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 mysticrogue

Joined: 11/17/2005
Msg: 176
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Posted: 4/5/2006 10:01:04 AM
rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 4/3/2006 701 PM
Yikes Parksie!

I'm sorry about that; I see nothing in your profile that would elicit that response. You seem like a perfectly nice, decent guy to me.

What can I say? Some people's children. Geesh!

OT: I've received several less than kind e-mails. I've received a lot from the truly insane and scary.

Generally I eviscerate them with a well-placed word or two and then I post it on my blog. My friends LOVE those posts.

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To Gothygeek:

How I wished I was among your circle of freinds.
I would love to have seen those posts.
I can only imagine your wit, sarcasm and eloquent responses as you
needle and/or poke fun with sophisticated retorts.
I would be howling with laughter and no doubt be guilty as charged
cheering for you.

From an admirer,
(who would love to be among your circle of friends)

MysticRogue
 joyus1

Joined: 2/28/2006
Msg: 177
rude emails that spoil your POF experience
Posted: 4/5/2006 10:10:02 AM
Got one when I first joined - just deleted it and never heard from him again - no response is probably the best response. Responding to the rude emails is probably what they are after!!!!
 gothygeek

Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 178
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Posted: 4/5/2006 11:03:02 AM

To Gothygeek:

How I wished I was among your circle of freinds.
I would love to have seen those posts.
I can only imagine your wit, sarcasm and eloquent responses as you
needle and/or poke fun with sophisticated retorts.
I would be howling with laughter and no doubt be guilty as charged
cheering for you.

From an admirer,
(who would love to be among your circle of friends)

MysticRogue


Wow, thanks for that. I'm very flattered. :+)
 FilmmakerMike

Joined: 7/28/2005
Msg: 179
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Posted: 4/8/2006 3:51:44 PM
People are rude and they try to be "mean" because they hate themselves.

I've gotten a few mean PM's and today some rather rude and mean posts on the Forums.

It usually means they just need a lesson in how to love themselves. If you have the time, try to educate them. Helping them helps you as well.

It's all Good.
 sassyvgirl

Joined: 4/2/2006
Msg: 180
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Posted: 5/16/2006 9:50:17 PM
Some people, lol! I got a few... what I like to call "snipe and run" emails this evening from someone who apparently didn't like something I posted in the forums....can't say for sure...wouldn't fill me in on what it was...just kept changing his screen name

He seems to think my integrity is in question since I don't have a pic posted...PULEEEEEZE, hahaha!
I guess some people just have too much time on their hands
 fertpimpin1

Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 181
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Posted: 5/16/2006 10:10:47 PM
You are a bunch of pompous and snobbish wannabe yes-men jackasses; now go away......
 sayonara7

Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 182
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Posted: 5/16/2006 10:28:34 PM
"I get A Lot of rude email. Mostly from middle-aged fat women who like to wear purple.

I love it too!"




Why do you hate purple????Its such a wonderful color well ofcourse after black.
By the way that was funny.
 virgogidget

Joined: 11/10/2005
Msg: 183
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Posted: 5/16/2006 10:49:06 PM
Holy Cow
Im wearing purple but it wasnt me//////
Ive only had two sex ones from two 19/20 year olds when i first joined
The other emails have all been nice ones
But any crap i will block or delete
 sassyvgirl

Joined: 4/2/2006
Msg: 184
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Posted: 5/16/2006 11:05:07 PM
Oddly, I had no clue what the guy I posted about above was referring to, but I think I just figured it out.
Dude, you know who you are and if you happen to see this, my post following yours was in your defense...not an attack on you.

I meant that he is lucky that some people show who they are right up front (rude), and then you don't have to waste time on them...looking at it now, I can see how it might have come across differently.
Still, there was no reason to unleash a nasty verbal tirade over it!

Most of the email I get is very nice....compliments on my forum posts, lol! Go figure!
 EastSideEddie

Joined: 3/5/2006
Msg: 185
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Posted: 5/17/2006 6:54:57 AM

Most of the email I get is very nice....compliments on my forum posts, lol! Go figure!


Go figure?

You make it quite clear in that somewhat misanthropic profile that you don't want to meet anybody. Of course your email is about your forum activity. That's all you want! That's nice to see though, that people have respect for your wishes and don't fill your mailbox up with attempts to get your bloomers off.

And it's refreshing to see up front what someone is looking for. Keeps the old horndogs away! (Like me, for example.....)
 blkknght414

Joined: 3/29/2006
Msg: 186
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Posted: 5/17/2006 7:14:28 AM
I changed my profile because of mean and rude e-mails. I had been interested in dating BUT NOT NECESSARILY TONIGHT. I wanted to take some time and get to know someone. It seems that some here, not all let me stress, but some think that if you show interest, then you have to write everyday 2/3 times. Or numbers get exchanged and WORK, OBLIGATIONS, and LIFE be damned. "Why aren't you calling me". When the calls get crazy, you can ignore them. But the nasty e-mails are another story. I'm not one to report people for this, so I just let time take care of it.
 silverrock

Joined: 5/12/2006
Msg: 187
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Posted: 5/17/2006 7:40:33 AM
It is a privilege to be on here and emails should be sent in a sincere, honest, manner. One should stop and think how it is going to be received and how they would want to receive an email regarding the subject being addressed.

When logging on I look at the number of times my profile has been viewed and it is depressing.
So I am not surprised that I do not receive emails. Comments will be appreciated.
 Cybury

Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 188
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Posted: 5/17/2006 7:51:55 AM

When logging on I look at the number of times my profile has been viewed and it is depressing.



ok I'm confused... there is a way to tell how many times your profile was viewed? Please do tell....
 ~sweetiie~

Joined: 3/3/2006
Msg: 189
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Posted: 5/17/2006 7:53:39 AM
Well..I get many emails ..half of them expect me to want to converse....sadly many are not my type of man.. and If i do respond I tell them all the best on here ..ciao.
What happens alot is the reply.."you were never my type anyways" OR I was not interested in you anyways....then LOL and behold I have been blocked....or your very ugly...
I try to take things with a grain of salt and let it go...but many times I am sitting on the fence pondering to leave POf or stay...
We all should never just settle what passes our way...It has to be good on all levels...
What breaks my heart is so many men in my own age brackets are not grown up yet....
I often wonder do people really know what a relationship entails...
I am a very deep woman mentally and physically I am very passionite...
What has been emailing me and its not everyone...just some... have been something i'd not wanna introduce to my freinds or family....
Other people are amazing...but just not right for me...
 nicemale

Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 190
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Posted: 5/17/2006 1:49:19 PM
Yes I got some..... Its I guess not a gender specific phenomen.
I generally dont answer than.... its that easy!!!
 who_the_fox

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 191
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Posted: 5/17/2006 1:53:33 PM
The pigs don't bother me nearly as much as the random hate mail.

Yes, it detracts from the positive side of POF....and it makes me very very hesitant to ever even think about dating someone from here.
 sassyvgirl

Joined: 4/2/2006
Msg: 192
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Posted: 5/17/2006 3:10:17 PM

You make it quite clear in that somewhat misanthropic profile that you don't want to meet anybody.


Actually, I am not the least bit misanthropic....I happen to love people! I am however quite the smarta55, lol! When I first came on here, all my profile said was "here for the forums and not looking to date"...well, I got a lot of email looking to hook up, date and a variety of other requests. I just don't have time to respond to it all, especially when I am clear about why I am here. You would not beleive the amount of email I received barking at me for wasting "his" time clicking on my profile since I was not here to date, lol. WHAT? I also get rude mail because I don't have a pic up and because I do have one up...I can't win! My point is...my profile has become a compilation of a lot of the things people have said in email and when I keep the pic down, I get less....

I love the forums and no amount of hate mail in the world is gonna scare me off!
 Venomous

Joined: 3/31/2004
Msg: 193
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Posted: 5/17/2006 3:18:05 PM
I suppose it could happen to just about anyone
 WonkaBar

Joined: 2/3/2006
Msg: 194
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Posted: 5/17/2006 5:54:40 PM
Hmm... tell ya what, when I actually get some E-mail I'll worry about whether or not they detract from my POF experience. hehe.
 coolerinreallife2

Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 195
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Posted: 5/17/2006 5:57:20 PM
I find that "many" people who have taken a disliking to me use my forums as a chance to jump on me. I make a statement about an unnamed person or person(s), and they come on my board and take it all personally and slander me personally on the boards. I know this is "their" sickness; but it sorta gets annoying...ya.
 bridget1964

Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 196
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Posted: 5/18/2006 4:06:50 PM
I have had a few sick sexual emails. One young guy asked if he could 'pleasure me orally'. A few others asked me if I wanted to have sex. I read them, laugh (a lot!) and delete them. I sometimes wonder if they are drunk and horny and write the email without really thinking about it. I don't let them upset me.
 mazda626_b

Joined: 2/16/2006
Msg: 197
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Posted: 5/18/2006 4:29:31 PM
I am not sure about yall, but some people need to be told to get a DAMN life. Seriously, how does anyone send an emial that is hateful or disrespective to another person. What says more than i am a losser by personally taking out time of thier day to type a rude email. Next time someone sends that crap to any of yall tell them to get a damn life and grow up.... Actually taking out time of thier day to type something like that. LOL (WHAT LOSSERS)
 geogirl43

Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 198
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Posted: 5/18/2006 6:47:26 PM
smiles, agrees with sweetiee, i am new on here but already am beginning to dread opening my mail. there is not enough time in the day to respond fully. i wish guys would understand that you need to make some quick decisions and just don't have time to ponder and deliberate. i can deal with those posing sexual things, it is the mean ones that hurt. i have only been on here a couple of days but am considering leaving, although it is universal to all sites it seems. guys, it is not personal, i bet you would not want to date every girl on here. no response, or not the response you wanted is not directed at you personally.
 mazda626_b

Joined: 2/16/2006
Msg: 199
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Posted: 5/18/2006 7:11:38 PM
I am not sure about that geogirl, to me that sounds kind of thin. I am a respectful and kind person for the most part, until someone does something stupid. I am a one girl guy and dating every girl or even wanting to date every girl on this site does not appeal to this john doe.
 Poet102781

Joined: 8/22/2005
Msg: 200
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Posted: 5/19/2006 11:37:43 AM
I think it would be funny if I got some hate mail
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