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 firehd

Joined: 8/18/2005
Msg: 26
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Posted: 1/17/2006 8:51:38 AM
i only had one really bad exp.
it was right after i first joined..
i met a guy on here.. we chatted via yahoo and then i realized i wans't nearly
as interested as he was. well all of the sudden i'm a **** all that jazz.. then he
copied my photo and made a fake profile on here with it - he got deleted - but i have
noticed that he's back again b/c he showes up in my searches. i just try to avoid him
now.

ppl can be very rude when they think that there is no recourse you can take b/c you
dont really 'know' them .
 kitsguy4u

Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 27
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Posted: 1/17/2006 11:17:03 AM
Well the best solution so far seems to be to REPORT the offender to the moderators. They probably need to see the email so dont delete it until they have looked into it. They can they delete the person. Then just block and delte the person.

firehd>Thats pretty bad. It would be difficult to find out if someone has made a fake ad with your pic as most of us just look at the profiles of the opposite sex. You were lucky you found it.

Its a pity that people cant add a "pig" filter on the mail filters. Instead of a "rate the picture" they could have a rating system for the emails people receive. If its offensive then the sender gets another point on the pig meter. People could then choose if they want to accept email from senders with a high or low pig rating. Of course there will still be the problem of them just making new usernames but at least it will slow them down and make it a little harder for them to annoy people. Eventually they will get tired of making new profiles and stop their crap.

 DarkPrince64

Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 28
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Posted: 1/17/2006 11:37:16 AM
To Kathena:

you wrote: and then there are the ones that really hate Canadian girls because we think that we are so perfect.
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Yeah??? So WHAT's the problem??? You Canadian girls DO think you're perfect!!! I'm talking to a girl I met here who lives in Winnipeg -- and if she was to see my posting RIGHT NOW -- I'd tell her to her FACE...!!!

Hi Honey... how was work today??? Miss you... call me tonight before 7pm...

...what... Wait 'til she leaves and I'll get TOUGH AGAIN!!!!

...is she gone yet???
 CountrySugar

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 29
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Posted: 1/17/2006 11:40:51 AM
Ya Huh..okkkkkkkk then..
 mind_reader

Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 30
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Posted: 1/17/2006 11:51:11 AM
I have had meaning-less mails, but nothing really rude. Almost everyone has been very nice and respectful till this moment.
 TheSweetness

Joined: 12/28/2005
Msg: 31
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Posted: 1/17/2006 11:54:47 AM
but, being mean to a stranger
only ads more to the crap.
 smilescolorado

Joined: 10/7/2005
Msg: 32
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Posted: 1/17/2006 12:07:53 PM
I get rude sexual emails everyday, my profile is very clear on what I am looking for and what I am not looking for.
I state “FRIENDS”, how in the world do SOME guys think the definition of friends is to: belittle, dispraise, slander, belligerent, invading, hostile, and have sexual misconduct.
Big Red Truck- I would be on a sex site if that is what I looking for!
And,
the wonderful emails that I do get, is the reason I stay on this site.
Lady’s there are wonderful guys here on POF.
 molonel

Joined: 12/20/2005
Msg: 33
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Posted: 1/17/2006 12:09:18 PM
I've only really had one rude person on PoF. She wrote an argumentative email to me. I replied in kind. She realized that she had arrived to a battle of wits unarmed, and blocked me. That was fine and good, until she started sniping me. She'd unblock me, send a nasty note, and then reblock me so that I couldn't reply to her. I chuckled, shook my head, blocked her and went on with life.

She wasn't exactly the brightest bulb in the pack, if you know what I'm sayin'.
 DarkPrince64

Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 34
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Posted: 1/17/2006 12:26:07 PM
To Molonel...

Yep... I've got one like that, too. Better not say too much though because she tends to follow my thread posts to 'shoot me down' since I stopped corresponding with her.

So, brotha... even though you've got her blocked doesn't mean you're rid of her...
 Young-at-Heart

Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 35
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Posted: 1/17/2006 1:04:00 PM


veedub447 wrote:

I get A Lot of rude email. Mostly from middle-aged fat women who like to wear purple.



LMAO!! I haven't received any of that yet, but I'm sure looking forward to it.



-JD
 FilmmakerMike

Joined: 7/28/2005
Msg: 36
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Posted: 1/17/2006 1:10:04 PM
I've been getting them.

It just comes from people who are insecure, yet arrogant. They have to resolve their issues and stop drinking alcohol.

They have to find themselves.
 kingfisher1

Joined: 5/20/2005
Msg: 37
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Posted: 1/17/2006 1:29:38 PM
I just got a nasty nasty nasty e-mail from a woman. Woo-hooo, I love it!
 JasmineKai

Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 38
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Posted: 1/17/2006 2:46:54 PM
Rude? who would be rude to me? I'm so nice!
 picker_grinner

Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 1/17/2006 3:09:30 PM
^^^ .....

I only rarely get.... how shall we say.... porvocative email... that merely give me a chuckle before they're deleted.
 SwaggerNStrut

Joined: 11/26/2005
Msg: 40
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Posted: 1/17/2006 3:12:20 PM
kingfisher1, i envy you. i never get anything! hopefully someone will oblige me and send me a nasty email too. at this point, i'll take what i can get!
 kingfisher1

Joined: 5/20/2005
Msg: 41
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Posted: 1/17/2006 3:12:54 PM
Not wise to be rude to a woman with a macheti!

Thanx Swag, but seriously, all the words in the world can't take the place of an actual woman..Now if only I could figure out a way to get one to come over and BE nasty nasty nasty!
 tierrah

Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 42
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Posted: 1/17/2006 3:16:10 PM
I get rude emails...and illietrate ones too. I reply with a succint 'not interested' to the rude ones, and a sracastic question about literacy and spelling to the ones with terrible spelling.
 SwaggerNStrut

Joined: 11/26/2005
Msg: 43
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Posted: 1/17/2006 3:32:10 PM
yeah king, you and me both! ...not together or anything, but you know what i mean.
 DarkPrince64

Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 1/17/2006 3:45:08 PM
To the King...

Congratulations on receipt of your first insult -- may you be blessed with many more to come.

And to Brother Swag...

Hang in there... Nuts are abound!!! Your time is comin' too...
 LL3

Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 45
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Posted: 1/17/2006 4:09:00 PM
Apparantly at some time on the Forums, I hit someone's buttons just about proper....Christmas Eve if you could believe it, I got the nastiest message from anyone that pretty much rivals anything you'll see on Springer. Better yet, the person never even had the cahonies, or whatever the female equivalent is to use his/her own name....Actually went far enough out of their way to create a false profile just for bashing me(and probably others)....I was deeply honoured.

As for actual people being rude, not overly. Sometimes, I do get some really confusing ones though....they kinda worry me a bit....
 DarkPrince64

Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 46
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Posted: 1/17/2006 4:12:01 PM
LoveLife...

That probably WAS Springer!!!
 SwaggerNStrut

Joined: 11/26/2005
Msg: 47
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Posted: 1/17/2006 4:15:32 PM
lovelife, i think you've piqued our interest. you have to share your story. i would, but i don't have anything to share (hinting at all you ladies ).
 JoeDunn

Joined: 11/9/2005
Msg: 48
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Posted: 1/17/2006 4:26:39 PM
If a gal ask me how much I made and what I did for a living, I would tell them what they want hear. A lye, that is a typical bar question. I have been ask that alot the first time I meet a chick in a bar, so lye. Its none of there dam businuss really. Trust me they are a gold digger. You can telll them what you do for work. But to tell them how much you make is a mistake. It may not be enuff for theyre gold digging pocket to take.
 kingfisher1

Joined: 5/20/2005
Msg: 49
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Posted: 1/17/2006 4:36:29 PM
yo lifelover, was that the "hatemail" thread? I think it may have been on Christmas eve that some whacko was sending all sorts of crazy stuff out to everyone in the thread.

ey Dark, thanx for the congrats,as I actually look at nasty e-mail as more of a compliment than an insult..I'm with swagger, details, details!

OP-Obviously, men look at x-rated e-mails in a different sort of light than most women.
 LL3

Joined: 9/10/2005
Msg: 50
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Posted: 1/17/2006 5:42:28 PM
It wasn't my first in a very long string of mails I've had....most have the nuts to say who they are...but twice I've backtracked on profiles to find out they've been created and falsed....lol....It kills me that what one person says here another takes to heart so much that they have to lash out in anger...I thought about it for the whole day wondering which one I'd ticked off was that mad, but then again at the end of the third beer, neice and nephew climbing all over me, I didn't really care too much....

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