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Keljo
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Joined: 12/28/2005
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 1/16/2006 1:34:34 PM |
In all honesty...what is the difference between meeting sumone on here and meeting sumone at a club? wether it just be for sex or not. theres a good chance a guy at a bar is a creep too. Either way you go about it, you could still get diseases, and sadly yes u could end up in a ditch. but if u wanna go around sleeping with random people its a choice that you make and you obviously have no problem taking your chances. [
No shit, Sherlock. I was answering the question, which asked about meeting people ONLINE for sex - nothing about clubs and bars. Of course it is the same risk *duh* But that was not the question asked. | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 1/16/2006 2:48:53 PM | Of course. That's some of the fun of this site. Sure, I've met some for friendship, some for future relationship material, but frankly, meeting online, then hooking up to "play checkers" is what makes these sites truly great.
So yes, I have met people online just for intimate encounters and it has been mostly great.
Honesty about my and their reasons for being here goes a long way. | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 1/16/2006 2:53:18 PM | | Yes I have, a fair bit. It`s easier then meeting at the clubs, and alot lighter on the pocket book as well lol. PLus there are no pretenses, you talk, you get a get a feel for the person, they come over, or you go over, or you get a hotel room. Not a big deal. | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 1/16/2006 3:02:37 PM | I wouldn't mind but I'm not that trusting given that most women I meet are lousy with their contraception trivia facts.
For men sex is a choir, for women it is a choice. You've heard this before ... no matter what a woman can always find an willing lover. The reverse is not true.
I used to meet all my dates on the 'intimate' category ... just the way it went, it doesn't mean we will end up in bed ... some just become friends.
Dating and relationships are the same ... ultimately for breeding ... you can just see that they are defined in pretty words to make people feel less uncomfortable about being the salivating self-gratifying beast that they are. Oral sex was taboo at some point too = so what ...
It would be great to meet some friends who know safe, drug and disease free friends who can hook people up who are open to being exclusive with one or two lovers for as long as everyone is happy with the arrangement. Anyone know such a thing? | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 1/16/2006 5:31:18 PM | | i didnt think it would be possible using POF for "sex encounters" no one in my area who is up for it(sheffield) and i agree that it is easier for women | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 1/16/2006 7:01:22 PM | I think it's just the opposite. I think it's a lot easier for a guy to go pick up a chick for sex. I, myself, am not keen on the idea. It's so bland, passionless, emotionless. But hey whatever creams your twinkie. | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 1/16/2006 7:17:42 PM | | I had a fu*k buddy that I met online and we did have sex the first time we met but we had talked a lot before that first | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 1/16/2006 8:14:15 PM | I've had one experience off of POF where the guy came over just for sex. There were no other expectations. We both knew what was involved. It was great. And no, I have no desire to see him again.
Not to be confused with the time I had a *uck buddy off of POF. | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 2/10/2006 11:52:01 AM | | Nope never done it......I have met many people here at POF....at the partys they hold but have never looked to find someone to bed......Not my style. | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 2/10/2006 12:18:56 PM | Yep, she contacted me, we talked online for a few days abotu what we were into and willing to experiment with and then we met and went at it.
I left for work in the morning, we talked a bit more off and on, never hooked up again.
I might be willing to do it again if I find the right person close enough, but would have to do some serious thinking about it and some serious talking this time around. Last time left me worried about some things and i didn't like some things about myself afterwards when viewed in light of some of my concerns. | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 2/10/2006 12:30:49 PM | | i have a few times, and made some very good freinds, just make sure her pic is real! and no we didnt play checkers, it was more like twister | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 2/10/2006 3:57:51 PM |
hmmm....i have done it once...and i think once is enough...it's gooddddddddd!!!
I aint 40 and I am not anywhere near ya, but I have to say..... yum | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 2/11/2006 7:30:31 AM | what does age has to do with it...hell long as u over 23 n working the middle like u 21 then hell..bring it...joking | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 2/11/2006 8:46:50 AM |
what does age has to do with it...hell long as u over 23 n working the middle like u 21 then hell..bring it...joking
LOL well, your profile limits responses, you have it set where nobody younger or older than 40 can contact you.
As for working the middle like a 21 year old, **** that noise, my middle works a lot better now than it did at 21. | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 2/11/2006 9:14:03 AM | I think you have the wrong definition of luck. Getting lucky has NOTHING to do with luck! It`s persistance is what you have to have in this stuck up city,..and yes i`ve lived here all my life. Lotsa talk NO action. Seems people here are WAY too paranoid. You can still Actually meet people and still maintain a good level of safety. | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 2/11/2006 9:29:03 AM | I see this all the time but have been unable to comprehend it's worthy meaning! What difference does it make where you meet someone and end up in the sac doing the nasty? I guess what peolpe would like everyone to believe is if you date from church, you're pretty much guaranteed a safe outcome? Having sex with anyone is a risk all the time! So what you need to do is just use a little common sense, a little extra protection, and hope for the best!
I know some pretty affluent people who have things you would not want to encounter! It's not just the people online looking for some spice in their life.
And to part two: What did we do? It wasn't a game of checkers!! What would two people online looking for sex do if they met?? Come on here, this is pretty basic! IQ of 6!!!!!!!
What happens if you have any intellegence at all is: You meet online---set up a mutual meeting place in public for safety purposes, then go from there. If you have any suspicion or uncomfortable feeling, its time to say good-bye and part in your own way! If all goes well, then it's off to the playgroung for some spice in your life!!!!!!!!
I've heard some real good horor stories but most could have been avoided with common sense! She doesn't BRING ANY MALE FRIENDS----PERIOD!! You watch to see if she is nervous and watching someone -somewhere! You make the destination point mutually at the meeting place--not pre-arranged!! I don't carry wads of cash--or credit cards--or anything she can remove while I might be in the shower!! Don't go in the shower without her!! If you chose a motel-hotel, pick something in a safe area--not the sleezy cheap one night stands joint! And the list goes on and on!!! Use that thing god gave you called a "BRAIN"! In the big head!!!! | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 2/11/2006 10:31:09 AM | She doesn't BRING ANY MALE FRIENDS----PERIOD!!
Well she SHOULDNT bring any male (or female) friends, your meeting and dating HER, not her FRIENDS. If I went out and she brings a friend I'll cut the date short to about 15 minutes and request she come alone next time.
And to answer the question no unfortunatly. Where are you hot babes? | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 2/11/2006 10:57:11 AM | I have never just met someone for sex from online or elsewhere. Hell I have never had what could be truly called a one night stand. Am I capable of this? I would have to say at this point in my life, being 39, yes. I think if the right woman came along and there was a chemistry as we got to know one another online I would meet just for sex.
Ok Be well,
John | |
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| Meeting someone online just for sex?
Posted: 2/11/2006 12:20:27 PM | | Don't let that creep bother you hun, I understand what you mean. You just have to be careful -- meet in a public place the first time, and let your intuitions take you where they may. You'll know if the guy (or girl) is a creep. | |
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