:16 AM
Petunia...too bad I live in Canada...I would sure be willing to go with ya! I think that would be very interesting.And sensual mmmm
 tommyfit4u

Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 36
I got massaged today
Posted: 2/28/2006 3:40:59 PM
Don't let anyone burst your bubble.Human contact can make us think and feel alot of things and if you feel that you were turning on the massage therapist and that makes you feel good then you got more out of it then what you expected and my hat goes off to you!
 Runs With Wolves

Joined: 1/19/2006
Msg: 37
view profile
History
I got massaged today
Posted: 3/1/2006 7:53:54 AM
Rouxx, I think it was the breathing... If I hear breathing possibly what you might have heard Grey I think I would have lost it too...
 myloves4ever

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 38
I got massaged today
Posted: 3/1/2006 9:57:53 AM
i've given massages for both reasons to relax and in the foreplay before making love, i begg to differ massages can be very sexual. in feeling a woman's warmth of her body,heat up in your finger tips , and to see her squirm yes with " sexual pleasure" , yes she does get " w.....t, and that the reason i give massages before i make love.
although when i woman gets home from a hard days work, a full body massage can get her relaxed, along with a hot bubble bath , with candle light and soft music.
either way i enjoy both, and recomend have a massage done frequently , and a plus when you make love.
 Swampfox

Joined: 3/10/2005
Msg: 39
view profile
History
I got massaged today
Posted: 7/27/2007 8:49:25 PM
Man old thread here..but anyways.....

What if your partner went and got a professional massage (brides gift to the bridesmaids..) and for some reason it bothered you because you found out it was done by a member of the opposite sex. BUT it wouldn't have bothered you had the massage been done by a member of the same sex.

Or am I just messed up?

I see massages being of a personal nature, and one that should be shared by your partner. hence the question above.. I'm troubled.
 GuitarGuy_

Joined: 3/15/2007
Msg: 40
I got massaged today
Posted: 7/28/2007 12:41:55 PM

Next time you go for one, get him to give ya another one, if he say's " Is that all" you ask him, well what else can I get LOL



LOL yeah, ask "how much for happy ending?"




LOL


 sun_shine_2008

Joined: 7/24/2007
Msg: 41
view profile
History
I got massaged today
Posted: 7/28/2007 1:25:58 PM
OP ummm no never had but damn I wish I had
 Adam_MK

Joined: 4/15/2007
Msg: 42
I got massaged today
Posted: 7/29/2007 9:23:30 AM
Glad it was a great experience!

I've had several massages (OK, no giggling at the back) and probably the worst was in Bulgaria to "soothe" aching muscles after a lot of skiing. WOW! That hurt.

The best was a girlfriend who was studying massage, because it was a fantastically relaxing experience. Although the pre-warning she gave me about the effects of massaging my stomach did force me to relax a little less to avoid, ummmm, embarrassment! (you'll know what I mean if you've had it done)

Personnally, I also like giving massages - Ok, it can lead to other things but even if it doesn't, it's just one of those things that feels good because it's an unselfish act just for the your partner's benefit - a great way to show you care.
 rederer1

Joined: 8/7/2006
Msg: 43
I got massaged today
Posted: 7/29/2007 1:46:16 PM
so......whatsmynameagain, I'm guessing you're not a big fan of the rub and tug parlors then, huh?
 Queen Sassy II

Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 44
I got massaged today
Posted: 7/30/2007 7:18:09 PM
As a massage therapist, I will say this:

I HAVE BEEN VERY TEMPED a few times to let the fingers go walking...

TEMPTED people, not actually. I would not let what was going on in my mind actually happen, it is too great a danger to my profession and my career. I am only human, and thoughts do occur.

[ Disclaimer: no clients were touched in a sexual manner at any time during the typing of this post. ]
 coca2

Joined: 2/17/2006
Msg: 45
view profile
History
I got massaged today
Posted: 7/31/2007 10:24:51 AM
I used to do massages. The last thing I wanted to do was give happy endings.. The only thing I wanted was to get done and get paid. That job was back breaking.
 onesimpleneed

Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 46
I got massaged today
Posted: 7/31/2007 4:22:18 PM
OP,

If he didn't lean over and whisper "50 dolla make you holla long time round eye" then without a happy ending I dunno what to tell you.

I had a massage once. I dated a massage therapist. That was how she got me to date her and after that first massage? To quote the raven....

Never more...

It was like that damn Seinfeld episode.

I'd personally feel weird having someone's non medical related hands on me. Unless it was a SO then it would be okay, but a stranger touching me is icky.

Cheers!
 Want2BWicked

Joined: 7/12/2007
Msg: 47
I got massaged today
Posted: 7/31/2007 4:28:55 PM

but a stranger touching me is icky


THANK YOU!!! I agree 150%!! I have a friend who is always trying to convince me to go to these places with her. I keep telling her, even my Dr hasn't touched me that much- a perfect stranger?!?! EEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWW!!
 trailertrashh

Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 48
I got massaged today
Posted: 8/1/2007 4:58:19 AM
Many many years ago I applied thru a newspaper ad (shouldve been my first clue) at a massage "school" The waiting room was very professional and so were the clients. After my interview I was hired then I started talking to the girls. They said the real money was in the HAPPY ENDINGS!! It turned out the owner also ran a local strip club and this was sorta legal because it isnt sex just a massage. I kept my day jobs
 scorpiomover

Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 49
view profile
History
I got massaged today
Posted: 8/1/2007 6:06:13 AM
I can understand that. When I massage someone else, I take it very seriously. But women do seem to like a good massage.
 cate74

Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 50
view profile
History
I got massaged today
Posted: 8/2/2007 6:23:58 AM
actually, I've been considering taking a massage course to complement the beauty therapy business I'm trying to start up....not sure though....apart from anything else, the course I've just completed was nail technology and I've now got 6-inch talons - not sure how the two would go together - any thoughts?
Page 2 of 4 1, 2, 3, 4
 
Show ALL Forums  > Over 30  > I got "massaged" today