| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 1/15/2009 9:24:43 PM | Funny, I just got a very rude and disrespectful mail from a woman I have never written or chatted with. Pretty much telling me to leave the site because I am nothing more then a piece of trash. Calling me uneducated yet misspelled have of her letter!
After looking at her profile I noticed most of her last posting where in a "rude e-mail" thread! With plenty to say about how wrong it is for men to bother women! 
At 55 she has nothing better to do with her time then harass men that have never written her!
Some people should read the directions. It's only 2 tea spoons of that cough syrup! | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 1/15/2009 10:02:23 PM |
Yes, it is too much to ask. Why do you think a woman owes anybody an answer? For that matter why is it so important to get a turn-down email back?
Rule 1: Nobody owes you a reply
Rule 2: Complaining about rule 1 won't change anything
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 1/16/2009 5:04:54 AM | Gosh, I feel left out. I'm not being inundated with rude emails. :( Where are all these rude emailers and why, oh why, do they ignore me?! :*(
Block is there for a reason, and I'd never let some mean/bitter/insane person chase me from somewhere I wished to be. Maybe it comes down to a ready recognition of toxic behavior and forming a decisive m anner of dealing with it, that will allow you to minimize its effect on you. Heck, I'm contrary enough to stick around just to annoy the person. | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 1/17/2009 6:08:02 AM |  i feel the pig metre is an excellent idea...the only thing that is quite important before jumpingto conclusions on here are:
1. WHAT KINDA DAY IS IT....we all have good days...bad days and the kind....well I call them...me days. A me-day is a screw off day... i just need 2 do what I want, when I want, how I want......without some jackass stepping in and touching my shit. (no offense dad...u know i love u)
2. HAVE U DRIVEN A CHAIR LATELY....day - whoa....this is the kinda day u do notwanna talk 2me....that is....unless u love scarkissem ...that is sarcasim in my lingo and banter metre someties known as the wooden spoon lol of your own....right mom...and yes i respect and love you dearly for all you have taught me over the years. And ...yes the hard and fast rule does work best but have u ever considered patience 4more than 13 minutes...lol
oops more info than i thought.....
 whenI write....I write from my heart....but i often wear a mask to hide my saddest moments. I will admit that i have been many ppl over the years....but for **** sakes....i am 40.
do i know it all....well...maybe...some days at a given point...but i honestly believe we are all given what it is we can handle at the time it steps in front of you....
so if u cannot take what you see....SHUT YOUR DANGNAMIT EYE BALLS
IF YOU DONOT LIKE WHAT U HEAR .....walk...roll...stroll...or just get another air space...oh offering each other the sign never hurts either. oit out works forthose who are not so coldandprickley
basically....what i am saying here is.....please...can we just see the human element in each of us and realize that instead of acting like an....u know....what i mean....use this forum 2 get off yourchest what pisses u off unless u know the dude at the other end is notreallyrude.... just spouting off a little because they had a bad,sad,frustrated or yip maybe a day of mad-ness a.k.a. an angry day.
We all express emotions...it is these that make us human...it is who we are....at least that is what we have been called4years.
    2myfamily....that is allauout there
 each other 4cover spice up your lifewith someone or something u never did b4 never serves a purpose....in fact....it causes more dam age than u dummies know... so...   yor ass off....
this has been written by me 4all2c...it is written in a variety of interesting mediumsand could probably stand as its own thread....but
THATS NOT MY JOB - IALMAON PEOPLE...... comes in many forms....and the attends all the forums...so s rule and willalways be my guide  sleep soundly....g2g....my dad just arrived and seriously i might loose all this if i donot hurry     | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 1/20/2009 9:42:03 PM | | I received one my self yesterday from some squidly trying to earn some extra Mensa points, I enjoy destroying such tards by email it's kind of a sport for me suffice to say my "new friend" decided to side with catuion and error The only thing I want is to hear the pitter patter of their clubbed feet backtracking out of the email they just soiled them selves in, and back into the warm confines of their crib. | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 1/21/2009 8:12:19 AM | | I had a guy send me a "weenie cam" after talking to him just a short while. I guess he don't know that it isn't what it look like that makes it so popular, lol | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 1/21/2009 11:53:33 AM | After reading these posts, I can think of only 1 rude man who emailed. Can't imagine why anyone would waste their time doing such things. I tried to be polite to the guy & explained nicely that we were not a match. (I had emailed to ask a question, which he answered nicely, but then proceeded to pursue me.) I made it clear I was NOT interested. Period. (It was a case of mistaken identity. I thought he was a former classmate.) He let me know I was too old for many men to be interested in me now, but HE would rescue me.
I have had 2 very rude experiences, which I hope never to repeat. They were each extremely rude to all wait staff. Blocked one from further contact. No problem since. That delete button can come in handy. No need to be rude in reply.
I reply to everyone politely.
Good luck fishing!!
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Posted: 1/21/2009 4:17:12 PM | | Oh my God Dark, you are hilarious!!!! Haven't received any rude ones, but I do get a lot from people who couldn't spell if their life depended on it! | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 1/28/2009 8:41:22 AM | I just had a good one worth sharing. A lady wrote me to basically say my profile seemed negative and generalized about women. Actually I have just pointed out a few things I've learned from here and you could call it generalizations if you like. I was a bit tongue in cheek and some ladies get a good laugh from it. I wrote back to her, very nicely, that in one of her posts she generalized that men are lazy and bad in bed. I wasn't mean at all, just good naturedly pointed out she was the pot calling the kettle black. And I also mentioned I get some positive emails from other ladies about my observations and left it at that.
I got back a diatribe about how many degrees she has, how long her marriage lasted, how long she's belonged to the same church..blah, blah, blah. Then she tells me I'm blocked and never to email her again. 
Now I don't get it. She initiated the emails and starts by telling me she doesn't like my profile. I was nothing but polite and I'm blocked. I mean Wow! If you don't like someones profile then why write them to tell them that? She certainly only proved she has anger issues and did nothing to sway my opinions or teach me any lessons, except perhaps that getting several degrees doesn't make anyone intelligent. | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 1/28/2009 11:51:10 AM | | I received an e-mail on another site from a guy I went out with, once. We did not hit it off. Months later, he e-mailed me to tell me that, in person, I looked like an "old lady." Out of the blue he contacts me to tell me this?! (Ironically, I showed his picture to some of my friends and they thought he looked like he could have been my grandfather.) He then went on to inform me that he had just gotten laid! That's not just rude. That's psycho. As for your experience, some of us just get so fed up and downright leary that we need to take a break. Online dating is not for the faint of heart. You seem like a nice guy. I wouldn't take it personally. | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 1/30/2009 7:50:36 PM | aside from the kids still in diapers wanting to "gilf" me (now that i'm a grandmother ), i've gotten a couple of hate letters because i campaigned for obama. i first suggest that they put this type of energy into working for their candidate of choice. after all, i have friends from all over the political spectrum and i'm glad some decent folks are keeping their party in check! but then, if they start to get hateful, i block them. i don't have time, energy or inclination for morons like this. only once, did i get some revolting man going on about my legs. i blocked him and took the full body picture off the site. he made me way too nauseous. i may get brave again. haven't seen him lately.
so, most of my pof e-buddies rock and are there for me when i holler. same in reverse. there are always a few rotten apples. many of my guy friends have desperate women emailing them naked pictures. pretty desperate, i'd say.
ps one guy was once threatening suicide on a forum post. i contacted the mods, but apparently this happens a lot and such threads are deleted. i did a trace with another pof friend and tried to get a local suicide hotline to contact him as his name and town were on his profile, but to no avail. so, i emailed him as did my friend who had attempted suicide some time ago. the guy turned out to be very toxic and whiney. had a lot of attention already from his minister. so, i backed out and realized i cannot save the world. but, i'm not sorry i tried. it could have been a serious threat and then i would have felt terrible that i didn't. but, i would not get involved again, unless it was someone i knew for a long time. people have to want to help themselves. | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 1/30/2009 8:33:47 PM | ''he positive and polite far outweight the RUDE and ignorant....who cannot help it that they only have the most basic rudiments of brain stem function...
eg RUDE...
I wanna suck those melons
wanna fuk?
so aren't you on here to fuk? (after I said I wanted to date)
POLITE..\
I like your pictures
what kind of vintage vehicles do you like?
dating is a lost art isnt it?
which did I RESPOND to..and which not??
GQ | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 1/30/2009 10:04:33 PM | | How ironic, I get a message on here, and it's a guy telling me "I bet you suck **** really good" and then I come to the forums, and see this post. But I have to agree that the polite messages outweigh the rude ones, and honestly that was the first rude email I've received. I don't bother taking it to heart, and I know that POF being a free site is open to everyone, including those immature people that have nothing better to do with their time. | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 1/31/2009 6:40:44 PM | I received one tonite......It said "How would ya like to go for a 1 Nite Stand? It could be a lot of fun......I answered the immature 19 year old with "Not with YOU"....just before I blocked him....
I get a lot of scammers, but they're usually not rude....they're too "GOD FEARING"...
I don't allow any of them to "spoil" my POF experience!.
Just my thoughts,
KK | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 2/1/2009 4:13:20 AM | no weinie cam though, eh Knitten Kitten ????
see, that might have been one worth savin' to disc.
it just sounds funny, I wanted another reason to type weinie cam....that's really it
weinie cam...weinie cam
weinie rotisserie.....you bad girl you... ouch...(slams knees together...guys..you know that 'feeling')
KimBo | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 4/6/2009 10:00:50 PM | | I got an email other day from someone who started out friendly, then when i questioned their pics ( looked like someone took pictures of some random guy's pictures in a picture frame, there was a glare from glass in every picture.) The guy had a camera so I suggested he turn the camera around and take his own pictures he got really rude asking me why I had close ups of my face on POF? And said I was hiding a big ass, if he read profile he would have read I'm a BBW. | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 5/13/2009 3:35:00 PM | | I haven't had any rude Emails on POF yet {only found POF 2 mths ago} but have been on other sites and have had a few. I'm not into tatoos and mentioned that in my profile...had 2 extremely pissed off "ladies" tell me how ignorant and stuipd I was and if they ever saw me they'd kick my ass! | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 5/14/2009 11:00:04 AM | Although my e-mails have been positive, I did get an e-mail from a faceless woman who informed me that if I listed more of what I have to offer on my profile, I might be able to find someone suitable for me. Making reference to the fact that I listed retired on disability, her advice to me was to also change long term to read other relationship.
I was put aside by what I considered to be a very rude e-mail and must admit that it did give me second thoughts about the online approach to finding love. As a side note, I did reply to her e-mail and took the high road, I simply thanked her for her advice and wished her luck. | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 5/14/2009 11:15:57 AM | | Emails that spoil my POF experience? I guess that would be the reply email that asks you send a message at this other address or here is my ID at such and such website...POF is free. IF the person is being honest and not a spammer why would they not use the free services of this site? Oh the humanity... | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 5/14/2009 10:44:39 PM | ive had plenty of rude emails, i get more rude than nice! mine are basically rude racist and sexually explicit emails. i had a blk girl who was bisexual contacted me on here and i told her blatantly that i had no interest in dating anyone black or being friends with someone who was black. this was before i even put up a pic but my profile does say im black.
she sent me a very racist email telling me u stuck up white **** blah blah blah blah blah. i emailed her back telling her ur the dumbass who didnt read my profile, it says i am black not white! i said more stuff then emailed her after that it came back telling me i was blocked by the ****. if ur gonna talk shit u better be handle to handle it and not run like a baby. i laughed at her silly fake racist email and moved on. | |
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| rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 6/21/2009 7:13:19 AM | Naw just "ohmakemelaugh"
Enjoying my morning and one of those screw-off profiles, and the ever your profile is great like to talk email, and second reply was hate mail,.........
and I'm an azz- being blocked...
Oh OH! soSO priceless here, as I sated last month...
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