| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/29/2006 1:32:45 PM | Could I say "no" to sex? Yes I could, yes I have, doubtless yes I will in the future (or, at least, I hope I'll have a few opportunities to do so!).
If I did not find the girl attractive then saying "yes" wouldn't even cross my mind. Just as I hope if she didn't find me attractive she'd react the same way.
If I had doubts about her sexual health - either through her history, or because she seemed evasive about it - then I'd say "no".
If a girl I had little knowledge of refused to agree to the use of a condom I'd certainly say "no", even if she happened to look like Keira Knightly.
If I was in a relationship, then I'd say "no" to a different girl. I don't cheat.
There are many circumstances in which I'd say no - BUT ...
... If I felt she was "safe, sane and concensual", if I fancied her, if I was free, if we took the right precautions, then all the REASONS for "no" are beginning to disappear. Under those circumstances I'd probably say "yes" - not because I "couldn't say no", but because I'd have no reason to do so.
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/29/2006 1:53:05 PM | I've said no to sex on two occassions and I was extremely attracted to the 2 women I said no to.
Once was a first date with a girl I really liked.We had a couple drinks (to many) and got a little carried away.I stopped because I actually liked her if I had of slept with her I wouldn't have wanted to persue a relationship. That said knowing that I could have kinda ruined it anyways.......so maybe I should have but those damned morals got in my way!
Second time I had a female friend over and we had a couple drinks (common theme).
After one trip to the mens room I came back to the living room to see her naked on my recliner saying "I've always wanted you". This one was very hard (pardon the pun) to walk away from but her being drunk was my reasoning once again.....
Sometimes I wish my moral standards weren't so high.....I mean does it really make sense to deny yourself pleasure? | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 5/29/2006 3:56:32 PM | I have said NO many times...sometimes I have wanted to...but it's like getting drunk...you feel great while you are...but in the morning you regret having drank...
That is why i would rather wait and find that special person to share the ultimate feeling of ectasy...
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 7/10/2006 10:03:42 PM | I could say no to sex IF I wanted too -- but why would I want too?  | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/7/2007 7:22:20 AM |
Could you say no to sex, if you didn't really find the person attractive, yet they seem a little easy in giving in ?
I can say no to intercourse, because it'll be like trying to raise the dead if I'm not attracted to the person. Now I have given into BJ's with a couple of women I didn't find particularly attractive, because they took everything well in hand so to speak. You can just lean back and close your eyes receiving a BJ. Thankfully I have a good imagination. I don't necessarily have to be attracted to a woman to enjoy a BJ. There's no kissing or rolling all over each other and the girl is at the other end doing her thing. It's hard to turn a BJ down when it's being offered unless the girl is hideous looking. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/7/2007 9:00:11 AM | I do it all the time. There often is a good reason. The people involved usually expect more of a commitment than I could honestly give. Since I care about their friendship the answer has to be no.
On the other hand their are others who I have no attraction to that I wouldn't give the satisfaction. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 1/7/2007 9:02:09 AM | | Yes I can and have and probably will if I was in a non-marriage relationship. | |
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Posted: 3/7/2007 10:18:31 AM | | Hi it doesn't go down the tubes if they are your boyfriend first I hope? | |
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Posted: 3/7/2007 10:24:00 AM | i could say no, but id have to visit the mensroom 1st to......er clear my head  | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/7/2007 10:24:24 AM | | I was referring to the person who said "friendship goes down the tubes", after you've waited long enough it doesn't happen I hope? | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/7/2007 10:36:43 AM | YES- I can say no to it.
If you don't really find someone attractive then why bother with sleeping with them. Doesn't make sense to me. Hmph | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/7/2007 10:11:57 PM | LOL sure I can say no if am not attracted or feel they are not wanting anything but sex then sure I will say no and run the other way. I am not someone to just give in to desire I am much stronger then that. Plus isn't that the reason there ae toys so you don't ahve to worry about one night stands STDs and the uneasy of shit now what.
Hello we all have hands and thee are cheap enough toys so to be on the safe side I'd rether the toy I prefer to getto knwo someone before lying down with them. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/7/2007 10:20:50 PM | I could try, but I've never been good with No's.
Unless I already had a SO! Cheatin' hurts alot, always!! | |
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Posted: 3/8/2007 6:26:41 AM | ^^^ totally agree
Yes. I did this weekend actually, and he WAS attractive. I just dont' take home guys I just met. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/8/2007 8:18:40 AM | | with my partner.... definately NOT! but if someone came up and tried to get some... i could say NO! | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/8/2007 10:57:25 AM | | I cant have sex with someone I am not attracted to, and I have no problem saying no. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/8/2007 11:32:31 AM | | Yes, I can say no to sex. I'd have to be attracted to him and want him and, well, you get the picture. It's not just about a physical act. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/8/2007 2:35:01 PM | | I've never had to but I'm sure I could if the situation presented itself. | |
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Posted: 3/8/2007 3:16:15 PM | | I tend to get emotionally involved with people that I get physically involved with. I don't want to have sex with someone I don't find attractive... what's the point? | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/8/2007 5:49:05 PM | | i have... i was extremely attracted to her, i was kinda drunk and so was she, but that wasnt why, all my buddies had bets going, even with her, so i just couldnt do it, it would have been the first time for the two of us, and i really liked her so i just couldnt do it that way, so for a few months i took shit from my buddies and the girl. but then when no one expected it it happened and no one was the wiser, to me it was much beter that way. and would i do it again, yep i need attaction both physically and mentally otherwise whats the point | |
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