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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/8/2007 11:46:43 PM | Uh yeah, I could say no... The question seems easy, I'm just trying to figure out why I'm so confused by it... Could you say no to sex??? There's nothing more to it, then just saying "Yes, I could say no to sex"??? Posting in this thread, I might have to leave the forums for a bit, there might not be too much to talk about anymore | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/8/2007 11:51:00 PM | Um, it's easy for me to say no to sex. It's hard to get me to say yes, to be honest.
If I'm being asked by anyone I don't trust in that way (which is everyone else minus one person, who shall remain anonymous, except for the fact that she's 3K miles from me), I will say No.
If I'm in a bad mood? No.
If I'm at work? No.
If I'm at school? No.
If I'm anywhere but with the anonymous lucky lady? No.
And that's the answer as of today.
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/8/2007 11:53:42 PM | If I don't find the person attractive then I will say no, I have no quams with telling ANYONE that I don't want to have sex with them.
Its about you (you need to be selfish) due to the fact that if you are willing to sleep with someone even if you find them unatractive that seems a tad bit desperate.
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/9/2007 7:55:45 AM | OKK..just HOW GOOD CAN THE SEX BE..if ur having it with someone u dont find attractive!!!!!
I think GREAT SEX..begins with the hot, passionate high -energy sexuall attraction!
oh yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!
Anything lesssssssssss...go home and masturbate!!!
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/22/2007 10:58:17 AM | I've posted in this forum before and said that I have indeed said no to sex, in fact I've never said yes. I recently found out why.
Genophobia. A fear of sexual contact with anyone. I wonder how many people would admit to that fear. Nice to know that there's a reason why some of us say NO. | |
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Posted: 3/24/2007 2:08:55 PM | | yes I could say no to sex and would if there just good for one nighters. | |
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Posted: 3/24/2007 6:07:48 PM | well i also admit to having sex with a few people from this site, but it kinda just happened, i didnt plan on meeting them just for the chance to get laid, im lookng for the right one and it pays to shop around, but if its agread that its just a casual thing than i wouldnt say no, unless there is no conection with the person at all.
so no i would say i cant say no | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/24/2007 6:08:07 PM | well i also admit to having sex with a few people from this site, but it kinda just happened, i didnt plan on meeting them just for the chance to get laid, im lookng for the right one and it pays to shop around, but if its agread that its just a casual thing than i wouldnt say no, unless there is no conection with the person at all.
so no i would say i cant say no | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/24/2007 7:57:54 PM |
It's all in the topic lol
Could you say no to sex, if you didn't really find the person attractive, yet they seem a little easy in giving in ?
Or if they just wanted sex, do you or could you say no ?
I've met a lot of nice people on here, and while I can admit to having sex with a couple of them, I have been able to say no a lot. If I see value in that person then sure, I will go ahead and DO IT !!! If I don't then I run. Sure not the best way, but I always get that sense that was their only reason for wanting to meet me.
I've said no quite a few times to having sex with a date.
The look on their faces is what i always remember most. Like they expect me to want sex every second of the day because i'm a guy.
Sorry but real men don't get suckered by promises of sex or the offer of sex.
Those are boys. If you are dating boys, you need to rethink your approach to dating. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/24/2007 8:46:27 PM | | If someone has to ask ...or outright offer it, I'd have to wonder for just what 'prize'awaits me to find in her "Cracker Jack" box. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/24/2007 10:17:42 PM | Yep, been there done that... It all depends on how attractive I find someone... If I really don't find someone attractive then yea I would definately not have a problem saying that I don't want sex...
But if i'm just slightly attracted then saying no is out the door.... And believe me that doesn't happen a lot.... Or at least not with the people I've met, actually it only happened once...  | |
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Posted: 3/25/2007 10:12:47 AM | Hilarious comments guys ... 
I believe that part of my brain is so totally male... 
I have said no... All the while the male part of my brain says... "Fool, like there is nothing else to do tonight... Go for it, have fun, give me some release... Take a good hot shower after, go to the gym have a beer with your friends... Whatever... Do not put me on hold again... You know, at your age use it or lose it!!! Look at the guy... He likes you... He's aching to get in your pants... He is clean, cute and well... God knows what is down there... Don't you want to find out?... Please, please...!!!"
Ok... I suppose a could think about saying no... 
I think I can say no... I think I can say no...  | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/25/2007 12:22:03 PM | | Being a guy everywomen suspects we are incapable of saying no. However I have said No when it was being freely offered ( and no the woman wasn't totally hot.. but she was a long way from ugly. She was attractive enough) I just couldn't see it happening there was no spark on my part. I have also been said no to as well and even though both of us were willing.. she changed her mind and i liked her enough to respect her decision We went out dancing instead and had just good a time | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/25/2007 12:28:10 PM | | Humm.... That is a good question. If there is a bit of physical atraction yes of course why not! Go fo | |
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Posted: 3/27/2007 3:10:15 AM | | i have no problem saying no. i dont care if she is drop dead beautifull, or the uglyest person in the world... we men have times we just dont want to be botherd with it.... like when i get a head ache;;lol | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 3/27/2007 3:52:17 AM | Depends on the person... if theres no sexual attraction, id prob say no. If im in a relationship and a third party wanted sex, Id prob say no...
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 4/4/2007 10:09:46 AM | | I dont outright say no but I'll make sure I'm not put in a situation where such an event may occur. | |
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Posted: 4/4/2007 2:10:56 PM | | Saying no to sex is not a bad idea, depending on the situation that your in. | |
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| Could you say NO to sex
Posted: 4/24/2007 12:43:26 PM | If they are unattractive, yes, very easily, if they are attractive, I mean, if you want to, they want to...why not?
BUNGA2000- Exactly, people don't always PLAN it. Sometimes it just happens. | |
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