| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/24/2006 10:53:37 AM | | I say no often because I am not into casual sex. I like sex alot and miss it. But I refuse to settle for casual sex to scratch that itch. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/24/2006 12:48:54 PM | | I can count how many times I said no that would mean I would run out of fingers and toes tho. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/24/2006 12:50:33 PM | Of course I could say no to sex!!!!!
ESPECIALLY if there was no sexual/physical attraction!!!!!! | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/24/2006 9:35:59 PM | Sexual attraction or not, if there isn't a relationship in tact, the answer is NO.  | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/24/2006 9:40:11 PM | Yeah I can say no to sex.. then at that point I hope my lady forces me. :p I like it when she forces me. :)
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/25/2006 7:33:42 AM | | There definetly has to be some level of attraction there. If that is not there, I have no problem saying no, but I'm not mean about it. We finish our coffee, part our ways, and then we either talk online some more or I block and delete them asap. Now, had a I been drinkin, that would be another story. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/25/2006 10:28:33 AM | Ok another question
If so many of you can say no to sex, why is it so much in your profile ??? guys topless trying to show their meat, girls with boobs pic's ??
If you can so easily say no to someone after teasing them, how come most of you can't just go with her personality, rather trying to attract a guy/girl cause of your boobs or slong | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/25/2006 10:34:16 AM | | What kind of question is that? If I don't want to do something I say no. If I want to do something... umm... I'll probably say no then too. It's fun to tease! ;) (and yes, I can absolutely back it up) | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/25/2006 2:14:53 PM | I'm not one for casual sex... i the kinda gal that likes it to mean something... also if i were to sleep with someone then it would be because there was a mutual attraction... and not just because sex was on offer!
Big YES! is the answer... 
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/25/2006 4:33:38 PM | | I have. Sex is just sex...but making love...well that is my everything. Anything less is just a cheap act. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/25/2006 6:59:50 PM | | Depends whos asking..ive said no to people before, but then again,,some Ive said yes..LOL | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/25/2006 7:16:54 PM | | The first date i went on after my divorce the lady wanted to have sex that night. Not being into casual sex or wanting to jump into a relationship with somone i didnt know. I said no. As for the women on here that show too much in the profiles... They should know that they are only going to attract the guys wanting one night stands. If that's what they want? More power to them. Wonder how many guys has been with them? Not me! | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/27/2006 2:11:18 PM | | yes i can ive turned it down loads of times, maybe im getting too moralistic in my old age or maybe its cause i can see where its going to lead, maybe i dont want to get hurt | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/27/2006 10:35:19 PM | | The sad thing about that is ya if I dont find her attractive even if shes willing I kinda have to my body or subconcious wont allow it go figure yes I have tried many ways to fix that problem | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/27/2006 10:55:16 PM | yes I could and i have ... been saying no for the past 18 months now and will continue to do so till i meet a guy whos worth it now ... not going to do it for a one night stand thats for sure
Actually going with the topic... i was just talking to some guy on a site and he was saying how if he was with me tonight we wouldnt have been out injoying the weather and I asked why not and he said we probably wouldnt have made it out... Unless i enjoy doing it outside too and i said you think that would have happened and he said maybe if i was up to it and if im not a sexual person thats cool he undserstands that ... well i told him i am a very sexual person but i havent done that in a long time so he had to ask how long I told him about 18 months and next thing i know hes not online anymore LMAO!! I had to share ... shows you just how many guys dont like no for an answer | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/27/2006 11:20:37 PM | Of course I could say no.
Hell, I could say no to someone I DID find attractive.
I've known people who can't seem to though...it's weird.
To me, sex is a way to completely relax and affection is showing you care, but some people have this mindset like that's all they want to do and can't live without it. I think it really complicates things when people are like this. I swear, some people walk around with this derrogatory mindset like they have to have their genitals attached to someone elses or they're just going to spasm. I don't get it. I guess when you are around someone and you're really attracted to them and the two of you are alone and you haven't had sex in a while it may be uncomfortable.....physically uncomfortable because your hormones are going to be like..."sooo....what is there to do?....hmmmmm...".....but if a person can't take care of their own problems and expect other people who don't feel the same to take care of them it's real personality flaw...big time...it's certainly nothing to get mad about if you can't have sex with someone and really immature if you do, but getting mad is just one reaction out of many weird reaction from not having sex. I've even tried to relate to it. I ask myself "If I was walking around with a ****inside me all the time (because some people act like sex is all they can concentrate on), would this make me feel more secure?...would it make me feel like my deepest needs were being met?"
I think it's retarded to even think such a thing but suprisingly with some people, the world revolves around sex. It's just sex.
Sure, it serves a purpose but when you involve the wrong people into the equation, it just plain sucks. It makes it all nasty. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/28/2006 12:10:14 AM | Yep, I could say no to sex. If there was no chemistry, if I'm not "feelin it," I would very politely steer things into a non-sexual direction, and politely end the night.
And if I met someone who didn't feel chemistry with me, I'd hope they'd politely tell me no too.
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/28/2006 8:50:26 AM | i feel the same as msmax...i love sex...i'd love to be having it al the time..
but that said,not with anyone and not causally..
i place myself and sex in high regard and i respect both and value it ..
so only in a full on relationship...
i've been able to easily say no..because it is against my conscience not to..
but in a relationship..i'll never say no... | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/28/2006 8:53:15 AM | I could say no ..but depends on the person and givin
circumstances | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/28/2006 9:41:22 AM | | well i dont really know .. some situations.. ur mind is saying im tired.. but UR body is Say ING. GO>> if ur HOrny u just want it.. being intimate.. is a NEED.. >>>>>>>>>>>> FCUk ME.. IM FAMOUS<<<<<<<<<<< | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/28/2006 11:15:19 AM | | yea, i could say no to having sex with someone. i could say no and i have said no but sometimes i havent lol, although i should have. i wonder sometimes if thats all that some people want, if they just never say no lol. if i see potential then maybe but sometimes i see wrong and i admit that. but all in all, i can say no to sex (and its not that easy sometimes hehe). | |
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