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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 5/6/2007 2:16:30 PM | Spontaneity, what feels right at the time, those 4 words: Life Is Too Short.
I would never normally 'put out' on a first date. But is it a first date when you have mailed for a bit, when you have got to know eachother a little, before actually meeting?- Another thread topic maybe, but back to ...
You really like a guy and enjoy his company. You say goodbye outside your door, you kiss,the kissing is awesome, then he throws you a mighty hefty curveball: 'Ask me to stay & I will', instead of just letting you know he wants to stay, such a gentleman, he lays the consequences entirely in your court. You are the one who must make the decision & deal with it after. Spontaneity, the 4 words, suddenly wanting to get to know this guy intimately, be held by him. All these things appealed. I did sleep with him. It was great. I let him know I hadn't been with anyone in a long time (nerves), this was true for me, but his reaction, I immediately picked up on, seemed like disbelief. Momentary hesitation on my behalf that he believed I was easy, then I was the hypocrite throwing myself into the pretty damn fine moments. BUT, the next morning I was sad. Sad, because I had the feeling /knew that I wouldn't be seeing this great guy again. I was right, I think, because he referred to me in the past tense a few times, had an air of embarassment that hadn't been there before the great sex, and yes, he did say goodbye. No call back.
Sadness aside, no regrets, a great memory of being with a guy I, albeit briefly,
really connected with, a rare thing. I seized the moment & I enjoyed it. | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 5/8/2007 11:59:25 AM | | If everyones happy and consenting what can possibly be the problem. It's not for me and a potentally nice relationship was ruined (in my opinion) because the other person was expecting it and had been I think, from the point of messaging. The best sex I've had has always been with someone I know really well, but that isn't to say that its not great if I don't. Sex on the first date? Is it another one of those questions with no real answer...? | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 5/8/2007 1:58:08 PM | | With the hooter shots on your profile, we already *know* whether or not you're going to be taken seriously. | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 5/10/2007 4:12:56 PM | All too often there are would've, could've and should'ves in relationships, first time dates come in many different sizes, as for you Amazon999 hope you are not feeling any of the 'ves because you as well as your partner enjoyed each others company, even if it were for one night!
Like you said Life IS Too Short! | |
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